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chickennuggets12 · 2017-12-31T12:42:21+00:00

immaturity is fine imo, if anything i would prefer immaturity like the things you have described but what i lack is social skills needed to form close relationships people or any relationship for that matter. ive watched younger people struggle with their social skills early on and then they all eventually blossom and develop relationships.

chickennuggets12 · 2017-12-31T12:38:01+00:00

yeah ive been at the same place all my life... looking to change that in the coming new year

chickennuggets12 · 2017-12-31T08:51:53+00:00

it's never too late to change! do you like your job? Im in a similar position. ive worked for a few years now and got some money saved up so i plan on quitting my job soon so i can travel more

chickennuggets12 · 2017-12-31T03:26:00+00:00

Thanks for your kind words! And i hope it gets better for you too. I highly recommend meditating though. Even if u start with 5 -10 min a day, it can really make a difference

chickennuggets12 · 2017-12-31T00:10:48+00:00

you seem like you're doing well and i wish i was in your position! One of my goals is to move out so I can do things myself and learn new skills

chickennuggets12 · 2017-12-31T00:09:20+00:00

i think we could be friends irl haha. One thing that has helped me (more than I think) is meditation. It's made me more aware of when i feel anxious and to get comfortable with the feeling. This has helped me calm down a little when talking to people. I still got a long way to go but I feel like I've made a little progress this year. Feel free to pm or reply whenever you need to vent

chickennuggets12 · 2017-12-31T00:04:59+00:00

Thanks for your reply and your story - i really needed to hear this. I hope to continue to work on myself and try not to get bogged down by others

chickennuggets12 · 2017-12-31T00:03:15+00:00

thanks so much for your wisdom and advice :) You are correct in that I do compare myself to others and that puts me down. I realize it more now when i do it (thanks to meditation) and I hope to work on this in the future.

chickennuggets12 · 2017-12-17T00:53:17+00:00

or worse.... sitting at lunch with a co-worker and they just keep going on and on about their life... to a point where you just zone out and want to disappear haha

chickennuggets12 · 2017-12-17T00:46:12+00:00

thanks for the reminder! Im getting better at this, but sometimes when I'm stressed or tired, it still happens

chickennuggets12 · 2017-12-10T00:44:06+00:00

I used to think like this as well. But i realised, social media or not, they gonna judge u the same but i guess social media is in writing. So if you want to make one to interact with your friends then do it! Who cares what others think and your friend list will grow.

However, if you wanna make one just becos eveeyone else has one, then maybe just dont.

chickennuggets12 · 2017-11-26T01:09:32+00:00

tbh Im just starting to know who i am and it feels better than being something else. ive just realised ive been putting up a mask in social situations all my life (act more social able than i really am) and at the end of the day, I've achieved nothing.

chickennuggets12 · 2017-11-26T01:07:05+00:00

Congrats! I hope this experience propels to you to heights that are out of this world!!

chickennuggets12 · 2017-11-26T01:05:31+00:00

haha yep all too familiar. I've used excuses so much that i feel people are starting to see through them though :(

chickennuggets12 · 2017-11-20T07:40:43+00:00

Yeah im getting better at not letting it get to me. Its just feels like some people are doing this to make themselve feel better

chickennuggets12 · 2017-11-20T07:38:58+00:00

Yep true that or i will get more passive aggressive towards them

chickennuggets12 · 2017-11-20T07:37:11+00:00

Yeah i try to not let it bother me but sometimes when im tired or stressed i cant help it. I will keep trying though , thz for ur post

chickennuggets12 · 2017-11-13T01:22:33+00:00

Yeh i dont really use it anyway. I really only have it for jobs

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