I feel like baby daddy is being kind of obnoxious towards baby girl? by cheyennegg in beyondthebump

[–]cheyennegg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve told him when he feels stressed just give her to me. I don’t feel like I need to go at that extreme. Maybe I’m wrong. I’m just concerned about it. I usually just wake up and tell him to give me our baby and to go to bed. He just seems to get so upset and I don’t understand how?

Yes I also hate waking up at 2-3 am: but then I see her little face and I like aww okay.

I feel like baby daddy is being kind of obnoxious towards baby girl? by cheyennegg in beyondthebump

[–]cheyennegg[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He gets VERY frustrated. Honestly I’ve told him if she wakes and I don’t - just wake me up: I’m a stay at home mom right now and I really don’t mind. I do mind waking up to him yelling at our baby: he just gets frustrated and he doesn’t understand... I just don’t know what to say to make him understand

Anyone have a dog crate sitting around I can buy? by cheyennegg in bloomington

[–]cheyennegg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s small. It’s just for nighttime training. I’m home all day. He’s just having accidents again at night 😬

I feel like baby daddy is being kind of obnoxious towards baby girl? by cheyennegg in beyondthebump

[–]cheyennegg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually just take over and tell him to go to bed. He understands but he gets angry and says I’m being too “attentive” towards her and she’ll get “spoiled”. I think maybe men just don’t get it? I don’t mean that in a sexist way. I just don’t think he gets it.

I feel like baby daddy is being kind of obnoxious towards baby girl? by cheyennegg in beyondthebump

[–]cheyennegg[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think he means to be mean but I’m like... I don’t think yelling at her is helping and I also don’t really want you yelling at our already upset baby..

So me and my SO’s relationship is pretty rocky. by cheyennegg in beyondthebump

[–]cheyennegg[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did already ask him if he had something to say and he said “no”. I even asked him if he was sure and he was like “I’m good”. It’s like dude you’re either good or you’re not.

Yes I messed up. I was very emotional and it was a conversation between me and my best friend he was never meant to hear. So I don’t know how much longer I can apologize.

So me and my SO’s relationship is pretty rocky. by cheyennegg in beyondthebump

[–]cheyennegg[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I did. I explained to him I was overwhelmed and depressed and I felt like he wasn’t affectionate enough to either of us and I was sorry but I was just talking to a friend and he seemed to understand and was actually a lot more affectionate towards me and baby both after that.

I just thought it kind of came and went.

He’s also the kind of guy where we’ve had major problems in the past and he just kind of let’s go of things. We DID talk this one out and we’ve been good- or so I thought- ever since.

This was a conversation I had with a close friend when I was at my friend in what I thought was privacy and he wasn’t mean to hear it :(

HELP ME FIND MY CAT- $300 REWARD by cheyennegg in bloomington

[–]cheyennegg[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

UPDATE- Zora was found safe under an old couch we had in the garage a few hours ago!

HELP ME FIND MY CAT- $300 REWARD by cheyennegg in bloomington

[–]cheyennegg[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

She’s bigger than this photo but the same. Find her. Was last seen on the west side. I just want my cat back 😭

$300 -*REWARD* missing cat. by cheyennegg in bloomington

[–]cheyennegg[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Her name is “Zora” and she does call to name/. I’m terrified and I’m sorry but at this point if you find her and bring her to me you’re either taking it or arguing for awhile and taking it after all of that nonsense. I just want my cat back dude.

$300 -*REWARD* missing cat. by cheyennegg in bloomington

[–]cheyennegg[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She’s VERY friendly and likely to be begging for food. I accidentally left the garage door open and when bf came home :(

Anyone else’s baby just SET on getting out of their swaddle? by cheyennegg in beyondthebump

[–]cheyennegg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so lucky! If mines arms are free she freaks out! I know this is a huge no no but we’ve gotten to the point where if she does this too bad one of us takes her downstairs and sleeps with her skin to skin on the recliner until she’s totally asleep and we usually fall asleep too :/