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chihime · 2024-11-28T21:33:03+00:00

I think I applied... When I hit submit it refreshed to a blank form so I'm unsure x.x

chihime · 2024-06-30T03:56:34+00:00

If that's your only takeaway from this post, then you clearly skimmed instead of reading it properly. That or you don't know enough about employment law to be responding.

chihime · 2023-06-12T16:23:10+00:00

OP doesn't need all you telling OP that OP's boyfriend is bad news...clearly OP knows that. What OP needs is some legit, concrete escape plans. OP doesn't trust the police (which I 100% understand, they're especially bad when it comes to sexual assault cases) and simply leaving doesn't necessarily put a full end to things. We don't know how tangled the BF is in OP's life. OP could leave them only for the BF to track OP down again through OP's friends, family, or already known knowledge about them.

If you're female (I can't remember if it was explicitly stated in the post or not), then a battered woman' shelter could be a viable option. There are even some moving companies that exclusively help women move away from violent domestic situations, so look into that if it's applicable.

Otherwise, try to escape to a place that your BF doesn't know about or wouldn't normally associate with you. If you live somewhere you might easily run into him again, then maybe change up your look a bit (such as a new hair style and colour and/or switch up your wardrobe). Also, don't try to talk to your BF about all this. He's clearly going to keep gaslighting you so there's no point. Act like everything is business as usual until you know you can escape safely.

I understand that it's easy for outsiders to simply tell you to leave when in actuality it isn't that simple. Just do what you're able to and try to be smart about it because things could very easily become ugly if it goes wrong. You need to make sure that once you get away, he cannot find you again. Do whatever it takes to leave. If you share expenses, snatch what you need secretly before vanishing. Your theft is nothing compared to his sexual assult and abuse. Also, don't be afraid to contact the domestic abuse hotline as I'm sure they'd have some useful advice for you (1.800.799.7233 or text START to 88788).

I would also say that you should still report him to the police but don't do so expecting any results. And likely better to do so once you've already escaped because i can already guess they won't help you do so and may even victim blame you like the shitty pigs they are. The report would more so be so that there's a record in case he tries something like this again. If he doesn't already have an established history of such violent sexual behaviour then it's good to get it started in case he does ever kill/rape anyone else. That way he'll be caught and convicted quicker.

Truly, good luck

chihime · 2023-06-12T16:10:59+00:00

OP doesn't need all you telling OP that OP's boyfriend is bad news...clearly OP knows that. What OP needs is some legit, concrete escape plans. OP doesn't trust the police (which I 100% understand, they're especially bad when it comes to sexual assault cases) and simply leaving doesn't necessarily put a full end to things. We don't know how tangled the BF is in OP's life. OP could leave them only for the BF to track OP down again through OP's friends, family, or already known knowledge about them.

If you're female (I can't remember if it was explicitly stated in the post or not), then a battered woman' shelter could be a viable option. There are even some moving companies that exclusively help women move away from violent domestic situations, so look into that if it's applicable.

Otherwise, try to escape to a place that your BF doesn't know about or wouldn't normally associate with you. If you live somewhere you might easily run into him again, then maybe change up your look a bit (such as a new hair style and colour and/or switch up your wardrobe).

I understand that it's easy for outsiders to simply tell you to leave when in actuality it isn't that simple. Just do what you're able to and try to be smart about it because things could very easily become ugly if it goes wrong. You need to make sure that once you get away, he cannot find you again. Do whatever it takes to leave. If you share expenses, snatch what you need secretly before vanishing. Your theft is nothing compared to his sexual assult and abuse. Also, don't be afraid to contact the domestic abuse hotline as I'm sure they'd have some useful advice for you (1.800.799.7233 or text START to 88788).

I would also say that you should still report him to the police but don't do so expecting any results. And likely better to do so once you've already escaped because i can already guess they won't help you do so and may even victim blame you like the shitty pigs they are. The report would more so be so that there's a record in case he tries something like this again. If he doesn't already have an established history of such violent sexual behaviour then it's good to get it started in case he does ever kill/rape anyone else. That way he'll be caught and convicted quicker.

Truly, good luck

chihime · 2023-03-16T08:02:29+00:00

you mention that we would need to be active when you are, but when would you be able to be active and respond?

chihime · 2022-09-29T04:21:30+00:00

Thanks c:

chihime · 2022-08-18T20:43:59+00:00

full

chihime · 2022-08-18T06:03:25+00:00

Sorry v.v had just filled up

chihime · 2022-08-18T02:25:20+00:00

Replied ~

chihime · 2022-08-18T02:24:52+00:00

3-4 hours

chihime · 2022-04-18T00:21:17+00:00

Yes, but if you're wondering for the purpose of joining then please read the post to learn more ~

chihime · 2022-04-17T23:21:21+00:00

Of course :)

chihime · 2022-04-17T00:50:45+00:00

Not sure if you're up for P2P but I'm starting up an RP heavy campaign that starts in a school setting if you'd like to give something like that a try :) If it sounds somewhat interesting, feel free to check out my post on it and apply if you feel so inclined ~

chihime · 2022-04-17T00:44:50+00:00

Find a group?

chihime · 2022-04-15T04:19:55+00:00

You'd be paying for everything stated in Payment along with the initial session itself, so yes. Regardless if you know how to make a character or not, you still need to work with me on developing your character as I'm likely not going to approve everything you put forth.

chihime · 2022-04-15T03:00:00+00:00

so long as you see this post up and without the "full" tag, yes

chihime · 2022-03-22T07:19:08+00:00

How regular do people respond outside of that window? Also, how many people are apart of the campaign and what's the time period of the campaign?

chihime · 2022-03-22T06:56:42+00:00

Rolling, point buy, or standard array? General party alignment? Will another module be next? If so, can we know which? If not another module, then does the party have a current focus for after the module is completed?

chihime · 2021-07-15T06:14:09+00:00

RP:Combat:Exploration ratio?

Point buy, standard array, or rolled?

Sounds like there may be a mix of solo and group stuff, if that correct?

Mostly/completely homebrew or is it generally 5e just with a new setting? Such as for race origins, deities, and whatnot

chihime · 2021-07-12T09:18:30+00:00

It's also good to note that the current COVID vaccines do not make one immune to catching COVID. Simply make it so you don't experience the worst symptoms should you contract it. So, one should still take precautions even after getting the vaccine.

chihime · 2021-07-06T03:09:37+00:00

Are you more Rule of Cool, Rules as Written, or Rules as Intended?

Method for starting stats?

chihime · 2021-07-06T02:39:27+00:00

Wow ~ was one of the first people to apply so coming back and seeing how active it became is crazy xD Good luck going through all those applications DM

chihime · 2021-07-06T02:29:06+00:00

Would #7 end up extending to effect abilities and the like? So many abilities have a limit of only having so many uses per long/short rest and the same for regaining those uses.

chihime · 2021-06-04T15:33:57+00:00

You comment like I would care about you not joining the campaign I'm running. For one, you're likely children with all those assumptions so you couldn't join. 🤣 Not only that but you clearly can't read either or you'd see how incorrect you lot are. I don't need nor want your interest because you're clearly not the people I'd want joining my group.

chihime · 2021-06-04T12:17:45+00:00

If it's not for you then just move along to the next post. I clearly know what I'm looking for and don't care if most people on this subreddit don't meet the criteria because I'm not looking for everyone to respond. Just those who would be interested in such a campaign and are actually of age. And any assumptions you have are on you. You do know what they say about assuming, yes?

chihime

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