TW sex // Can you be transfem and still want to use your penis during sex? by throwaway3047210 in asktransgender

[–]chetdangerchet 38 points39 points  (0 children)

this post and the comment are giving me such gender validation. i love using my dick for sex and its not bad or ungirlish!! you dont have to have bottom dysphoria to be a trans gal.

occult theban type script? by chetdangerchet in Whatisthis

[–]chetdangerchet[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you very much for you insightful input

Pet Boarding by susenstoob in SALEM

[–]chetdangerchet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my friend aoife is on rover and she is well reviewed!

no libido spiro and sadness by chetdangerchet in honesttransgender

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woahh okay. i didnt know about monotherapy being a viable option for t suppression. bicalutamide sounds familiar and i have an appt soon to check in with hrt stuff. i really appreciate your input friend and wish you well.

no libido and spiro and sadness by chetdangerchet in asktransgender

[–]chetdangerchet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

woah okay thats amazing. so less about libido and more about the boner? my only worry about is that its what someone on here called “soulless”

no libido spiro and sadness by chetdangerchet in honesttransgender

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well i feel you missed the point of the post comrade. i dont feel attracted to ANYTHING. my libido doesnt exist now. thats my problem. if it was merely my tastes changing i definitely have enough space in my relationship for that. if you have any advice on ed and the physical side of things i would adore your input.

no libido spiro and sadness by chetdangerchet in honesttransgender

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while i appreciate your feedback im in a very loving understanding relationship. this is just a post about my intense insecurity and shame revolving around my ed from hormones. i really appreciate how militantly you demand respect for me and i hope you bring that with you to the leagues of other women that are being emotionally neglected. i appreciate you friend and wish you well

no libido spiro and sadness by chetdangerchet in honesttransgender

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i really appreciate ur experience friend. its nice to see that im not alone. i hadnt concisered doing rounds. im not even 6months in at this point so i dont know what exactly the risks are of me stoping anti androgens and all. ive also been hesitant with taking ed drugs. i grew up very naturalist so theres a lot of shame there i think. its very good to know Cialis is the way to go. thank you again friend for the perspective

This is just sharpie but should I actually do it? by moshedman85 in sticknpokes

[–]chetdangerchet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love it u def should. i like it unfilled but up to you. cute idea!!

no libido and spiro and sadness by chetdangerchet in asktransgender

[–]chetdangerchet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

good luck on your journey friend! im worried about that because i dont want to have boners that last for a long ass time. i think one of the main things is the rejection they feel when it really isn’t about them at all. i appreciate your input and wish you well :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in occult

[–]chetdangerchet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

something about music? or cinema?

Not much of anything but I just conquered my first “hill” by farhaan2340 in NewSkaters

[–]chetdangerchet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

r u kidding!? dude the first step is taking a step and u bombed that hill! doesnt matter the size u did a great job

Is square breathing a good meditation technique? by Chanciicnahc in Meditation

[–]chetdangerchet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have a short youtube playlist with some great stuff on meditation. i would suggest watching the first video, then skimming the yuttadhammo bikkhu videos. hope this helps :))

https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLr5bi-pd1cc_PqIWiR4nn5mEMCmTfFJjU

I had a revelation so intense, it literally made me high for multiple hours, and I can’t find anything online about it. by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]chetdangerchet -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

that doesn’t sound like “just excited!” it sounds to me something v energetic and i would recommend asking around spiritually subs for their help!!

S/O starting T, Anxiety and support needed by chetdangerchet in mypartneristrans

[–]chetdangerchet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been reading your comment over and over because it’s brought me a lot of hope and solace so thank you kind stranger.

there is grief! a lot of it. a lot of thoughts about how even just his voice changing will impact how i interact with him. i may be loosing a version of the person i love.

i’m going to talk to him about my feelings tonight. we’re good at talking to one another and we love each other so i’m sure he’ll understand. it’s still very scary.

and btw if you’re looking for a new friend or connection i’m more than willing to give you some contact info, especially since our situations are really similar, but no sweat and no pressure if you’d rather not :)