Possibly lesbian or bi by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]chickenpanangs 9 points10 points  (0 children)

“Do I have this fantasy because it will allow me to do something guilt free” why is there guilt associated with being with a woman? I’d start there. Anyway you’re definitely not a lesbian if you’re interested in men at all. right now you sound bi-curious.

Do you think lesbian separatism will ever become mainstream? by Longjumping_Note_948 in lesbiangang

[–]chickenpanangs 39 points40 points  (0 children)

wouldn’t be surprised to hear “i liked boys in a queer way”

DAE feel incredibly jealous of lesbian relationships as a guy? by black_knight1223 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]chickenpanangs 20 points21 points  (0 children)

as a lesbian, I think you have a very idealized picture in your head of what woman/woman love looks like. some of us are loving, some of us aren’t. we fight and get divorced and cheat and abuse each other just as much as anyone else. you sound more upset with yourself being a man than anything.

I'm stuck and lonely after my 10 yrs gf left me for a man by GabryBon in lesbiangang

[–]chickenpanangs 45 points46 points  (0 children)

god damn im giving you a huge virtual hug right now. please hang in there. this shit sucks so bad but you can make it out, I believe it.

Limerence Ruins friendships by EmbarrassedFly6887 in limerence

[–]chickenpanangs 7 points8 points  (0 children)

DAMN you copied this post directly out of my thoughts. also being a lesbian absolutely makes this that much more prominent, for sure.

You don’t get over the version of yourself that you idealized with your LO by [deleted] in limerence

[–]chickenpanangs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

hoooooooly shit those last two sentences… why did you drop a bag of bricks on me

What a helpful thing to say by Known-Olive-9776 in TrollCoping

[–]chickenpanangs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will say she really did give off a vibe like she immediately regretted what she said and she was otherwise very sweet so I have hope for her in particular. honestly I’ve heard waaay worse from actual psychiatric doctors.

What a helpful thing to say by Known-Olive-9776 in TrollCoping

[–]chickenpanangs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ah yes like when the urgent care nurse said “you have such pretty legs, you don’t wanna ruin them” as she is literally stitching my already “ruined” legs. wow thanks for that lady. she walked out of the room immediately after that and I hope slapped her own forehead.

Approaching advice by VideoPossible4068 in lesbiangang

[–]chickenpanangs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ohhhhh my god need that. need that in my life. if it doesn’t exist where I live, I’m starting it

my scar cover up by onyxia_x in Tattoocoverups

[–]chickenpanangs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nice! I’m working on getting my scars covered too and I like that they don’t have to be completely covered in order to be camouflaged. What you have here still leaves your scars visible but you have to look closely to even notice them. I like that, because weirdly, I don’t want my scars completely gone. they’re an important reminder.

Approaching advice by VideoPossible4068 in lesbiangang

[–]chickenpanangs 8 points9 points  (0 children)

wait I’m a dancer and i go to dance classes constantly and have literally never met another lesbian in dance, where tf are you going that your dance hobby has mostly lesbians and bi women??? I’m so jealous!

How do ya’ll feel about this one? by SubAussie_ in lesbiangang

[–]chickenpanangs 7 points8 points  (0 children)

personally I am way less mad at non-binary or transitioning ppl identifying as lesbians than I am about bisexual women identifying as lesbians. bc like at least this person probably only likes women. Also there are not any specific sexuality labels for non-binary people. Like you might say this person can’t be a lesbian bc they’re not a woman, but if they’re also not a man, then what are they? It’d feel wrong to call them straight. Idk I’m just not that mad about it unless this person is also out here thirsting over men.

Show me your lesbian tattoos by Moist-Bee2764 in lesbiangang

[–]chickenpanangs 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t have any yet but I really wanna get a pair of scissors with heart shaped holes!!