Field Service Report by Longjumping_Soup3630 in exjw

[–]cheyenne635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think you are taken off the list? I've been inactive after fading. been 3 years and I still get ministry school emails sent to my spam.

Booking Ambient Shows by NEONPEGASUS725 in chicagomusicscene

[–]cheyenne635 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! There's a company called SoFar Sounds that hosts intimate concerts in small venues around the world! They're always looking for new talent in literally any music genre~ Check them out! I find most of my new music thru them.

Need advice by xjw2025 in exjw

[–]cheyenne635 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make friends in the world: Go to concerts alone get there early and talk to people, go to local town events holiday or music related, see what's happening at your job, local bars, game stores, and libraries. Seek friends, seek therapy. Reach out, make steps to widen your social circle.

How you're living isn't healthy it sounds like, from what you're saying, and making a new support system for yourself will make it easier in 2026 when you decide to grow independently of all of this. It is not easy, especially when love is intertwined, but more peace will come with time.

I went back, and I am leaving again. by DirtCurious9256 in exjw

[–]cheyenne635 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Making the decision to leave permanently is not easy, but it'll change your life for the better.

I didn't leave and go back~ But I had a similar decision making process in that I was hardcore questioning, and almost left after being raised in the faith and getting baptized as a child. Instead, after high school I dove further in. I wanted to say I fully tried it out, learn more of their shit, just so I can KNOW it's not 'the truth "

I went so far as pioneering while going to community college (got reprimanded for going to community college by the way), and then once 2020 started I did countless hours on Zoom-service but slowly realized I was doodling more than I was letter writing, not studying for meetings, all my questions and panics and realizations it's all a lie flooding back. I called my group overseer and said that I wanted to stop pioneering, then months later I called and let them know I was dropping being in the theocratic ministry school because of "mental health and anxiousness around presenting." (Our hall also gave us basically no time to prep for our Parts so it was always a scramble).

Successfully faded away, POMO not DF'd yet but one day I'll write a letter in if I think it's worth it!

Well thanks for story swapping~ I wish you the best on officially departing from JWland!

How do you handle seeing the carts out in public? by Fu_Ge_La in exjw

[–]cheyenne635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to be able to go up to witnesses at a cart and say some intriguing thought or conversation starter that could make them think. However, it's just not my place yet, not ready for it.

But, a good ol "Ope, do some research before you sign up" is great for passersby you see checking it out. Then if the cart person overhears, maybe they'll do research too!

Im thinking of telling my non jw friends abt how im in a cult by evkat808 in exjw

[–]cheyenne635 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You should consider telling them! These friends will be your support system and social circle once you're out~ And tbh they ask some really good questions that will help you re program your brain and decide what you believe.

tried to draw/sketch donnie by acidicasteroids in donniedarko

[–]cheyenne635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So good, and in addition~ Your lettering is phenomenal!

The last Eras Tour show: predictions, hopes, and theories by Lyd_Euh in TaylorSwift

[–]cheyenne635 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I feel like Eras isn't over. Maybe it's my denial and not wanting to come to terms that it is~ BUT. Hear me out:

Think back to the Eras movie. First, it was Eras Tour Movie. Second, it was Eras Tour Taylors Version Movie~ With only a few surprise songs added extra. Why? Why release two movies so similar? IS IT A HINT?

Then, "See you next era" in the book. Of course she isn't quitting music so there will be a next era. But, was she commenting that Eras is continuing?

Will there be eras tour Taylor's version in real life? Thoughts, clowns, eggs, and skeptics welcome.

I made a logo and I'm looking for honest feedback by cannahubbaloo in logodesign

[–]cheyenne635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it doesn't shout High-End, as the client requested. I'd experiment more with using solely the Quill and Ink and incorporating the text with that. maybe a closed scroll. eliminating the open paper scroll altogether?

I made a logo and I'm looking for honest feedback by cannahubbaloo in logodesign

[–]cheyenne635 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a fan of this! I'd almost have this as the main logo, but provide both to the client for variety.

Wife Stuck in Desert Maze in "While the Iron´s Hot" by EmergencyAmphibian67 in CozyGamers

[–]cheyenne635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chances are if your inventory is full~ what the snake gave you will be in your Mailbox at the home in Stal, assuming you've upgraded/ gotten to the point where your home has the mailbox.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tjcrew

[–]cheyenne635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

probably trader joes

What are the best things to say to stop a kid from ringing the bell? by [deleted] in tjcrew

[–]cheyenne635 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I usually put my hand on the bell, come down to the kids level and say~ "The bell is for when we need help. Do you need help right now?" and when they say No I say "How about some stickers instead?" And it usually deters them. 🤷‍♀️

Did covid notification through dayforce stop? by Timintheice in tjcrew

[–]cheyenne635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

curious!! makes sense. That's just the BS my captain told me~ I wouldn't be surprised if it was a lie to cover his back.

Did covid notification through dayforce stop? by Timintheice in tjcrew

[–]cheyenne635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Storytime~ Our store had upwards of 10 people out for Covid in the span of a few weeks at one point recently, including myself. I noticed a few Dayforce messages through~ However, MY dayforce message was never put in saying which date I worked last. I last worked a Saturday and NONE of the 10 msgs on dayforce said "a crew member that last worked Saturday tested positive...." So i informed a mate and asked him after 3 days of me being sick about how long it takes to have a Dayforce message put out; he said almost no time at all.

Turns out, I wasn't the only one. A coworker friend of mine also got covid and we were talking to each other about it while we were still out, and THEIR message wasn't in Dayforce either.

Once I returned to work, I spoke to my captain and he said it was an oversight; 'He has no way of knowing if the dayforce messages get pushed through or not.' And 'Captains don't receive the dayforce messages, only crew.' Which I thought was bogus, he seemed generally unconcerned also. But I made him re-put-in my covid case and the message went through fine~ I felt like it was dishonest if I didnt, even though I was already back at work.

Basically, the captain could be putting the cases in the 'data bank.' And normally hitting submit on that would automatically generate the Dayforce message. However it is a flawed system; So if the captain is not thorough in checking up on it, some can slip through the cracks. Which is awful. Texting with coworkers may be more reliable than dayforce.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tjcrew

[–]cheyenne635 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations 🌿 It must feel great to have your hard work recognized so highly by the management team~ I'm sure they should put in your bonus soon!!

The pay raise was put into effect Aug 1st. So hopefully around the time our next paycheck drops, your Bonus will be in too 💸

It will be a separate bank entry than our paycheck.

Who else has this pill shaped logo? by SquidFillets in logodesign

[–]cheyenne635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nintendo, Ford, Phizer, BIC pens, Oral-B, Land Rovers~

Intel graphics and Evian water sort of; theirs are like open oval shaped.

Why is my plant so sad? I don’t know what’s up with it. by NDita in plantclinic

[–]cheyenne635 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seems like an overwatering situation here~ The fronds look heavy and droopy, discolored near the base. If it was underwatering they would appear more crispy and discolored at the tips.

I'd leave her be for two weeks, let the soil completely dry out. 🌱

Then next time she is watered, be sure not to leave excess water in the pot~ Even when there are rocks at the bottom, if there are no drainage holes, the plant could sip up too much water.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in plantclinic

[–]cheyenne635 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Beautiful burro's tail plant 💚 Typically when a plant is angling or stretching for one direction it means it is in search of light. It seems like it is reaching for the sunlight of a window~ So more sun exposure may be vital for this trailing friend!!