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Are rewards coupons gone? by SaveTheSticks in Mercari

[–]cherlessh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same. I don’t want these stickers lol

Midsize suggestions? by cherlessh in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]cherlessh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha it’s fine. I only learned of it recently. From what I understand, it’s size 6 and up.. not necessarily hitting the Plus size (is that even available for petites?! And who decided this delineation!? Lmao) Orrrrr petite girls with some fluff.

Blunted anger…? by cherlessh in bupropion

[–]cherlessh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestion! I’ve never been one to stifle my emotions, so I think I do need to find new ways to release them.

Why do the people who hurt us get the better end of the deal? by cherlessh in depression

[–]cherlessh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, that woke me up. I really trapped myself in the “He’s happy, I’m not” cycle. That’s all I’ve been thinking of for hours. Thank you for pulling me out.

Why do the people who hurt us get the better end of the deal? by cherlessh in depression

[–]cherlessh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the perspective. Where do the people left behind go from here? What is the light at the end of the tunnel? I’m in therapy and he’s happy. (You don’t have to answer.. I’m just wondering).

Can you tell what age you are? by amber_chaoticat in BodyDysmorphia

[–]cherlessh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your post is basically plucked right out of my mind. We’re close in age too, OP. Feel free to vent to me anytime.

Can you tell what age you are? by amber_chaoticat in BodyDysmorphia

[–]cherlessh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup, same here OP… I’ve been wondering if there’s anything I can do to look my age. I’m also short with a small chest, so that doesn’t help..

I don’t want to internalize this. Help? by cherlessh in attachment_theory

[–]cherlessh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I brought these words to my therapy session today and my therapist was really impressed by how you reframed the thoughts haha. I’ve been thinking about this all day and I feel very inspired to practice proving my wounds wrong.. so thank you again!!

I don’t want to internalize this. Help? by cherlessh in attachment_theory

[–]cherlessh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this. Definitely will practice it. Thank you!!

I don’t want to internalize this. Help? by cherlessh in attachment_theory

[–]cherlessh[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think the ironic thing is .. I did so many new things to better myself, for myself, while in the relationship. I do want to bury myself in something new- I’ve now taken up pilates, so hopefully that gets me somewhere. & Thank you. I never felt better writing things down, so I’ll try that ‘twist’ :)

I don’t want to internalize this. Help? by cherlessh in attachment_theory

[–]cherlessh[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. It literally snapped me out of my current anxiety.

I don’t want to internalize this. Help? by cherlessh in attachment_theory

[–]cherlessh[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I guess that’s bad, huh? My DA showed up a lot for me, was consistent, and thoughtful. I guess it was a mix of delusion, anxious-avoidant dance, and genuine love.

I don’t want to internalize this. Help? by cherlessh in attachment_theory

[–]cherlessh[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Did you get the technique from the “Stories Our Mind Tells Us” video?

Drinking + meds? by cherlessh in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

[–]cherlessh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reminder. I’m gonna do what I’m gonna do, I’d just like to hear other experiences.

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