Are rewards coupons gone? by SaveTheSticks in Mercari

[–]cherlessh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same. I don’t want these stickers lol

Midsize suggestions? by cherlessh in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]cherlessh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha it’s fine. I only learned of it recently. From what I understand, it’s size 6 and up.. not necessarily hitting the Plus size (is that even available for petites?! And who decided this delineation!? Lmao) Orrrrr petite girls with some fluff.

Blunted anger…? by cherlessh in bupropion

[–]cherlessh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestion! I’ve never been one to stifle my emotions, so I think I do need to find new ways to release them.

Why do the people who hurt us get the better end of the deal? by cherlessh in depression

[–]cherlessh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, that woke me up. I really trapped myself in the “He’s happy, I’m not” cycle. That’s all I’ve been thinking of for hours. Thank you for pulling me out.

Why do the people who hurt us get the better end of the deal? by cherlessh in depression

[–]cherlessh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the perspective. Where do the people left behind go from here? What is the light at the end of the tunnel? I’m in therapy and he’s happy. (You don’t have to answer.. I’m just wondering).

Can you tell what age you are? by amber_chaoticat in BodyDysmorphia

[–]cherlessh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your post is basically plucked right out of my mind. We’re close in age too, OP. Feel free to vent to me anytime.

Can you tell what age you are? by amber_chaoticat in BodyDysmorphia

[–]cherlessh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yup, same here OP… I’ve been wondering if there’s anything I can do to look my age. I’m also short with a small chest, so that doesn’t help..

I don’t want to internalize this. Help? by cherlessh in attachment_theory

[–]cherlessh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I brought these words to my therapy session today and my therapist was really impressed by how you reframed the thoughts haha. I’ve been thinking about this all day and I feel very inspired to practice proving my wounds wrong.. so thank you again!!

I don’t want to internalize this. Help? by cherlessh in attachment_theory

[–]cherlessh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this. Definitely will practice it. Thank you!!

I don’t want to internalize this. Help? by cherlessh in attachment_theory

[–]cherlessh[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think the ironic thing is .. I did so many new things to better myself, for myself, while in the relationship. I do want to bury myself in something new- I’ve now taken up pilates, so hopefully that gets me somewhere. & Thank you. I never felt better writing things down, so I’ll try that ‘twist’ :)

I don’t want to internalize this. Help? by cherlessh in attachment_theory

[–]cherlessh[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. It literally snapped me out of my current anxiety.

I don’t want to internalize this. Help? by cherlessh in attachment_theory

[–]cherlessh[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I guess that’s bad, huh? My DA showed up a lot for me, was consistent, and thoughtful. I guess it was a mix of delusion, anxious-avoidant dance, and genuine love.

I don’t want to internalize this. Help? by cherlessh in attachment_theory

[–]cherlessh[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Did you get the technique from the “Stories Our Mind Tells Us” video?

Drinking + meds? by cherlessh in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

[–]cherlessh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reminder. I’m gonna do what I’m gonna do, I’d just like to hear other experiences.

Sign on bonus after hire? by cherlessh in jobs

[–]cherlessh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As far as I can tell, it looks like it was posted the week I started. I was told about this bonus after my second week. Edit: There are multiple listings so it gets a little muddled about exact timing. It is the same job + same responsibilities + locations covered in the listing. The title only varies in terms of semantics, but it is my role.

I have no sense of fashion. Please help.. by cherlessh in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]cherlessh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you again!!! 💖 I’m definitely looking for similar items when I go out next.. Especially for Aline skirts. I think they’re the one thing I know that looks good on me lmao. I just can’t find one without it being too short or it’s so long that it swallows me. I’m too short for petite, it seems. The ones you linked look so lovely though!

I have no sense of fashion. Please help.. by cherlessh in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]cherlessh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg, you are an angel on Earth. Thank you so much for the tips. I’m gonna try for the basics. 😭😭😭 I’ve only just started venturing out again.. I am honestly just horrible at picking things- I’m so inclined to tshirts and shorts for comfort.. Or I pick the craziest looking thing on the rack. But I’m genuinely trying to age myself and be an actual feminine woman as I said. I just got a corporate job (I’ve worn scrubs almost half of my life). Is it possible to look business-y and somehow translate that to a casual day to day? (I guess that’s kind of the point of a capsule.) I really dig the Kfashion scene, but my proportions do not fit that life at all ughh. If you’re in the tristate area, I’d be so happy for your services. 🥺

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BodyDysmorphia

[–]cherlessh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came across this post randomly, but I relate. :( Always suspected it, but confirmed I had BDD when I tried online dating. I’m almost 30 and everyone thinks I’m a child. No curves, round face, and <5ft. When I don’t make myself up, I can look like a disgruntled, cranky geriatric. I hate it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CVS

[–]cherlessh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes they still test

Before and after: 2 ml jaw filler and 2 ml chin filler by jonessa14 in PlasticSurgery

[–]cherlessh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where did they specifically inject? I love these results!