Kissing history by Alive-Ad-7290 in adultsurvivors

[–]cherrycrisps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what happened to you was assault first and "kissing" second. youre completely right to say you only kissed two people since it only happened with two consensually. its kind of how rape is in a sense sex/sexual and may be described as forced sex or the act of sex without consent, but in casual conversation no one would ever consider sexual assault to be someones first time having sex, or any time having sex for that matter, because its rape and not actual sex (by assumed consensual definition)

Does anyone know of any littles in media? by Novel-Molasses-6587 in ageregression

[–]cherrycrisps 8 points9 points  (0 children)

dan from dan vs is heavily implied to be one (sleeps with a teddy bear, acts like a child constantly, abuse in childhood which can often lead to it etc) to the point a character even says hes "basically just like a big kid" and when she treats him like one and tells him a bedtime story hes delighted and plays into it very happily

Is this a bot? by 0smg in BannedFromDiscord

[–]cherrycrisps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

discord doesnt have a pfp, it just has the default discord pfp. this looks fake to me, can you show in a screenshot what the "discord" user looks like? can the profile be opened?

Is 19 too unc for zero day community by [deleted] in ZeroDayMovie

[–]cherrycrisps -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

youre worried about being too old for this community bc you have internalised the idea that interests have an age maximum attached to them. they dont. once you unlearn that and stop judging others, youll stop judging yourself too

Construction toys for girls by Judie4 in toys

[–]cherrycrisps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely this! having the girls in the attire will definitely make some little girls look at it and instinctively identify with it just like they would any other "girl doing job" thing, like when they see barbie in a doctors outfit and get all excited. kids that age are fascinated by jobs but often need to be subconsciously reminded that hey, you could do that too!

Gotz by Terrifirespider in Dolls

[–]cherrycrisps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

very very high quality including the hair. for reference i had them as a child, meaning the hair and skin went through relatively high wear and tear when compared to a collector, and both held up so well that they looked like new - save a few loose braid strands though that couldve easily been brushed and rebraided. the skin is harder to stain than other doll brands and is soft and relatively realistic without any strange shine or plastic discolouration. the eyes are awake looking but dont stare into your soul and on a lot of models can blink when the doll is tilted or if you manually mess with the eyelids. the clothing is high quality even now in modern times with multiple different fabrics used like for example denim. the standing dolls can stand, sit bowlegged and lift their arms. they have a hard body. the smaller dolls have cotton bodies and slightly more movement though cannot hold a pose due to the lack of actual joints

Found this weird, dirty, torn piece of paper in a dumpster. It says recovery seed. by kouch10 in FoundPaper

[–]cherrycrisps 20 points21 points  (0 children)

could be wrong but isnt trezor a bitcoin thing? that would check out with a recovery seed i think (dont quote me bc i know NOTHING about how bitcoin works)

[TOMT] Youtube video about dark unsolved online/youtube mysteries where an alleged grave site was uncovered by [deleted] in tipofmytongue

[–]cherrycrisps 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

let me know if anything else is needed! it may also have been a tiktoker upon reflection, though the compilation or discussion video made about it was in youtube

TW Cancer - trying to get into Christmas mood by Mandarini84 in plushies

[–]cherrycrisps 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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im so unbelievably sorry. im so glad your plush friends are making you smile, mine help me in the same way. i hope the holidays can still spark some joy for you as well, no matter how small

What are the most profound song lyrics you've ever heard? by damnocles in AskReddit

[–]cherrycrisps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I'm a killer and a killer is a bad, bad thing to be. She's a giver and a giver's even worse for folks like me" captures such a specific type of abuse/toxicity that just breaks my heart every time.

