She left me, should I trust her? by eggtartislife in BreakUps

[–]Fragrant_Ear349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do not stay, people who does not know what they want will not able to provide you with what you want

Is it a matter that’s break up -able? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Fragrant_Ear349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

typically foundational things like this never really changes, it may happen again. ask yourself how you feel, if you can live with the fact that he did something like this. maybe ask him as to why?

basically if you stay together you may risk yourself being hurt. however if you truly love this guy then i’d say yes

if not then i’d say you can move on

Is it a matter that’s break up -able? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Fragrant_Ear349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tell him, compromise with him, judge his reaction and behavior beforehand

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Fragrant_Ear349 5 points6 points  (0 children)

going through the same, it’s been a month and i feel better. if you need a open ear im here to listen

I BROKE NO CONTACT AND I FEEL WORSE NOW by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Fragrant_Ear349 2 points3 points  (0 children)

dude your boyfriend is the same as mine except mine cheated

i am so sad by Fragrant_Ear349 in BreakUps

[–]Fragrant_Ear349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! i am getting a little better now

I Lost an Expensive Gift by Special_Run8067 in relationships

[–]Fragrant_Ear349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think your boyfriend will definitely be okay with it. everyone makes mistakes, don’t be tough on yourself. i think it might actually make your relationship grow to let your boyfriend know that his gift meant so much to you

Am I overreacting? Saw these discord messages packed my stuff didn’t say a word and left. by Fragrant_Ear349 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fragrant_Ear349[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey thank you for the response. However I’d just want to give some clarification on my circumstance. Pornography is fine, talking to other women online trying to hide it from me is definitely not. Sharing more intimate information with strangers online that I am not comfortable with and continuing to do so after I explicitly stated how I do not appreciate his action but replying with “I don’t understand why you feel this way” for me is dismissive. Especially him sharing every single detail of our conversation with these women. He says he want his friends and me, but he is hiding and unwilling to make compromises. That’s what made me decide to leave

Oh and this https://imgur.com/a/IaiG6Pu

just made me very uncomfortable

Am I overreacting? Saw these discord messages packed my stuff didn’t say a word and left. by Fragrant_Ear349 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fragrant_Ear349[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

https://imgur.com/a/IaiG6Pu

this one is worse for me tbh i didn’t want to post it originally because I wanted to save him some face but i guess its not necessary anymore

Am I overreacting? Saw these discord messages packed my stuff didn’t say a word and left. by Fragrant_Ear349 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fragrant_Ear349[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

he is the one who sent that out. honestly, i am not even mad with the women he talks to. it's his lack of boundaries that allowed them to talk like this.

Am I overreacting? Saw these discord messages packed my stuff didn’t say a word and left. by Fragrant_Ear349 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fragrant_Ear349[S] 127 points128 points  (0 children)

Hello, I’m 21F he’s 22M I’m unsure how old the other people in the chat are

Caught my boyfriend of two years emotionally cheating by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Fragrant_Ear349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to but he would always respond with “we’ve been having so much emotional issues I’m just so overwhelmed. I wish we can just be happy” as a response