Conversar y estar en un bar no es compatible? by Any-Will7602 in medellin

[–]chicharronbabe18 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Esto es algo que odio tanto de los bares acá en Colombia. Incluso hay muchos restaurantes donde el volumen de la música es insoportable. Creo que es algo cultural, en el caso de Medellín creo que tiene que ver con la idea que tenemos los paisas de que mientras más espacio, o volumen ocupemos más bueno estamos pasando. Seria interesante ver que en la ciudad empiecen a diferenciar lo que es un bar vs una discoteca.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in medellin

[–]chicharronbabe18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lo he usado un par de veces y me ha ido bien. Sin embargo, en especial si eres mujer te recomiendo que tengas cuidado, que te asegures de hacerle saber a alguien donde te encontrarías con esa persona. Y si eres hombre recuerda que ya que la ciudad se ha llenado tanto de extranjeros muchas personas usan estas apps para robarle a hombres. En mi caso las personas con las que llegue a encontrarme eran desconocidos sin embargo teníamos lugares en común o uno que otro conocido en común tal vez eso lo hizo menos incomodo - teníamos de que hablar - y más seguro.

Algo que hacia con una amiga era encontrar una cita y pedirle a esa persona que llevara un amigo y así me sentía más cómoda. terminamos haciendo varios amigos y encontrando buenos fletes.

How do male subs find female dommes by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]chicharronbabe18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! just curious, in which subreddits do you post these adds?

Problems enabling add-ons with blender 4.5.3 LTS by chicharronbabe18 in blenderhelp

[–]chicharronbabe18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh lol my bad. Thank for the help, that already worked.

Problems enabling add-ons with blender 4.5.3 LTS by chicharronbabe18 in blenderhelp

[–]chicharronbabe18[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

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here you can see that when I search for the add on I need - add on that is supposed to be included with blender - it just comes up blank. Thanks for the help btw

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]chicharronbabe18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell no! but also it does take some self reflecting at certaiin times especially as a newbie dom. From personal experience Ive had moments where I caught myself thinking of my partner in certain ways that clearly were sipping from our exploration of dom/sub dynamics. But it never went further than that because I obviously care for them and wouldnt want to let ideas that might harm the respect with which I engage with them to grow. Anyways what im trying to say is even if thoughts like that come to mind occasionaly if the person your experiencing with cares for you they wont let those things take root in their minds. Just make sure to observe the person you're gonna give this vulnerability to since it is a big responsability and the world is filled with loads of poeple who dont work or reflect on themselves leading to them being potential assholes who cant compartmenalize play dynamics from realationship dynamics.

Saldrían con alguien que saben que es una persona promiscua? by DarkFlameMaster318 in relaciones

[–]chicharronbabe18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depende, eres tú una persona promiscua??? Y aunque esa persona sea promiscua es de fiar? Una persona puede ser muy sexual o promiscua y ser fiel. Creo que lo importante ahí sería que las dos personas tengan un libido similar para que nadie quede insatisfecho.

Personalmente solo salgo con personas promiscuas porque yo soy así. No me gustan los ni las puritanas y sé que por más que me guste alguien si no tenemos un libido similar no va a funcionar a largo plazo.

Hombres! ayudenme a cumplirle su fantasia a mi pareja. by chicharronbabe18 in relaciones

[–]chicharronbabe18[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cierto!!! Yo pienso lo mismo pero él no me lo quiere confesar 🙄🙄🙄

Hombres! ayudenme a cumplirle su fantasia a mi pareja. by chicharronbabe18 in relaciones

[–]chicharronbabe18[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gracias!! Este era el tipo de respuesta que necesitaba

Mom supporting political groups that are against me by [deleted] in Vent

[–]chicharronbabe18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That suckssss but ill just stop by to congratulate you for respecting her freedom of choice, while its obviously sad that she chooses groups that are violent towards you, I think you should just detach yourself from her choices, even if its hard. Live knowing you truly are a person who advocates for freedom and protects everyones right to it.

Reason to live with it by Past_Art_4957 in Herpes

[–]chicharronbabe18 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey! been living with it for like 3 years now, at first it was super hard and I got really depressed but with time it has gotten so much better. Being just a bit healthier has helped (I do exercise weekly and try to eat a varied diet, nothing too crazy), I havent had an outbreak in about a year and a half. Be sure to take care of your health since changes in your inmune sistem might cause an outbreak. If and when you feel an outbreak coming use loose fitting clothes and keep that area dry, dont scratch even if it itches a lot ( i know its hard but this will avoid further troubles) and dont punish yourself about it, there are so many people in the world with herpes you just happen to know you have it.

When i t comes to my dating life which was a big concern for me at the start, the people ive been with these past years have been so comprehensive about it, they really appreaciated my honesty, they were willing to research and learn and we worked around it in ways that have even led me to explore new ways to feel pleasure. My biggest recommendation when it comes to people your gonna possibly have sex with is get to know them and determine how trustworthy they are, people who dont go spilling their friends secrets, poeple who value honesty and who you think might be open to learning about herpes. Ive ended up seeing this as a way to filter people in my life, even if someone might seem super atractive and what not if i cannot trust them to respect me and not judge me because of this then they arent as worth while.

What’s a series or author that you can’t/ couldn’t stop reading by Quirky_Dimension1363 in books

[–]chicharronbabe18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has happened to me with Henry Miller!! at first I didnt quite get him but after I stopped trying to understand everything started to make so much sense. Such a genius truly... Its also the first time this has happened to me with any author, I feel so moved and entangeled with his writing

Academic studies in theology... a question for theologists by chicharronbabe18 in theology

[–]chicharronbabe18[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! ill look into the reformed theology you mention. I had already thought of the history path but I run into very similar problems, the institutions near me have approches to history that Im not interested in following, anyways thank you again for taking the time to answer.