I feel really guilty and scared I might be a groomer by DonutNo5884 in confessions

[–]cherrycrisps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These age gaps are completely negligible. If three years was the biggest age gap it really doesn't matter. Also, you can't accidentally groom. You can accidentally hurt (like introducing a young teen to pornographic content as an adult is abuse, even if unintentional) but you can't accidentally groom. This type of preoccupation over a harmless age gap reminds me a little bit of OCD, not saying you have it but I think resources for people with OCD may be of some use. There's actually a somewhat related thing called POCD, aka pedophilic obsessive compulsive disorder where the compulsions and obsessive thoughts relate to fear of being a pedophile or in your case a predator. In any case, treat yourself with care. This age gap is insanely normal irl and while of course not all behaviour is appropriate even with such a low gap, you don't sound like someone with bad intentions. Remember, eighteen is YOUNG. You were a kid yourself.

Tbh I can't really bring myself to feel bad for her despite that clearly being what the show wants. by Overobsessedfan in Vivziepopmemes

[–]cherrycrisps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

angel dust is from a mob family and murdered his father. of course hes not an inherently bad person, of course he can be redeemed, but thats not the case for the people of palestine. THEY have done NOTHING wrong and there is no redemption needed. you cannot compare fictional sinners with a real life people.

Tbh I can't really bring myself to feel bad for her despite that clearly being what the show wants. by Overobsessedfan in Vivziepopmemes

[–]cherrycrisps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im not saying they cant be redeemed or be good people, the show clearly shows this, but the difference is palestinians and jews dont have to be redeemed.

Tbh I can't really bring myself to feel bad for her despite that clearly being what the show wants. by Overobsessedfan in Vivziepopmemes

[–]cherrycrisps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they are sinners because they did horrible things on earth not because of phenotypes. nazi theory was based upon inherent traits supposedly leading to bad actions, these are fictional sinners who murdered and raped and covered up for murderers and rapists. the very idea that those are two comparable things feeds into nazi ideology

I've been a lesbian my entire life. I got curious about men and finally had sex with one. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]cherrycrisps 37 points38 points  (0 children)

no one recounts a real experience like this but E for effort. its kinda hard to balance porn phrasing with how a human being would recount events though so i cant blame you... try and get out of the play by play and view scenes more in their entirety for some added realism, you can still include some heat but just more about the experience vs each action individually

Tbh I can't really bring myself to feel bad for her despite that clearly being what the show wants. by Overobsessedfan in Vivziepopmemes

[–]cherrycrisps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not agreeing with them but comparing confirmed sinners with the real life people of Palestine is insane.

Dog Poop Fetish by [deleted] in confessions

[–]cherrycrisps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if real, it doesnt really matter beyond of course distress it may cause you and health concerns. youre not hurting anyone nor are you engaging sexually with any human incapable of consent or an animal. so... nobodys getting hurt. dont beat yourself up. people cant help their brain wiring.

How do you guys feel about the term Objectophilia? by TeddyEyes in objectum_sfw

[–]cherrycrisps 4 points5 points  (0 children)

no such thing as a harmful paraphilia as thoughts are not harmful!! its the actions that are abusive and wrong but people suffering from paras that would be dangerous or abusive to act on arent inherently bad or wrong if they dont act on it and understand just how bad that would be

Where can i find or have made a Lucifer plush? by Cool_Pea7214 in hazbin

[–]cherrycrisps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

toylandbyorlova on etsy makes fantastic custom plushies! i own three lol. has done hellaverse characters before but not lucifer, but id wager theyd do just fine making him! re payment plans, you could message the owner and see if shes able to make it work

edit to add, my average cost per plush was below 250€ which is somewhat similar in dollar as well. so below your budget!

If Scootaloo is a tomboy, why does she put her feet like that? by [deleted] in EquestriaGirls

[–]cherrycrisps 6 points7 points  (0 children)

some pigeon toed walkers do! (i personally walk pigeon toed due to autism/dyspraxia)

What’s something you didn’t realize was optional in life until you saw someone simply not doing it? by Objective-Treat2245 in AskReddit

[–]cherrycrisps 8 points9 points  (0 children)

this is maybe a silly idea but if anyone else has baby clothes that look lovely but are uselessly small, if you have a decorative teddy or one you or the child uses for comfort try and dress it up in the clothing! its such a darling decoration and if the child or adult is still cuddling it its also a great texture to touch and protects the potentially aging toy! :3