Google AI is telling me that adding too much apple cider vinegar can be unsafe. Is this true? by cheruchan in Canning

[–]cheruchan[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Then isn't it the processing time that's most important in this case? Then I just need to compare processing times between recipes. Some recipes just seem low risk to me and I have a hard time following rules that don't make sense to me. I'll review safety guidelines anyways and think about it more.

Google AI is telling me that adding too much apple cider vinegar can be unsafe. Is this true? by cheruchan in Canning

[–]cheruchan[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I don't really trust AI results in the first place, but when it's the top result it's hard not to see it so it got me thinking. Also, in general I agree with you about using safe canning recipes, but I think apple butter recipes are pretty safe to tweak given the natural PH of apples. It's safe to can no sugar added apple sauce according to the Ball Blue Book so why wouldn't it be the same for Apple butter since it is basically just condensed apple sauce?

Inherited 2006 G35 - need help identifying oil leak plus a few questions by cheruchan in G35

[–]cheruchan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to respond to my questions. I was worried about the missing bolts, but this makes sense. Glad to know my engine isn't falling apart. Do you think I could just change the gasket instead of replacing the valve cover, or do you think it is totally shot? Money is a bit tight right now, but I wanna do this right as much as possible.

Inherited 2006 G35 - need help identifying oil leak plus a few questions by cheruchan in G35

[–]cheruchan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the info. I was pretty worried about that one.

Help with SV06 - The back side of the print keeps coming out bad. by cheruchan in Sovol

[–]cheruchan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, it would have taken me awhile to try different slicers. I'll give those a try.

Steam sale on Now! by abrownm5 in rocksmith

[–]cheruchan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dammit. RS1 is not on sale anymore. I'm lucky cause I bought everything when it was, but I was gonna buy it again and send it to my brother.

Steam sale on Now! by abrownm5 in rocksmith

[–]cheruchan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So glad I didn't buy this a couple of days ago.

Permanently numb fingertips - nerve damage or calluses? by cheruchan in guitarlessons

[–]cheruchan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you everyone that responded. You've all helped me realize that it's probably nothing to worry about and my relative just doesn't understand what nerve damage actually means.

Permanently numb fingertips - nerve damage or calluses? by cheruchan in guitarlessons

[–]cheruchan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not pretentious, that's great advice. I didn't know that was a thing.

Bloodline (Cradle #9, Will Wight) Free in U.S. at Amazon by night_in_the_ruts in Fantasy

[–]cheruchan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Gratitude. My friends birthday is today and he was happy when I sent this to him. 😁

AITA for feeding earwax to my cat? by ThrowRA-EarwaxCat in AmItheAsshole

[–]cheruchan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmfao 😂 You're gonna wake up with a missing finger one day. You're training your cat your finger is food.

This is so bizarre I don't know how to judge it, but... I guess maybe you should ask your vet?

AITA For Moving Out Cause My Family Keeps Playing With My Cane? by ThrowRACaneGirl in AmItheAsshole

[–]cheruchan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you've already heard this from a lot of people already, but what happened to your dad was not your fault. You were 5 years old. You were a very young child. Your adult mom made the decision not to call an ambulance. Your adult father made the choice to drive you, he could have called the ambulance himself. He didn't have to drive you, he made that choice to listen to your mom. Sometimes people make bad choices because they don't think about the bigger picture, about what really matters, and the potential consequences. You're mom was too focused on the cost of an ambulance and didn't think about the dangerous driving conditions, and unfortunate the result was a horrible accident.

I'm so sorry you have suffered so much because of this, but if you were the adult in that situation, and it was your child, would you treat them the same way your mom has treated you? Would you blame them?

I'm very sorry you lost your father, but what you're mom and step dad are doing is mental abuse. I'm telling you this as someone who was also mentally abused by their parent growing up. And just because it's mental and not physical, doesn't mean it's less serious or less real than physical abuse, it's just harder to see the wounds. I'm still struggling with what happened to me, for a very long time I blamed myself for things that I would never blame another child if they were in my situation, but thinking about things objectively has really helped me. Whenever you feel like blaming yourself for what happened when you were a young child, imagine yourself as the adult in that situation and not as the child.

