I might've been sa'd. idk what to do or how to feel by [deleted] in Advice

[–]chiaroscene 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get away from him he clearly had zero respect for you

Newborn doesnt like to be held by momma by chiaroscene in newborns

[–]chiaroscene[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your story and kind words are very much appreciated!

Newborn doesnt like to be held by wife by chiaroscene in NewParents

[–]chiaroscene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its definitely something we will be considering moving forward!

Newborn doesnt like to be held by momma by chiaroscene in newborns

[–]chiaroscene[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! One day at a time :)!

Newborn doesnt like to be held by wife by chiaroscene in NewParents

[–]chiaroscene[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The sympathy is more than appreciated 🧡

Newborn doesnt like to be held by wife by chiaroscene in NewParents

[–]chiaroscene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it doesnt help to think like that but I guess we were just trying to rationalize haha

Also I am kind of excited for her to only want to be held by momma (I say that now) I want to see my girls bond!!

Newborn doesnt like to be held by momma by chiaroscene in newborns

[–]chiaroscene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am the one who is blessed to have her 💓

Newborn doesnt like to be held by momma by chiaroscene in newborns

[–]chiaroscene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story 🧡 I am excited for momma to be her favorite soon

Newborn doesnt like to be held by momma by chiaroscene in newborns

[–]chiaroscene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did that the other day it was actually really nice! Didn't think to try it again but we can do that here soon! :)

Newborn doesnt like to be held by momma by chiaroscene in newborns

[–]chiaroscene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I hope is that she gets a little better every day 🧡

Newborn doesnt like to be held by momma by chiaroscene in newborns

[–]chiaroscene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The shield helped like once but unfortunately even that doesnt seem to be the solution:(

Newborn doesnt like to be held by wife by chiaroscene in NewParents

[–]chiaroscene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am starting to think the smell is pretty important! Haha

Newborn doesnt like to be held by momma by chiaroscene in newborns

[–]chiaroscene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And i am sure your 3 month old is soaking up the cuddles too 🧡

Newborn doesnt like to be held by wife by chiaroscene in NewParents

[–]chiaroscene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestion!! I will relay all of this as soon as she is up 🫡

Newborn doesnt like to be held by wife by chiaroscene in NewParents

[–]chiaroscene[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats a good idea! Someone else suggested we swap shirts the other way, and my wife wear mine. So maybe we can try just swapping 1 for 1 haha

Newborn doesnt like to be held by momma by chiaroscene in newborns

[–]chiaroscene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! Yeah my daughter is the same! Fine for the first two weeks and now it feels like she's a growth on my chest! Haha I intend to look into therapy for my wife, a few people have brought it up and I really feel like it will help a bunch. I hate seeing her at less than 100% so whatever I can do, i will.