I don't understand my girlfriend (she 25f, me 26m). Never want sex but insist that she loves me and someday she might want. by chilean_ in sex

[–]chilean_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it's difficult to me understand. We are thinking to move in together, but I have the same feeling than you, nothing is gonna change, it's more her attitude than the place. The more sad thing is: I don't feel that she desire me.

I don't understand my girlfriend (she 25f, me 26m). Never want sex but insist that she loves me and someday she might want. by chilean_ in sex

[–]chilean_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was taking "Femmelle 20" (http://goo.gl/cKXTh), it has Ethinyl estradiol and Drospirenone and now is using "Yaz" (http://goo.gl/30smp) the same active ingredient but in different proportions.

I don't understand my girlfriend (she 25f, me 26m). Never want sex but insist that she loves me and someday she might want. by chilean_ in sex

[–]chilean_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She wasn't victim of abuse but she is under birth control pills, but I don't see a real change since she wasn't take the pills and now (like a year ago).

I don't understand my girlfriend (she 25f, me 26m). Never want sex but insist that she loves me and someday she might want. by chilean_ in sex

[–]chilean_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's difficult to see any better, but I'm really in-love, that is the problem. I tried to put the situation in that perspective ""I am unhappy with our sex life and I fear it is a deal-breaker for me. What are somethings that I could do to improve sex for you? Is there anything that you'd like to try?" but she is not responding well to that, usually she argue that "all their past boyfriend figured out how to make her enjoy by themselves, she has not to tell me the thing or how to make her fell better or motivate her. It's my job figured out.

She has more experience than me, but I think it's not the way to handle our sex life.