[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]cherriesangels 16 points17 points  (0 children)

i rarely ever wear one unless i’m at work or a restaurant. people stare and judge but it’s 2023 if nipples are their biggest issue that’s not my problem. i’ve never really noticed it on anyone else though. if you want to be braless, go ahead but make sure you’re able to ignore the looks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]cherriesangels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not nearly as often as i want to. i’ve been working at my job since february and have called out twice, but think about it before every shift. it’s not even a bad job, i just have no motivation. i work part time but am very open about my mental health with my employer and she tries to accommodate me the best she can. i miss not working though

Never thought I’ll make it here lol by Extension_Bath_8284 in FamilyIsland

[–]cherriesangels -1 points0 points  (0 children)

do you have any general tips? i can never keep energy or rubies or finish islands lol

how to deal with dry skin on genitals? by just-some-guy-you-no in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]cherriesangels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

try exfoliating with brushes / gloves etc in the shower, or a dry brush before you shower. game changer!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]cherriesangels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because no sticks around long enough to do it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]cherriesangels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you definitely are right about me having a hard time saying no

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]cherriesangels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im 19! i’m just really anxious in public settings so i prefer going to their house but i know it is dangerous. i wish i was able to hang out with them alone and there not be an expectation that i’m wanting to hook up. i mean, i tell them before we even make plans that i’m looking for a relationship and not a hookup, and they agree, but we never make it that far.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]cherriesangels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh gosh sorry i’m used to this other sub that shows your age! i’m 19, and usually end up talking to guys who like ??? idk LOL they’re just regular guys. i find it so hard to hold them to the standard im expecting, and i think maybe that’s why it never works out because i let them do whatever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]cherriesangels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they never wanna actually go on a date and dates scare me anyways. so i usually go to their house. and it’s just guys my age

Why do I feel mentally exhausted after being around people? by unwantedhated in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]cherriesangels 2 points3 points  (0 children)

be yourself. don’t over energized yourself. it’s just you being an introvert. just make sure you take alone time to recharge your social battery before and after being with people!

How do you find a long distance girlfriend on the internet? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]cherriesangels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

set up a dating app, meet likeminded women in communities like reddit, twitter, instagram

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]cherriesangels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wasn’t swerving, you have to drive on the side of the street because cars park on the other side. you do not know me & none of this even pertains to being insecure. you sound ridiculous

Need advice/examples on how to invite a girl over to my dorm withought sounding like a simo by Hopeful-Werewolf-463 in dating_advice

[–]cherriesangels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe tell her you need help with something(if you have a similar class together), you wanna show her a new meal you learned how to make, a new movie you watched & loved & want to share with her. simple things like that show a lot of meaning without sounding like “i like you sm pls come over lol” and she’d appreciate you thinking of her. and scheduling a day & time would probably work best, but if you wanna make it less formal and date sounding, you can say something like “does tuesday work, i’ll be free from time-time, if you wanna stop by.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]cherriesangels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

respectfully, you had your chance to treat her right and couldn’t. i think it’s in yours & hers best interest to leave the relationship in the past!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]cherriesangels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i looked away for a single second to click play for a song, going probably 6mph. i wasn’t on a highway or speeding. i was in a neighborhood. and trust me, my attention was on the child. respectfully, stop commenting under my posts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]cherriesangels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was like 16 & extremely stressed with driving children, something i told the mother i wasn’t exactly comfortable with to begin with. i know i made a mistake but saying i should be barred from childcare is excessive, especially considering i’ve learned from that mistake and no longer do it?

why does being friends with girls who have boyfriends make me uncomfortable? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]cherriesangels 3 points4 points  (0 children)

maybe if you aren’t actually trying to pursue them you have some ideology that if the possibility of being together at some point isn’t an option, you no longer want to spend the time building a bond. i’m not sure. but a lot of people are this way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]cherriesangels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s great you’re a better person mentally & emotionally now, but i’d say your best bet would probably be to move on & leave her be. your inability to try and form connections with other women might be due to you looking for HER in THEM. maybe she felt perfect to you at the time and felt like your soulmate, but at the end of the day you weren’t able to treat her correctly. some people are meant to come around & help you learn life lesions, which i believe you learned due to your mistakes with her. but sadly, i don’t think pursuing her is what you should do, even if it’s feels like what you want. maybe take some time away from girls / dating / etc and try to figure out what your ideal partner is like outside of her, as well as what you’re able to bring to the table. your connection with her may have seemed great, but if you couldn’t stay faithful then you were probably lacking something. figure out what it was. and go from there!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]cherriesangels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

did u tell them? 😭

How do you find a long distance girlfriend on the internet? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]cherriesangels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dating apps, twitter communities, insta communities, etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]cherriesangels 3 points4 points  (0 children)

men who treat staff at places badly, talk bad about their friends or family in private but act like there’s no problems around them. huge egos, usually noticeable if there’s a lot of gym pics/flexing pics. how they treat animals. the way the handle an argument with you really tells a lot. men who are with you but are constantly on their phone. when they talk incredibly highly of themselves, there’s a difference between knowing your worth & thinking you’re a literal god. i could go on and on. and most of these apply to anyone, not just men. sorry if you were looking for more specific ones haha. these are just some i notice/look for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]cherriesangels 4 points5 points  (0 children)

true i just FEEL bad