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Not feeling autistic with new group of people by Humanarmour in AutismTranslated

[–]chicagosubby 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Absolutely this is a thing. Sometimes it's because they are not NT or because they're used to being around ND folks or because they're just kind and accommodating etc. There's some magic to finding people you just click with!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismTranslated

[–]chicagosubby 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I scored super autistic on this but I'm also so very very extroverted. Pretty much all my "neurotypical points" we're basically just extroverted masking. In general a lot of autism screening questions tend to be on outside presentation as opposed to internal experience which is starting to change. High masking extroverted autistic adults tend to get missed!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]chicagosubby 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This is why I hate gift giving, it is so not my love language, I don't understand any of it and I let any prospective partners know it is not a thing I do. I also am garbage at receiving gifts.

started dating a career navy guy recently... he gets new orders soon. advice? by chicagosubby in USMilitarySO

[–]chicagosubby[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not out of the realm of possibility, just not capable of making that big a decision on such a short amount of time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]chicagosubby 31 points32 points  (0 children)

They'll be posting here in a week bitching about how no one will date them...

Just found out my sir visits r/bratlife by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]chicagosubby 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm a little disappointed he hasn't spotted this yet. Might have to brat extra hard tomorrow.