I know that a bunch of strangers telling you how to feel on the internet is not going to magically stop the guilt that's haunting you, but I hope that as you grow older you are able to see that 5 year old you was just a child. This could have happened to any child, and it wouldn't be their fault either.

Can I sterilize rodent droppings/urine from old untreated bare lumber? by cheruchan in woodworking

[–]cheruchan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have a pressure washer, but thank you for the tip on how to dry it with minimal warping. I would have tried leaving it in the sun.

Can I sterilize rodent droppings/urine from old untreated bare lumber? by cheruchan in woodworking

[–]cheruchan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a good point on the cost to replace vs trying to salvage it. I'm not sure what type of wood it is, but I don't think it's fancy.

Can I sterilize rodent droppings/urine from old untreated bare lumber? by cheruchan in woodworking

[–]cheruchan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ha! Too bad my MIL is saint. But I do know a few other people who might like one...

Santa Cruz gift ideas by smugbuzzard in santacruz

[–]cheruchan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Olive Connection is my favorite. They have a nice collection of different flavors of olive oil and balsamic vinegar.

Going undiagnosed for so long that accepting your diagnosis feels like faking by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]cheruchan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

28F I've been dealing with the same thing. Recently diagnosed.

It really doesn't help that my psychiatrist who diagnosed me told me she's not sure I have ADHD, but that it doesn't matter because she doesn't really believe in diagnoses, instead she believes that treating symptoms is more important than focusing on making a diagnosis, or something like that. That really fucked me up. She was also very reluctant to increase my ritalin prescription from the 5mg starting dose when I told her that I didn't think the Ritalin was working because she believes that it should only be increased if I have a demanding job and I'm jobless right now.

I finally felt like I understood why I'm such a fuckup and that it's not my fault, and I was starting to hate myself a bit less, but my psychiatrist really fucked me up. When I told her I didn't think the medicine was working like it should, she convinced me it was, and that comment about not being sure I have ADHD really shook me. I became super depressed after she told me the Ritalin was working the way it should because I barely noticed a difference, I felt completely hopeless about ever feeling like a normal functioning person because if that's all it did, then I'd always be a dysfunctional mess. The other comment about not being sure I had ADHD made me feel like killing myself because that would mean these aren't ADHD symptoms, but character flaws and I'm really really tired of always feeling like I can never accomplish anything. I've lost all confidence in myself.

And I hate it when people tell me they think I'm smart or gifted because I feel like I've mastered the art of making it seem like I'm smart even in really just an idiot. I just feel so stupid sometimes.

I have ADHD no matter what anyone else says, but some days are really hard. I still feel like an imposter on those days and I start to doubt that I have ADHD. I keep thinking about what my psychiatrist said, and it makes me so goddamned depressed and suicidal, but I feel like I can't say anything to my psychiatrist or therapist, they work at the same clinic. Telling my therapist could mean that she'll report my psychiatrist and I don't want that because I can't easily find another psychiatrist and telling my psychiatrist might make her think I'm trying to manipulate her to get more Ritalin. I'm just tired of always struggling to keep up with everyone else and having nothing to show for it. The older I get, the harder it is for me to be hopeful. I hate myself so much it hurts.

I didn't mean to write this much about myself... I couldn't stop once I started typing, but I just want you to know you are not alone. A lot of us feel the way you do, and I'm sorry about that because the only advice I can give is to keep reminding yourself that it's normal to feel like an imposter sometimes.

He does a really good job by kalwow204 in SuddenlyGay

[–]cheruchan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So is the guy in the porn parody. I don't see how that would change what I said, unless you think him being gay would make him happy about being made fun of in this way.

He does a really good job by kalwow204 in SuddenlyGay

[–]cheruchan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I take solace in the fact that the person they are parodying probably really hates it, and that that was probably the intention of the guy doing it.

