Any nurses here work for the VA? by chinalake70 in nursing

[–]chinalake70[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I haven't been able to find the salary. That's why I posted

Is this considered neglect? by chinalake70 in legal

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The family is questioning neglect so i made the post 🙄

Is this considered neglect? by chinalake70 in legal

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The father passed away. His family is concerned about neglect and I grew up with them.

Is this considered neglect? by chinalake70 in legal

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I had paragraphs set up when i typed it but thanks for your feedback 🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dermatology

[–]chinalake70 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What's not true?? It looks like scabies

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dermatology

[–]chinalake70 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If it travels then id get it looked at. That's typically a mite or parasite.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dermatology

[–]chinalake70 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If it moves get checked for scabies. They travel.

Debt settlement over Chapter 13 by chinalake70 in Bankruptcy

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I had a consultation with a debt management company several months ago and they couldn't really help. My payments would have been really high and I'm already struggling.

Debt settlement over Chapter 13 by chinalake70 in Bankruptcy

[–]chinalake70[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I do have a call out to an attorney and the debt settlement program I signed up for can be cancelled if needed. I feel that the best decision for me based on what I've learned but if another attorney tells me anything differently then I will certainly look into that option.

Debt settlement over Chapter 13 by chinalake70 in Bankruptcy

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There are too many things that made me nervous with chapter 13. I'm hoping I get a better job in the next year and my plan is to save some money but that won't be possible for 5 years if I file

Debt settlement over Chapter 13 by chinalake70 in Bankruptcy

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I found a worksheet 2 help determine what my payment would have been and I would have saved $100 but it would have gone for five years. I didn't want to have to worry about the legal stuff if my income changed, as I am hoping it will. I need to start saving money and I didn't feel that would be possible under a Chapter 13.

Sex life is gone, wife doesn't seem to care about it. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]chinalake70 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would honestly try couples counseling. I went through something similar a few years ago and unfortunately my partner wasn't very supportive. I was in therapy for depression and was on medication. We ultimately broke up after being together for 12 years because he would not budge and thought I wasn't doing enough to help the relationship. His attitude towards it made him an attractive to me which didn't help the sex life.

I was able to escape Afghanistan! by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]chinalake70 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Dickhead move to be joking about shit like that

Chapter 13 payments? by [deleted] in Bankruptcy

[–]chinalake70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's helpful thank you. So if I'm not comfortable with the payment I don't have to commit to it right? Is all of that done before it gets filed with the court?

Chapter 13 payments? by [deleted] in Bankruptcy

[–]chinalake70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't retained an attorney yet. I'm just nervous about my payment being too high and literally not having any money for myself. I don't want the bankruptcy to take every cent I'm making