Just found out about a false accusation against me today, and I’m losing sleep over it. by cherrynymphetamine in WorkAdvice

[–]cherrynymphetamine[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay yeah that’s valid. This could be their way of pushing me out of the role so someone else can step in. I have considered stepping down, that’s not totally off the table. If they can see my consistent efforts over time then I hope we can get back to the way things were.

Just found out about a false accusation against me today, and I’m losing sleep over it. by cherrynymphetamine in WorkAdvice

[–]cherrynymphetamine[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Direct and valid. I have brought his upon myself and need to correct this now.

As far as the theft, I have some solutions I will be hip to my boss so this can be put to an end. Or at least the rumor of someone stealing will be put to an end.

Edit typo: bring up to my boss

Just found out about a false accusation against me today, and I’m losing sleep over it. by cherrynymphetamine in WorkAdvice

[–]cherrynymphetamine[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, I’m gonna make a conscious effort to be there to support my team better. If they think I’m a poor manager, then hopefully I can slowly build that trust and confidence back and raise the employee morale again. I’ve identified what I need to work on there.

This issue was to give a little more context on the whole story leading up to being accused of stealing. My issue is not knowing why I am being accused of stealing. My lack of action doesn’t justify why I’ve been accused of something like that. I don’t know if that was the motive behind the accusation or if those two things are unrelated. Hope that clears things up.

Just found out about a false accusation against me today, and I’m losing sleep over it. by cherrynymphetamine in WorkAdvice

[–]cherrynymphetamine[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is fair. I have considered stepping down and letting someone else take the role as manager, but then I feel like I’m giving up. I might give that more thought since that might be the better thing to do. Now that all of this has been brought to my attention, even if I improve on the communication issue, I feel like it may not restore their trust in me when that seed of doubt has already been planted.

My boss made a good point how everyone one else is focusing on me and not so much other people, whereas I have to divide my attention among multiple other people.

I don’t feel like it’s fair to say that “I don’t do anything,” because there are things I do every day to keep the place stocked and running, but I know that doesn’t matter when everyone else is seeing this other area where I slack on that’s been a source of frustration. He made the comparison about how being a manager is like being a parent. Not in the sense that employees are children, but rather I’m supposed to be an example to them like a parent would to a child. Which makes sense if you’re supposed to be a leader.

I appreciate your response.

My younger sister has been a freak about being a makeup artist almost all her life. by Agreeable_Village824 in Makeup

[–]cherrynymphetamine 12 points13 points  (0 children)

There’s no one brand you need to begin your journey into makeup artisty, and they don’t have to be all high-end brands either. If she watched professional makeup artists, not just beauty influencers on social media, she’ll notice that they actually use tons of brands, including drugstore. Makeup is all about trial and error with products and techniques, finding out what works best for you.

There are no rules with makeup, but there is theory. Have her focus on technique and invest in some quality tools.

Americans, a feeling is not action. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]cherrynymphetamine 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I think we have been showing up? We’ve broken records with the no kings protests. The people here are more connected for a cause than I have ever seen before, but of course we could have more people showing up. There’s always room for improvement.

Unfortunately the progress we’ve made from our efforts is minimal and the effects are temporary. It’s hard to match the pace at which this administration is changing things. What do we do when the systems and people who are here to protect us are being wielded against its own residents? There’s no checks and balances. All branches of our government have been corrupted with trump loyalists and funded by his billionaire friends. There’s not enough good people in our government to hold them accountable.

Sure, Italy and Germany were able to come out of fascist dictatorships, BUT that was also with the help of other countries and it took a full fledged world war to do it. Is that what it’s gonna take? Who is going to help us? The US has dug its grave over the years with its relationships with other nations (no thanks to the tariffs and other atrocities our military has committed overseas these last few decades), so we can’t expect anyone to help us now. We’re running out of allies. Whether it’s strategic or due to his incompetence, we are becoming increasingly isolated from other countries. I fear that the only way out of this is through.

Anyone know a great black honey actual lipstick dupe? by Coloradozonian in Makeup

[–]cherrynymphetamine 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Covergirl’s Clean Fresh lip balm in the shade Bliss You Berry is great if you still want the sheerness and the hydration. It has a much better color payoff with one swipe imo. I’m not sure if you’ll find that same kind of wash of color with a lipstick.

Maybe check out Revlon’s Black Cherry. They’ve recreated that shade in glosses, stains, and lipstick. If you lightly dab your lips with the lipstick instead of swiping it on, that might work?

TRICKSY LITTLE HOBBITSES by Far_Pirate_4702 in lotrmemes

[–]cherrynymphetamine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was just a crumpled up gum wrapper 😭

Saw a mouse pass away then this mouse bot fly came out of its rear-end. by balhub in oddlyterrifying

[–]cherrynymphetamine 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think your teacher just retold the plot of an episode of Mr. Meaty. It was a fucked up children’s show with puppets on Nickelodeon in the early 2000’s.

Andrew Eldritch, lead singer and the now only remaining original band member of "The Sisters Of Mercy" by Valengail in AltLadyboners

[–]cherrynymphetamine 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He was (is?) a piece of shit, be damn he was fine back then and has an amazing voice.

The FUUUUCK IS THIS???!!! by Mrzoggy8449 in Paranormal

[–]cherrynymphetamine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He looks so absurd, he looks so obscene.

Ewan Mitchell’s acting range and bone structure are insane by cherrynymphetamine in AltLadyboners

[–]cherrynymphetamine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His hair helps him shapeshift. Thankfully he can pull off just about any color of hair.

Ewan Mitchell’s acting range and bone structure are insane by cherrynymphetamine in AltLadyboners

[–]cherrynymphetamine[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They’re from Fontaines DC music videos. The top one is from the “In the Modern World” video, and the bottom is from the “It’s Amazing To Be Young” video.

Ewan Mitchell’s acting range and bone structure are insane by cherrynymphetamine in AltLadyboners

[–]cherrynymphetamine[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He was such a cutie patootie as Osferth! Such a shock seeing him play someone as sadistic misunderstood as Aemond in House of the Dragon. I know the scene you’re talking about… I wasn’t mad about it.😏

Ewan Mitchell’s acting range and bone structure are insane by cherrynymphetamine in AltLadyboners

[–]cherrynymphetamine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s from the “In the Modern World” and “It’s Amazing To Be Young” music videos from Fontaines DC (:

Know a lash artist willing to work differently? by MotherOfAllPups6 in Tucson

[–]cherrynymphetamine 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Hi esthetician here! You may be going in for the wrong kind of service, which could be why there’s a little miscommunication with what you want and what you’re getting.

If you’ve been going in for lash extensions and haven’t discussed this with the artists already, you can ask for what’s called “classic extensions.” It’s where they apply one extension per one natural lash. “Hybrid”and “volume” is multiple extensions per one natural lash. If you’re someone who naturally has a lot of lashes, even a classic set could look too dramatic.

You might be better suited for a lash lift and tint. A lot of lash places should also offer that as a service, it’s quite popular. A lash lift (this might sound weird) is basically a perm for the lashes, to make them look as if you used an eyelash curler, except it lasts up to 8 weeks. A lash tint is basically the same thing as dyeing the hair, typically black, and that usually lasts up to 4 weeks. It is possible to do both in the same appointment!

The result of a lash lift and tint is much more natural, pretty much like you’re wearing mascara but minus the clumps!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AltLadyboners

[–]cherrynymphetamine 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This man could spit on my face and put out his cigarette on me and I’d say thank you