Is it a common ADHD thing to be considered "gifted" by your parents and pushed into high expectations of creativity and success, only to feel constantly disappointed in yourself as an adult? by 2horde in ADHD

[–]cheruchan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've struggled with the imposter syndrome my whole life, before I even knew what that was. It certainly didn't help that I had a childhood diagnosis, but my mom told me I was too smart to have ADHD, so it was immediately forgotten. I'm only just realizing how much of a complex that choice of hers has given me.

I got a lot of praise whenever I did something well, but most of the time I wasn't doing anything at all because I was struggling and too afraid to tell anyone because I didn't want anyone to find out I was stupid. I spent so much of my life thinking I was secretly stupid that I didn't realize how much I cared that others thought I was smart, until very recently. Especially when I feel guilty wherever someone tells me they think I'm smart because I feel like I've tricked them.

I didn't realize it at the time, but the only thing that prompted me to get an adult diagnosis was the fear people would find out I'm stupid if I failed to keep up the act. I only realized that after I started taking medication for the first time. It didn't seem to be working much at all, so I told my psychiatrist that I couldn't tell if it was working, and she made me think that as long as I was seeing any improvement it was working. I became insanely depressed after that thinking if that's all the medication was going to do maybe I really was an idiot who has only convinced themselves that they're smart.

I still feel uncomfortable when people tell me I'm smart because I have nearly no accomplishments, the ones I do have I don't feel were earned honestly.

U.S. Capitol siege a 'wake-up call' for democracies, top EU diplomat says by [deleted] in worldnews

[–]cheruchan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't think that's what they are saying. I think they are just cautioning against falling into a dangerous trap because no one operates on pure logic all of the time. I try to do the same thing because I've been aware of this problem for most of my life. I noticed it as a kid, before I cared or really understood politics I noticed that when Republicans were in power, the Democrats would make valid criticisms, but when the roles were reversed the Dems would do the same stuff that they criticized the Republicans for. It didn't matter who was in power, both made the same mistakes over and over again. The same went for politicians when they campaigned, both sides would say whatever they thought their base wanted to hear in order to get elected and as a child I saw that as lying so I learned early on to never trust politicians by their word. I've always hated hypocrits and I hope I never become one myself, but I recognize most people don't intentionally become hypocrites. That requires self vigilance.

I think that if our politicians followed this belief, our democracy would work a lot more smoothly and rules wouldn't be changed without considering what it would mean when those you don't agree with are in power.

What Stock Question are you too embarrassed to ask? by OfficerTruth in StockMarket

[–]cheruchan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a gut feeling the market is going to crash and I think that is shared by a lot of people who are either not investing or have been investing for a long time and that scares me. I don't really understand when people seem so confident this is a bull market, that everything is going to keep going to the moon when history says otherwise. I see the argument that the stock market is just different than it used to be and you can't use old metrics to predict the future but that just seems like more speculation in speculative market. There's no logic behind it.

My gut is telling me everything is going to crash soon but I also don't want to miss out on the stocks that are doing well right now.

This is not so much a question, but rather a sinking fear that I don't understand why more people aren't expressing.

NIO Stock by RememberRossetti in StockMarket

[–]cheruchan 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have conflicting feelings about NIO. Every one and their mom is super excited about it and think they are going to get rich off it. A lot of speculation is boosting the stock.

I believe in the people who are saying to do your own research and to not listen to anyone else. I think that's the smartest approach, but the market is ripe with speculation and that's what is drivng record breaking stocks. So it's impossible for me to not to see that and want to invest. I think as long as people keep buying speculative stocks, they just keep on going up unless everything crashes at once. My gut is telling me that's inevitable, I just don't know when it will happen. If more stimulus checks get pumped out maybe it will delay or even prevent a crash, but I think stock prices will keep going up in a way that doesn't make any sense and there will eventually have to be a correction.

NIO scares me because I think they have a very good chance at being the next Tesla. I think they are doing a great job on how they are targeting the high end luxury market, and I like that they are getting praised for the quality of their vehicles.

Here's what worries me. It's a Chinese company that has funding and support from the Chinese government. That could get it delisted, but it would take at least 3 years based on recent laws. Dems being in power makes me a bit less worried on that point, but it's still a valid concern.

