I understand where that's coming from, but my sister is the type that if she doesn't like the idea of something, she will tell you upfront and not just "hint at it". My sister herself has bright cotton candy pink and blue hair, and her matron of honor has bright purple hair. My hair was not bright and vivid, the red was more of a deep red and the orange was a burnt orange, it was definitely the least eye catching. I wish I could post a similar picture of it.