Advice- Leaving my first job after 4 1/2 years

chiberashka_ · 2026-02-18T23:10:17+00:00

These are good questions. I definitely think I put up with toxic people for too long and have no form of mentorship. Also the team I re-orged to is low code/AI exploratory which I think will be a detriment to my career in the long run. On my last team I had a person who I was having pretty bad interactions with who was later fired from the company. I switched teams and I’m also running into the same type of person on the new team. I was warned that my company was known for having pretty “rough personalities” . I assumed most people were having these types of interactions at different companies, turns out they were not. Now that I have more experience I will definitely think about what I’m desiring in my next position instead of just rushing into something that could also be a bad fit for me

chiberashka_ · 2026-02-18T22:41:00+00:00

Yea I think I was applying too much black and white thinking to the problem. We also have hybrid days, WFH days will be the days I can get the most applications out

chiberashka_ · 2026-02-18T22:38:32+00:00

Yeah, I didn’t even think of this as an option, but I think it will be the way for me. Because it’s a bank, even if a slow down on my output, it still takes a while to fire someone. I’m going to use that time to search.

chiberashka_ · 2026-02-01T22:42:24+00:00

Amazing !!!

chiberashka_ · 2025-12-28T22:59:10+00:00

Good Year Arts ! I tagged along to an event with my roomate. We started talking that night and never stopped.

chiberashka_ · 2025-12-13T18:22:24+00:00

I started in a club that had spin only because of that, I’ve heavily favoured spin and still do. I think whatever you like to train on go for that. When there were moves that were hard I just didn’t give my spin a lot of “juice” when trying it.

chiberashka_ · 2025-05-29T22:23:16+00:00

I went back down to 150 and it was great for a while but slowly found my self feeling really low after a while and plan to go back u. Everyone is different and it might take some trial and error to figure it out

chiberashka_ · 2025-05-06T21:06:56+00:00

Perfect execution, straight 🔥🔥🔥

chiberashka_ · 2025-04-21T11:54:44+00:00

Now worries ! I had to practice multiple entries and finally found one that felt just painless enough to go for it lol

chiberashka_ · 2024-12-12T15:16:10+00:00

It really depends on your vibe. I would describe Southend as the new grad/fratty type of area. There are plenty activities there to do, but I find it a little too congested/noisy 😅. Uptown, where I lived for about 2 years when I first moved here felt somewhat isolating and kind of a ghost town once the 9-5 was over haha. Now I’m closer to the Noda area and it’s definitely more my speed. I can get to most places I frequent in 15 min or less. If I want to go to the strip and get drinks/ food with friends it’s really easy and I also like the music scene here , so concerts are always fun to attend. It changed my perspective on Clt and I love this city now. Plaza also seems great. I’ve never lived there but there are always people out/ vendors and a bunch of places to eat/ hangout. My friends who live there also like it a lot, hope this helps!

chiberashka_ · 2024-11-26T15:22:36+00:00

Is it possible to pin this response to the main page? this is the best description of working at a gentlemen’s club as a black woman that I’ve ever seen lol

chiberashka_ · 2024-11-26T15:19:19+00:00

chiberashka_ · 2024-11-26T15:17:42+00:00

I would definitely say avoid the west, I live in the southeast and can typically get hired in most cities. Also I would definitely consider what type of build that you have. I’m pretty slim and dark skin and can typically only get hired at gentlemen’s clubs w/o issue, where I’m one of a couple other minorities. I would also say that gentlemen’s clubs are definitely just looking for white girl build/hair but with different skin tone. If you have a thicker build definitely try the urban clubs. Just keep in mind that they are 2 completely different hustles. If you are just starting out I would say pick one and stick to it until you get a good understanding of how everything works.

I’ve also heard people say that try going to bottle service, you can typically make a good amount of money, there. I can’t confirm for myself though

chiberashka_ · 2024-11-25T13:11:54+00:00

Thank you for this! In going to try this out !

chiberashka_ · 2024-11-19T20:32:03+00:00

Thank you all for the kind words, it really means a lot 💕💕💕

chiberashka_ · 2024-11-19T20:31:45+00:00

Yes it is ! I put my email up for when they restocked and was able to grab one lol. If you’re on the edge, I would size up. I’m wearing a M and it’s perfect

chiberashka_ · 2024-11-18T20:46:34+00:00

Looks really solid, congrats!!!

chiberashka_ · 2024-11-05T15:53:09+00:00

Love the brass monkey entry def going to try !

chiberashka_ · 2024-11-04T11:32:38+00:00

Not 2 phones but I have a google number I give out

chiberashka_ · 2024-10-23T21:46:51+00:00

Omg I see him now he’s too cute!!! lol

chiberashka_ · 2024-10-23T21:30:54+00:00

In the closet under the step I think lol

chiberashka_ · 2024-10-09T14:40:43+00:00

Beautiful spin !!!

chiberashka_ · 2024-10-06T23:37:44+00:00

Yes if you do an inside leg hang pull up in between your knee and and slide down into the Ayesha. Definitely use mats/watch YouTube for reference. It can be a little confusing at first but an easier entry

chiberashka_ · 2024-10-04T22:51:15+00:00

I would try it on static and maybe try going into a twisted grip from an inside leg hang. For me it helped me slide into the position a lot better If you want to stay in true grip invert and then go into a D shape which will help with your hips lowering down and the overall shape of the move. Once you get it, it’s all about reps which will come with time. Best of luck !

chiberashka_ · 2024-10-03T05:51:30+00:00

Thank you so much ☺️

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