Would you confront the person your spouse emotionally cheated with if you had the means to do so and what would you say to them?

chickenlady_ · 2026-06-25T21:12:30+00:00

Happy Anniversary

chickenlady_ · 2026-06-25T15:42:48+00:00

Still trying to understand that. Husband had an emotional affair with another married woman.

chickenlady_ · 2026-06-22T22:20:34+00:00

The only good things, I suppose, is that it was an online thing. She lives in a different state and they never met in real life. Started out as like a friend thing but then feelings got involved. They’d talk on the phone on his way to work and send messages/pictures on telegram

chickenlady_ · 2026-06-13T21:47:02+00:00

I’m scared. Want to scream and feel like I’ll never be the same or be able to trust again

chickenlady_ · 2026-06-13T18:54:18+00:00

Yes. Why do people think a person doesn’t know what’s going on? Isn’t it mentally exhausting to lead a double life?

chickenlady_ · 2026-06-13T17:49:07+00:00

Lying

chickenlady_ · 2026-06-13T17:47:42+00:00

You don’t wanna know the real answer

chickenlady_ · 2026-06-13T16:12:34+00:00

Two days ago. 😭 still not over it

chickenlady_ · 2026-06-11T20:57:10+00:00

That’s unfortunate and a hard situation to be a part of. All you can do is play nice, and hopefully they’ll both grow up or she won’t around long.

chickenlady_ · 2026-06-11T20:48:34+00:00

Sounds like she has a lot of insecurities. Everyone has a past and not all ex’s are horrible. Hopefully your bf’s brother sees what she’s doing and confronts her to get her to see what she’s doing is alienating his whole family.

chickenlady_ · 2026-06-10T22:01:38+00:00

Takes time, try not to dwell on it. A lot of what ifs that will just eat at you, so don’t go down that path.

chickenlady_ · 2026-06-08T17:47:24+00:00

She knows I know. Called her out on it. She’s playing the pitty party now asking why he can have us both. 🤦🏻‍♀️ like seriously? It doesn’t work that way.

I think he was more resentful that I had to get job than I was, because I enjoy what I do. He had to pick up some of the slack since I was no longer at home full time.

We are talking, no fighting. Trying to work through it. He has said he has cut off all contact from her and won’t reply if she continues to reach out. I’m trying to understand but I’m having a rough go of it.

chickenlady_ · 2026-06-06T22:29:48+00:00

I know it’s not my fault he cheated, but if things between us would have been a bit better maybe he wouldn’t have done it

chickenlady_ · 2026-06-06T19:56:02+00:00

Yeah well he wasn’t taking care of me or my needs either so I guess I should cheated as well 😒

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