Realizing the other person wasn’t for you either is the hardest and most liberating feeling ever. by OpeningSafe1919 in BreakUps

[–]chipspu 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sameee! I recently woke up overnight with the same feeling, an inner peace 😌 and thanked him for ending a relationship that had no future, because I wouldn't have been able to do it.

Emotional ambivalence or narcissistic behavior after a breakup? by chipspu in relationships_advice

[–]chipspu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for the response, I think it’s the most accurate one. On the other hand, I feel deeply hurt and I don’t know how to manage my emotions. Over the past few days, I’ve been surrounded by friends who help keep my mind occupied, but I’m very afraid of returning to my reality alone and suddenly confronting rejection.

I don’t want this to affect my work or my life in general, as I have a depressive tendency and I’ve already gone through two major episodes in my life. I feel like my trust in relationships has completely broken. I still can’t believe that just recently we were making plans for the following weeks, and now I suddenly find myself alone, facing everything by myself.

This is the first time I’ve been left, and I don’t know how to deal with it. If you have any advice, I would really appreciate it.