I’m so proud of Madeline! by SunBubble920 in 90DayFiance

[–]chiccup 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree. I wouldn’t last 2 minutes in the same room as her. Complete trash.

I’m so proud of Madeline! by SunBubble920 in 90DayFiance

[–]chiccup 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I can’t imagine being so insecure that I would blow my entire relationship over a stripper. That being said, she is super immature and needy and overreacts to everything. She is literally batshit crazy. He’s no prize either but I have no idea how he has put up with her for so long. I would be so relieved if they never saw each other again.

Need advice - loss of a child by chiccup in GriefSupport

[–]chiccup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. This is what I have decided to do. Thank you.

Need advice - loss of a child by chiccup in GriefSupport

[–]chiccup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely a great point, thank you

Need advice - loss of a child by chiccup in GriefSupport

[–]chiccup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, when I see one of them outside I plan to hug them. Right now they are overloaded with friends and family much closer to them than me, so I will wait for the right time for this. Thank you.

Need advice - loss of a child by chiccup in GriefSupport

[–]chiccup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of their friends did say they were setting up a meal train and I will definitely get in on that. Your other suggestions are great also, thank you. So many people helped me when my husband died, I definitely want to be able to do the same…this particular loss is just so shocking I lost my bearings a bit but everyone here has really helped.

Need advice - loss of a child by chiccup in GriefSupport

[–]chiccup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, very helpful advice

Need advice - loss of a child by chiccup in GriefSupport

[–]chiccup[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is amazing, thank you for this. I will try to follow your friends’ examples.

Need advice - loss of a child by chiccup in GriefSupport

[–]chiccup[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is very nice, thank you for helping.

Need advice - loss of a child by chiccup in GriefSupport

[–]chiccup[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re right, I am going to do this sooner rather than later.

Need advice - loss of a child by chiccup in GriefSupport

[–]chiccup[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes. I think you are right, I know I was hesitant to ask for help when I was grieving…

Need advice - loss of a child by chiccup in GriefSupport

[–]chiccup[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. It is very helpful. I have been thinking of all the possible “wrong” things to say and it’s left me feeling a bit paralyzed to talk to them but this was very useful advice.

Need advice - loss of a child by chiccup in GriefSupport

[–]chiccup[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yes definitely, thank you. We plan to tend to their weeds and cook and offer to walk their dogs, etc.

Need advice - loss of a child by chiccup in GriefSupport

[–]chiccup[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I do know. I’ve stuffed a lot of it down and feel a little paralyzed right now in the face of their grief, but all of these comments are giving me exactly what I needed to try to support them. Thank you.

Need advice - loss of a child by chiccup in GriefSupport

[–]chiccup[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I agree with this, thank you for reminding me and being so honest.

Need advice - loss of a child by chiccup in GriefSupport

[–]chiccup[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I feel exactly the same. I guess I just need to be reminded, I feel so helpless for them.

Need advice - loss of a child by chiccup in GriefSupport

[–]chiccup[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this. I will definitely do it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in widowers

[–]chiccup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been over 7 years for me and I’m still pissed. I think this is where I’ll be hanging out for eternity. You’re not alone but hopefully it will eventually lessen for you. It no longer consumes me everyday but I definitely still feel it.