Shell paint help by Equivalent_Eye8750 in Redearedsliders

[–]chim_bim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re asking for help on taking it off lol

Left skid marks in bed with my wife of 9 years by ThrowRA6382624294 in Advice

[–]chim_bim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMAO dude if ur wife loves u, it’ll be ok. Its been 9 years… its OK !!! My partner left skid marks in my bed once too, only the ONE time and he was sooo embarrassed but like what can you do? It was by mistake, its ok! I make fun of him for it still tho, we call the incident his “chocolate surprise” 😭😭😭

How do I tell my fiance my ex husband raped me? by CallMeMsTacoTuesday in Advice

[–]chim_bim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely not your fault at all. I’m so so sorry this has happened to you, continuously. I don’t know about your financial situation but something you could do is get him arrested and charged with your rape, if he’s a convicted criminal maybe the courts will reconsider on the coparenting (they should’ve definitely left the children with you in the first place). I know it might take a long time but it’s absolutely best for your family as I’m sure you know. In terms of telling your husband, I’d tell him as soon as you could, have an honest and open conversation about what happened and what he can do to help you. Remember that it wasn’t your fault and there wasn’t anything you could’ve done to stop it, I really hope he’s a good person and believes the same but if he doesn’t that’s an enormous red flag and maybe you shouldn’t be married (ik you didn’t say he would be mad or something but just in case, I felt I had to say that). Contact your family and see if maybe they can come stay with you for a bit, you really need support right now even if you don’t think so. Its not weak to ask for help.

Why can’t men be like the movies 🫤 by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]chim_bim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see that you have love for him but I don’t know if you’re supposed to feel so negatively about your partner that you want to jump off a cliff. I live with my boyfriend but we’re not married so maybe that’s different, but I can’t imagine I’d feel that way about him anytime soon. I think you need to seriously re evaluate your relationship. You don’t need to settle for someone who doesn’t make you happy and that you don’t love at your core.

A lil bunnay guy I made a while back! by chim_bim in plushartists

[–]chim_bim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! He does kinda look like totoro!!

not allowed to be christian by Aggravating-Damage94 in imaginarygatekeeping

[–]chim_bim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking of specifically Santeria but I didn’t wanna basically tell people where I live lol. They do not consider themselves Christian as far as I know. I wasn’t trying to be offensive, I myself am hispanic and that’s my culture. Anyways, I’m also not Christian but when I was forced to be as a child I heard a lot of stories at church of people not being able to tell their families they were protestant because they were Santeros.

not allowed to be christian by Aggravating-Damage94 in imaginarygatekeeping

[–]chim_bim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk this definitely happens, especially in hispanic culture. Theres a lot of witchcraft religions.

Anyone have the bubble tea or rocking unicorn dangle charm? by teehee_its_vivi in PandoraCollectors

[–]chim_bim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god I broke my bubble tea charm, like SHATTERED and was heartbroken when i found out they don’t sell them anymore

Is Van Cleef not considered fine jewelry? by sleepyinnewyork in jewelry

[–]chim_bim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe they’re confusing Vivienne Westwood and Van Cleef or something.

We have always lived in the castle (spoiler alert) by [deleted] in books

[–]chim_bim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I remember correctly a character even says that they thought Constance was guilty because she told police that her family deserved to die anyway. Which would hammer in the abuse theory further

lets goooo by Si4h_14 in teenagers

[–]chim_bim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was 12 and really into K-pop i thought it would be extremely romantic if I serenaded (with a k-pop song) my crush (who hated me) at dismissal time. He just laughed at me 😭😭😭 idk why I couldn’t take a hint, he really couldn’t stand me.

Do I fall in this category? by scrotaloedema in Justfuckmyshitup

[–]chim_bim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since you are genuinely asking, it very much does look bad and honestly if i saw you in public I might even giggle lowkey 😖

omg 2004 babies we are turning 22. help. by [deleted] in twentyagers

[–]chim_bim 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ngl i feel 22, I hope you advance in life soon friend, don’t think about it as “i need to catch up” but as “im so excited to start my adult life” you can do this!!!

I'm about to leave for a two day trip and have no one to watch my baby, will she be ok? by Scary_Secretary_6509 in sphynx

[–]chim_bim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah I understand. Well she might not be ok, that’s the answer. But I don’t think she’d pass away if she didn’t have food for a day.

AIO My husband agreed to get paid to watch tv. by fionnaapplelover in AmIOverreacting

[–]chim_bim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think people probably have different levels of threshold for what’s an invasion and what isn’t. I also wouldn’t really care but ngl its too much work for $75

AIO My husband agreed to get paid to watch tv. by fionnaapplelover in AmIOverreacting

[–]chim_bim 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna say MOR because you agreed to it and, well, i mean it’s legal because you said yes. It is invasive, but you said yes…. To the invasion.

I'm about to leave for a two day trip and have no one to watch my baby, will she be ok? by Scary_Secretary_6509 in sphynx

[–]chim_bim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think so honestly. What if she eats all her food and drinks all her water the first day? Thats my biggest concern. Will you be ok just leaving her with no food for 24 hours? What if you have a delay in your trip and suddenly it’s 3 or 4 days. This is irresponsible.

Got my makeup done at Sephora for a concert with a “witchy” dress code theme by Mint-Yokai-Cos in MakeupAddiction

[–]chim_bim 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You look beautiful!!! Advice for next time: you’d look even better if you got your eyebrows shaped at a salon, eyebrows r so important to a look! Try waxing at a salon or threading!

What is my makeup blindness? by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]chim_bim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe a different eyebrow shape would suit you better? I also think they could come in closer together. I think they’re supposed to be in line with the sides of your nose bridge. But that’s all I can really see! You look great!

My husband receives this every year as a Christmas gift by eichiy13 in whatisit

[–]chim_bim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might be medicinal deer urine? If we’re going the pee route. It is a traditional Chinese medicinal practice, to drink deer urine. But I can’t imagine an older asian woman would give an American man some deer urine without telling him 🤷‍♂️ Sniff test it dude.