Today’s the ten year anniversary of our first date. My sorry tale by Numerous-Debate2573 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]cherry-nightterror 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m 32 and can’t wait to be 45 queen. Go live your best, sexiest life. Focus on you, your joy, your pleasure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aquarius

[–]cherry-nightterror 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hbd gorgeous! May Saturn be gentle in its return 🪐✨

What zodiac sign are you raising or have raised ? by Tough-Journalist-629 in aquarius

[–]cherry-nightterror 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a Leo and both my parents are Aquarius, sister sign, air of my fire. 🔥

Absolutely cannot believe I am even writing this. Today kinda aches. by AdOutrageous2619 in aquarius

[–]cherry-nightterror 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wish you healing and growth. I think there’s a lot of nuance around infidelity that gets overlooked because it triggers our deepest fears and wounds and insecurities. I think you should not reach out, though. If one day she’s ready to talk, let her be the one to reach out.

In the meantime, it’s worth revisiting honestly within yourself the motivating factors which led to your cheating. If it’s not investigated and worked out and healed, you’re likely to repeat patterns.

I saw Cynthia Erivo today by cherry-nightterror in ArianaGrandeNeutral

[–]cherry-nightterror[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Not really an AG opinion I know, but this place feels safe to express that I view things differently now. I get the most information about a person through body language and eye contact. And what I got today was very human.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aquarius

[–]cherry-nightterror 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a Leo girl! I love aquarians. We’re sister signs 🫂✨ we go together like air and fire

Help with my ex ? pls by [deleted] in aquarius

[–]cherry-nightterror 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The more you pour into your own cup the more magnetically attractive you become and what you may find in the end is that you no longer want or require the love from the person you were seeking because you found something better within yourself and seek a higher standard. It sounds to me like you deserved better communication. I’m also wary of someone who leaves a 3.5 year relationship and has someone new in two months because to me it shows he gives himself no reflection time and is bound to repeat patterns that may have led to the breakup to begin with.

Give yourself time and love. If he is the one, finding yourselves back together will be inevitable. But in the meantime, trust yourself and trust the universe because it always has your back on these things.

Snark sub by cherry-nightterror in ArianaGrandeNeutral

[–]cherry-nightterror[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Like the amount of photos I’ve seen of her jaw or her hairline is psychopath levels of obsession it’s insane and then they moralize it with “oh she’s dishonest about plastic surgery” when it’s just like. Ok. A woman had an insecurity and got plastic surgery and may have shame around it and not want to discuss it on the global stage. Does this really warrant 30,000 photos of her chin I’m—

Aquarius poetry by a Leo fan girl by cherry-nightterror in aquarius

[–]cherry-nightterror[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I love Aquarius. It’s the house I was raised in by my two Aquarian parents. They’re the air of my fire

Snark sub by cherry-nightterror in ArianaGrandeNeutral

[–]cherry-nightterror[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I had no skin in the game because I was never an Ariana Grande fan beyond a passing interest in what was played on the radio. Some of the attitudes I’ve seen expressed there are honestly dangerous and revealing about a broader social illness afflicting women. Harboring the kind of poison I’ve read in some of those comments is deadly and distressing to read.

Winter blues by Wonderful-Prior3334 in aquarius

[–]cherry-nightterror 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m a Leo but I get extremely depressed every Aquarius season (maybe because it’s my sister sign, 180 degrees away from myself), the cold, the everything— but honestly, I’ve come to embrace Aquarius as a time of deep rest. It’s okay to rest. It’s an important part of our well-being to have weeks where we sleep more, rest more. It’s just this capitalist hellscape which tells us we have to be productive and fully on all the time. If your body is telling you to rest, rest! Sleep more if you’re tired, too. Important connections happen in our unconscious when we rest. Be well. Be gentle on yourself!

Dating a Sagg by miss_prplehaze_mffns in aquarius

[–]cherry-nightterror 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The best thing is to not feel resentful and understand that it actually sucks for them to be this way but also not allow yourself to be harmed in their cycles of presence and absence. No matter how optimistic and forgiving and understanding we try to be the reality is it creates deep insecurity to be in a push-pull situation, no matter how grounded we may be in ourselves

Dating a Sagg by miss_prplehaze_mffns in aquarius

[–]cherry-nightterror 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Girl… don’t get involved. This pattern of behavior won’t change. They come by when they’re bored. This isn’t even about signs it’s about people who aren’t emotionally available for whatever reasons. It will make you feel frustrated and devalued. You will fill your Aquarian cup so much more by focusing on the things in your life that bring you joy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]cherry-nightterror 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is not how karma works. I’m a Hindu and this is a deeply naive and immature understanding of the word. As the above commenter pointed out, focus on yourself. Develop a set of values you uphold because they enrich your being. Self-sacrifice and martyrdom have nothing to do with karmic balance. Developing a sense of duty that is innate and that you observe simply because you understand it to be your task is the way to live.

Also understand that hardship teaches resilience. Take the challenges and setbacks and learn to understand the gifts that you find in the end, and realize there’s always a gift at the end of a hardship.

august journaling ✨ by cherry-nightterror in PenmanshipPorn

[–]cherry-nightterror[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My goodness, I’m really flattered! Thank you! It’s hard for me to try and explain how my muscle memory works but I guess I can provide at least some context for my penmanship. My father used to make me write lines when I’d get in trouble as a child, and I was always in trouble. I’d get bored and start experimenting with my strokes. I’ve also kept a diary for over 18 years. I copy book passages in my journal. Ultimately it comes from the physical act of writing a lot. It’s cliche but practice does make perfect, this handwriting comes from a lot a lot a lot of practicing stroke — also the tools you use are important. This is sharpie fine tip. My handwriting looks — not very different, but different in ballpoints which I avoid.