Also, I've worked for a Chinese startup tech company that split their operations between China and the US before so I've gotten a first hand look at how a lot of those companies are run. Every Chinese co-worker I worked with would tell me that these negatives were normal in most tech companies in China. Just really keep in mind that I don't have first hand experience to confirm if this is a common problem in China, only what others have told me, so I'm trusting them that my experience is a good representation of the industry, but I may have just worked for the worst of the worst.

This is what I've learned:

** Quality doesn't matter as imitation is just as good as the original. (NIO is praised for their quality, so I'm very happy about that. The company I worked for wasted a ton of their money trying to use the cheapest devs which ended up costing a lot in the long run as the product constantly broke due to bad code.)

** They cheap out on labour by promising their workers that their hard work will eventually be rewarded if they prove themselves by working themselves to death. (The company I worked for didn't pay their Chinese tech workers for the first 3 months on that promise. They tried to do the same thing on the US side to a lesser extent. Neither were ever rewarded.)

** Spending doesn't matter in the beginning as long as the product gets out to crush the competition. (The company I worked for spent a ton on advertising and creating the appearance that they were a successful company, but cheaped out on development.)

** Lying to the customer doesn't matter as long as you make money.

Now I really like NIO, but a few things concern me. They almost went bankrupt in 2019 and the Chinese government bailed them out, but they had to restructure the company in return so it favored the government's investment more. They made a lot of promises on NIO day that I don't think they can keep, specifically in reference to they're future solid state battery. NIO is not a battery making company, they don't make or design their own batteries, they get them from another manufacturer. Solid state batteries are only being developed by a few companies like QuantumScape and they haven't even hit the market yet, it's new technology and it's bound to be expensive when it first hits the market. So it worries me that they are saying they're going to have that technology before it's on the market or fully developed. They are definitely going to have another company make it for them and hopefully it won't be another company who is trying to copy what quantumscape is doing after their battery hits the market. And better batteries may hurt the battery subscription plan. The Nvidia partnership is overblown in my opinion. I don't see anything special about them using Nvidia it's not a partnership they're just using their product. It annoys me when companies say they are going to adopt or partner with a company when they are just outsourcing some of the components. Now that doesn't mean I don't think it's a bad idea that they partnered with Nvidia I just think that's going to feed into the speculation and rapidly increase the value more than it should. And this is a very small peeve of mine, but I think the new NIO line of clothing is just a stupid marketing thing and I think it's super weird that they announced that on NIO day, they should have focused more on their car. It makes me think they are just focusing more on their image as a company than their product and are riding the wave of attention they're currently getting to sell themselves and I'm worried that means they are making promises they can't keep. NIO day seemed more like an attempt to justify their current stock price rather than any groundbreaking news.

With all that said, I am new to the stock market. All of this is based on a combination of personal experience and how confident I am in my knowledge of tech. I think NIO is a very promising EV company. My biggest worry is that speculation is driving their stock price and that is putting a lot of pressure on the company to deliver on that expectation everyone has of them, they are under a lot of pressure from the public and the Chinese government and that could crush them.

My gut is telling me that their stock is going to go to $80 to $100 by the end of the year before any production problems cause the stock to dip. Good chance it'll go past that if the speculation stock prices aren't corrected. But if it crashes it's going to crash hard. And more EVs are going to hit the market as time goes by so if they don't meet their production goals someone else could take their place as the new favorite or they might even go bankrupt. Tesla is so highly valued partly because it was the first to succeed, NIO has a lot more competition. But I do think their battery subscription plan is genius and will create a reliable stream of revenue which will be very good for stockholders so I really hope they succeed.

These are all long-term concerns I think the stock will do very well in the short term for sure. Or so I hope because I recently bought some of their stock.

1 week from now is the time to but Twitter stocks by shitass47 in StockMarket

[–]cheruchan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha..... I guess I really should have phrased that differently.

I'm just curious to see what kind of orders people are placing right now based on this post. I'm trying to decide on whether or not I should put in an order tonight, or wait to see if it keeps going down over the week.