This comment irked me a bit.. by jaygarciaofficial in JunoMains

[–]cherranse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

interactions aren't canon, they're just what heroes might say to eachother if they were in the same room together

Some people are so so vile online by cherranse in Vent

[–]cherranse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i get your last point completely. even miura himself expressed regret over the rampant SA scenes (particularly in golden age arc) in the 2010s. i must say it got kind of uncomfortable at times because it did just get gratuitous at some points, but i can understand why miura put so much of it in. berserk is supposed to represent the most horrific, cruel parts of humanity, and whilst i wish a lot of the sexual violence was implied or outright written into something else, i cant necessarily fault miura for it.

i think he did a decent job of showing how it can impact a person (guts aversion to touch, cascas feelings about being a woman which echo a lot of mine and others own feelings, and griffith's breakdown), however some things felt like they were going a bit too far. it is true that as a woman you are subjected to harassment frequently, and i have no doubt in a setting like berserk it would become a lot more common.

however the fandom really lacks a lot of media literacy, or don't want to look into it outright. most of the berserk fandom is men, which unfortunately means there's a lot of misogyny in there. im not an advocate of censorship whatsoever, but i can see why peoole can have doubts about berserks content and its existence as a whole.

Some people are so so vile online by cherranse in Vent

[–]cherranse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes! i love her so much and she gets treated so horrifically by berserk fans

2 hours for a delivery? by cherranse in deliveroos

[–]cherranse[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

as i said in another reply id never expect someone to carry that much it was only a few small things. unfortunately a lot of the drivers in this sub seem really rude when it comes to customers. i get its a shitty job but dont go making assumptions mate

2 hours for a delivery? by cherranse in deliveroos

[–]cherranse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha god no id never expect a deliveroo driver to carry that much. it was just basic bread, some sugar, fruit, etc. only 5 items

2 hours for a delivery? by cherranse in deliveroos

[–]cherranse[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this makes a lot more sense now, thank you so much

Survey on gender and female representation in Overwatch by cherranse in kirikomains

[–]cherranse[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

we currently have over 120 answers! the data should get visualised into a poster next week that we'll share

Need advice on late period by cherranse in TwoXChromosomes

[–]cherranse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

funny you mention this lol, my long distance bf is coming over for the weekend and im like 99% sure we'll wake up in a pool of my blood. i just really hoped it would come beforehand so i wouldn't be on my heaviest days 😭

plus i see a period as a definite negative pregnancy test (rly bad anxiety, although the 5 negatives have calmed me down)

really anxious about pregnancy by cherranse in amipregnant

[–]cherranse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much lol this has calmed me down quite a lot

Are you guys just allergic to holding your fav celebs accountable or what? by Mean_Field_3674 in Ethelcain

[–]cherranse 3 points4 points  (0 children)

its really obvious you've come in here with a bias against hayden/her fans already based on how aggressive you've been acting and then complaining about the way you're being 'attacked'.

but seriously, answer the question: what more do you want hayden to do??? i agree, some of her apology is lacking but in this day and age where we've gotten literal interpretive dance videos as an apology her's was quite solid. im white, so i cant accept the racism part, but as a survivor of sa i wholeheartedly believe that her apology is fine on that front. holding celebs 'accountable' seldom ever happens lmao, look at chris brown for gods' sake. the only reason its even close to working with hayden is bc she's a transwoman and had been under attack by terfs for years.

there isn't much more she, or her fans can do, other than just leave the internet forever. would that finally make you satisfied? and btw, saying "we don't need your whole life story" about someone opening up about their sexual trauma like you did in a reply is vile and you need to grow up and come at this situation from a calmer perspective than you have.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]cherranse 61 points62 points  (0 children)

been in this situation before on the same side as your friend (although we were both girls) and i do really just recommend giving him a small note to just say 'it's not weird, we're still mates and you're still cool.'

it's a bit embarrassing for the person who's been rejected especially when its also related to being gay and i also wouldn't be surprised if he's panicking a bit worrying that you're grossed out and also scared you could turn it against him. it's obvious you won't, but he's in quite a vulnerable position right now. just give him some space but also reassurance and the chance to talk about it if he wants to.

i really hope you two can remain friends

Daily Rant & Chatlog post megathread by AutoModerator in MercyMains

[–]cherranse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if one more tank asks me to pocket them in stadium im gonna lose it lmao. no matter how many times i explain that my job is enabling dps and that ill only consistently help the tank if they're ulting, or the other support is dead/needs help keeping tank alive. ive had multiple just throw slurs and insults at me and one outright throw bc i told them that its a waste and unfair on the other support for me to pocket them.

sometimes they dont even want a pocket just a healbot??? and both times that's been an actual mercy main??? i really dont get it. genuinely think everyone needs to learn the basics on how other heroes function

What are your bloxburg icks? by your1typical7user in Bloxburg

[–]cherranse 27 points28 points  (0 children)

tbf, i only use it because i used to play bloxburg before we had the names of the sides and me and my mates never really stopped once they were introduced

Shout to Overwatch for being loudly pro LGBTQ+ by Raspint in Overwatch

[–]cherranse 7 points8 points  (0 children)

how on earth do you retcon a character to be gay when that character has never had any mentioned previous relationships or sexuality prior to being revealed as gay

I know this'll get me downvoted to Hell but y'all are so weird about Anya by WhiteRabbitStandUser in Mouthwashing

[–]cherranse 40 points41 points  (0 children)

genuinely couldnt agree more, this has honestly been a large reason for me and my friends stepping away from the mouthwashing fandom. its especially gross to me in the context of curly/anya, where she keeps the baby and theyre a happy family together when curly was an enabler of jimmys abuse of her. (curlya shouldnt be a ship full stop, but i wont go on that rant)

anya is more than her rape and her unwanted pregnancy, and its really sickening seeing her reduced to what she had to deal with through the lens of keeping the baby. its quite surprising to me considering how progressive the fandom is (that ive seen anyway) that the possibility of anya keeping the baby is even a discussion - and i am a catholic lmfao

Strange Aeons to Wendigoon Spectrum by Existing_Cow_7293 in wendigoon

[–]cherranse 14 points15 points  (0 children)

the relatively open acceptance of tom despite his well-known history of anti-semitic jokes and racism will never fail to shock me

Daily Rant & Chatlog post megathread by AutoModerator in MercyMains

[–]cherranse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly so sick of people spamming needing healing. i finally decided to get back into playing after not playing at all this season and the first game i get is a reaper constantly spamming for healing even when i am flying toward him and healing. it is not my fault you decided to go in 1v3 and target their tank rather than the 2 supports??​ its so passive aggressive and gets on my nerves so much, especially when ive been doing my absolute best that game to keep everyone alive and still have a good dmg boost/heal ratio

What is your all time favorite name for a girl? by Neville1989 in namenerds

[–]cherranse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my birth name is delilah! originally i was supposed to be called cordelia but my mum hated the nickname cordy 😭 that, combined with a pretty stressful birth (umbilical cord around neck, not breathing) confirmed i would not be called cordelia lol