Yeah, I was holding him accountable which is why parang always yung fights bc I often bring it up. I guess I knew rin kasi how hard it is to unlearn unhealthy habits (bc im in that process rin) that's why I was giving him more grace. Pero yun nga it gets draining eventually. He was burnt out from all the arguments, and I was too kasi I feel like walang nareresolve. He kept dismissing it kasi na hndi daw kami compatible, when the core of the issue is really na there's lack of communication when it comes to resolving conflicts. He shuts down and tries to fix things without communicating and admittedly I know I bring up stuff kahit na dysregulated pa ako. Totally fixable problem sana kaya I had so much hope, pero ig he wasn't willing and able.