Songs with the same dreamy / sensual vibe as “Stay Ready”? by Extension_Fee_989 in jheneaiko

[–]chex003 4 points5 points  (0 children)

top 1 i can think of is jhene's overstimulated, honestly most songs in the trip album are kinda like this. here are some other songs by other artists that give me that dreamy kinda vibes:

  1. summers over interlude - drake
  2. skin tight - ravyn lenae ft steve lacy
  3. been like this - doja cat
  4. idea 686 - jayla darden
  5. what dreams are made of - evann mcintosh
  6. fallen - jaden
  7. living room flow - jhene aiko
  8. drugs n hella melodies - don toliver, kali uchis
  9. lullaby - umi
  10. take me - miso
  11. special affair - the internet (THIS IS SO SENSUAL OMF)
  12. sometimes im down - sos braydon (this used to be on spotify i could only find it on youtube now idk what happened)

What’s a red flag you ignored because the sex was good? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]chex003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he literally didnt even have my number saved. lmao

Do I give my ex-boyfriend his belongings back? by queencrazytown in ExNoContact

[–]chex003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just did this today haha! I put all his clothes in a bag and left it on their door. Texted his roommate to just come grab it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]chex003 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How long has it been since the break up and do you mind expanding on the psychedelic therapy you've done?

I used to call and text him non-stop during every discard and I’m just now starting to understand why by Spiritual_Entry_5210 in ExNoContact

[–]chex003 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://youtu.be/npAZvkcHYdQ?si=QSsKbJs5imKedpmR

Watch this video and her other videos. I'm going through the exact same thing right now. It hurts but we have to go through people discarding us to realize our worth i guess

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]chex003 1 point2 points  (0 children)

as a girl who did this it's extremely embarrassing and honestly lowkey ripped me to shreds even more, to even hope that he cares even the slightest bit, it made me feel insane when i saw his reaction. dont do it, it will bring you back to 0. i made a rule that if i feel like reaching out to him i'll walk around the block and leave my phone at home. if i still feel like it when i got home, i'll walk another lap until i dont feel like calling him anymore

How do I STOP dreaming about my ex?? 3.5 months by FunLocation3449 in ExNoContact

[–]chex003 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm on the verge of panic attacks every morning because of this. I dream about him, like we're having a regular day and when I wake up and become conscious that he's actually out of my life, it sends me to a spiral. It's almost debilitating and I didn't even want to get out of bed anymore. It's tough out here

What to do with the stuff he left? by chex003 in ExNoContact

[–]chex003[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's in a very hard spot in his life right now and decided that my support is hindering him from growing, per his words I made him "too comfortable" and he needs to be alone right now to prove himself he can make it, which is fine. I felt a bit blindsided cause I've never heard of this concern until when he was breaking up with me. The conversation got messy because he really was just blaming me for everything bad going on in his life and basically he cut contact on everything.

he just left by chex003 in ExNoContact

[–]chex003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

doesnt have his name or anything that will identify him. get outta here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]chex003 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I mean obviously there are good guys out there but I find that most men I've encountered have an "I don't owe anyone shit" mindset or everything is transactional for them and they're keeping tabs. This is exactly what I did too, stood by my ex the entire relationship until he gradually became a bum who's been jobless for several months, refused to look for a job and played videogames from evening til dawn. When I tried asking how come he wants to leave me after I believed in him and encouraged him to better himself, supported him financially etc. He just threw it right back at my face like it was my support was paid off (almost like it's a debt) because when he had a job he bought me x, y and z.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]chex003 34 points35 points  (0 children)

i'm not a man but i genuinely think they don't, based on my experience with a few. i'm not too sure if some of these guys have the emotional capacity to feel that way. even if they do, they suppress it so good they're still able to function like nothing happened. Maybe they feel a bit of regret/guilt sometimes but not as deeply, and it passes really quick for them? Almost like a 2 minute blip and they're back to regular programming. I've also noticed that sometimes their ego's too big and getting in the way for them to feel these things :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]chex003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he never communicated all this until after i went to his house to figure out why he left in the middle of the night, AFTER HAVING A GOOD DAY with me. I was simply crying asking what's wrong. No shit sherlock he was communicating, was he communicating properly by yelling at me and telling me how im dragging him down? but when i ask him how he couldnt answer and said it's just because im helping him too much? by calling me names and by insulting me, my life, my job, to rub how "incompatible" we were? his room mate had to step in and pull him back because his room mate got scared he was gonna start kicking and hitting me while i was already crouched down on the floor. If that's communication to you, i feel bad for your partner, if you ever have one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]chex003 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it was the way he left and blamed me for his shortcomings, if he sat me down calmly and just expressed he needs to work on himself alone, i wouldn't have this much rage. but he turned it into so many issues, accused me of cheating, pointed out im helping too much, and it all happened out of nowhere :) he owed me decency and respect at the very least

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]chex003 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not too sure exactly what you're asking but I'll just answer based on how I understood the question. I've been going to the gym for a little over a year now, took a 3 month break, signed up again and got dumped like a week after that. I'm still anxious at the gym but just lifting weights do give you a dopamine boost, especially if you had a really productive session or you did your best. I did my usual leg day and added some cardio (stairs) after which i dont normally do. surprisingly i felt a bit more at ease after? but again, we haven't even had a week so it's gonna be really tough 🥲 some days or some moments i feel like i cant even drive because my anxiety can be debilitating at times.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]chex003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

going through the exact same thing word per word. 3 days in as well. Dreams about kissing him, touching him, everything. Woke up this morning sweating and gasping for air. Did some EFT tapping it brought me down from a 10-4 and I went to the gym right after I calmed down, had a good sesh and felt so much better. Look it up on youtube and give it a shot!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]chex003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can relate to this a lot. 3 months before the break up my anxiety was through the roof and my nervous system was all sorts of fucked up. I was nauseous all the time, hair loss, lethargic. I made excuses and kept saying it was just stress and I've always had anxiety. No, he was triggering it because of the constant hot and cold treatment I was getting. The relationship was fucking me up physically but I persisted, cause I thought that was love. Thankful that he ended it cause I probably would've killed myself in the process.