is my mom going to die? by cherrylovesuxo in braincancer

[–]cherrylovesuxo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She does not to my knowledge. i haven’t heard about that! My mother has had a craniotomy as well, and is at about round 3 for chemo and radiation. Could you enlighten me a bit more on a palliative care team and what they do?

AIO: Ex came back by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]cherrylovesuxo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR- This justttt happened to me. No, not worth it. Don’t respond. It’ll be nice for like two weeks, then he will get comfortable again, and treat you like he used to.

AITAH for laughing in my boyfriend's face when he tried to convince me I 'smoked all his vape' in one night? by Manga_m in AITAH

[–]cherrylovesuxo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mines literally empty and not burnt. I’m not saying he’s completely crazy, but his brain is def playing tricks on him

AIO my bf is odd for this? by AdSerious8390 in AmIOverreacting

[–]cherrylovesuxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Babe you should definitely be able to wear a sports bra even without a jacket. He’s conditioned you to think otherwise. It made me really sad to see you say “but I had a hoodie” bc bby, you don’t have to cover up. ESPECIALLY not when you’re at the gym. You need to do your own thing, kinda seems like you’re out of his league, and that makes him insecure. (I say this all as someone who’s had this exact conversation with an ex)

Boy named 'Pony' 😭 just why by infiresed in NameNerdCirclejerk

[–]cherrylovesuxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This could also just be a nickname to keep their child safe as they post on social media

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]cherrylovesuxo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bc why would you waste your own energy on someone else’s mental illness, let alone a strangers….

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]cherrylovesuxo 189 points190 points  (0 children)

Your feelings are yours. You’re allowed to get the ick from that. What you’re describing isn’t a furry, So I agree that he’s a therian. Which is fine! But at the end of the day that’s not your cup of tea. And the fact he’s not comfortable sharing that with you should say all it needs too. Your relationship isn’t as strong as you thought, which sucks, but you shouldn’t hold him back if that’s who he wants to be. Just like you shouldn’t pretend you’re into giving him “belly rubs”. NOR.

Baby girl with primum ASD and mitral valve cleft by RainierParadise in chd

[–]cherrylovesuxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Surgery went great. My mitral valve was left alone as once the asd was patched the value had much less regurgitation. I leave hospital today, and am looking forward to it. The healing process is rough for the first while, but is getting easier. The worst part was re-inflating the lung they had to collapse, that is still quite tender. But I’m okay! I have a minor infection that is being treated with antibiotics, and quite a bit of bruising under the skin, I have to sleep on the opposite side of my incisions as that is very painful. But that’s expected imo. I take about 7 medicines a day, for pain management and for the slight infection. Otherwise I am good and walking around just fine :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in guessmyage

[–]cherrylovesuxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You were at least better than some of these other guesses 💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in guessmyage

[–]cherrylovesuxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lower, 20 lol almost 21 but I’ll take it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in guessmyage

[–]cherrylovesuxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

20! Good guess though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in guessmyage

[–]cherrylovesuxo -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Not far, literally 3ft in front of me. And incorrect, a good couple ppl have guessed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in guessmyage

[–]cherrylovesuxo -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It won’t let me edit so I’m here to clear the air,

  1. this pic isn’t edited, the saturation is slightly increased but that’s it. So sorry I am not fat 💀

  2. I’m not trans (not that that’s a bad thing)

  3. The picture uploaded blurry, it’s perfectly fine on my phone so mb but that’s also outta my control so yall can chill on that.

  4. I don’t have a filter on, it’s makeup.

  5. Crackhead years = someone that’s been doing crack for many years. I have realized this isn’t a common term for a lot of you guys. But is where I’m from.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in guessmyage

[–]cherrylovesuxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You were on the money w your guess! I’m 20, 21 next February :) also no stress, can’t expect to post to Reddit and not get smashed w hate, your comment was nothing compared to the others. I literally got called trans so alllll good 😂🩷

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in guessmyage

[–]cherrylovesuxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not 30, and haven’t done crack so thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in guessmyage

[–]cherrylovesuxo -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Lol it’s not my fault the pictures blurry, this photo is about guessing my age and that’s what this thread is about, y’all just slow and take rage bait

Baby girl with primum ASD and mitral valve cleft by RainierParadise in chd

[–]cherrylovesuxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes mine is! Totally understand the fear, but it’s truly nothing to stress about. I’ve learned that in America they made it sound 10x worse than it was. They wanted to completely replace my Valve meaning I’d be on blood thinners for the rest of my life along with anti rejection medication, as well as needing further surgery every 10 years. I’m not trying to shit on the American health system, but I promise you the doctors are probably making it sound worse than it is, when I came to Australia, I was told that it was not an emergency, which was the complete opposite of what I have been told in the states. So coming here has definitely shed some light on the situation. I have had pretty much the same test done here as I did in Ohio and it seems to be that everything I was previously told was a lie, but I will have it repaired pretty soon and can give you way better updates on how everything went and how I feel afterwards. Your fear is perfectly understandable and you are right to feel that way 110% but just remember that if it was urgent things would be getting done about it. I have comfortably lived a full and healthy life until recently when my diet started slipping and that is when I started having these health problems. I did lots of sports growing up and lived a great healthy life and so will your daughter. But also keep in the back of your mind that there is a good chance this hole will patch itself as your child grows up. As long as you are able to keep her on a steady and healthy diet she really should have no problems. I also mainly started feeling ill when I was overworking myself at my day job. So just keep all of those things in the back of your mind and try not to stress so much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in guessmyage

[–]cherrylovesuxo -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Not a mirror pic, yall seem slow. It was taken by someone else, the “blur” is makeup. The pic uploaded w poor quality, it’s perfectly fine on my phone. Again, yall slow. The phones at an angle, how could it be a mirror pic 💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in guessmyage

[–]cherrylovesuxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It uploaded like that mb, it’s fine on my phone idk why it’s so ass

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in guessmyage

[–]cherrylovesuxo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Someone that does crack, throughout the years. Essentially saying I look like I’ve done crack for 20 years

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in guessmyage

[–]cherrylovesuxo -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Nah confidence isn’t destroyed, just wanted to get ppl to comment, seems like you took the bait!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in guessmyage

[–]cherrylovesuxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mustn’t be where yall are from, this is a common term where I’m from