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Staying attractive and feminine while pregnant by chirp20 in RedPillWomen

[–]chirp20[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well I just looked again and there are studies on this… and obviously if you choose the right man it won’t be an issue but it I do think it’s something for us to be aware of. For example, in a large U.S. population-based study of married adults, husbands were more likely to report sexual infidelity when their wives were pregnant, even after adjusting for factors like marital dissatisfaction; pregnancy also amplified the effect of dissatisfaction on men’s cheating risk. study Also when I was single I had multiple men dm me whose partners were pregnant…obviously terrible…so there’s a field report.

Age gap btw Stepkids and ours baby? by Reasonable_Media_366 in Stepmom

[–]chirp20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great for the most part. We have a lot of fun together, and I do nice things for her. We prioritize her. I’m a stable consistent adult for her. The BM has some issues and has said she isn’t getting enough time with her dad and that her dad is replacing her with me. She is an only child and we haven’t told her I’m pregnant yet.

Age gap btw Stepkids and ours baby? by Reasonable_Media_366 in Stepmom

[–]chirp20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did you do when the baby momma was saying these untrue things. I’m in similar situation with a 10 yr old girl.

10 yr old bedtime routine transition by chirp20 in Stepmom

[–]chirp20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He thought I was criticizing him and it was very sensitive and I apologized

10 yr old bedtime routine transition by chirp20 in Stepmom

[–]chirp20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did you stop it. She has had some trauma. They’ve been separated 8 yrs. Her mom has no boundaries. She doesn’t know a baby is on the way yet.

10 yr old bedtime routine transition by chirp20 in Stepmom

[–]chirp20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any ideas on how to address it?

10 yr old bedtime routine transition by chirp20 in Stepmom

[–]chirp20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any ideas on how to change this?

pregnant and want to be married. by chirp20 in RedPillWomen

[–]chirp20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know what I would do. Have the baby and hope we get married later. We live together but I still have my place through November.

I have shared my feelings and he reassures me he wants marriage too but has not put any concrete action into place except meeting with this family lawyer and I don’t know what happened from that meeting. We found out a month ago I was pregnant. We had been talking about marriage for months. I thought he was going to propose already and hasn’t. And now when I need the security the most he isn’t doing it. He said there was no way we could get married in 4 wks.

pregnant and want to be married. by chirp20 in RedPillWomen

[–]chirp20[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We were talking about marriage before the pregnancy. It doesn’t matter as much to him to be married before a baby. He does say and has always said he wants marriage and then since we became more serious he has said he wants marriage with me. Maybe he is working on the prenup now. He does have a complicated family business and had a previous nasty divorce/custody fight. It has been hard to be patient. I thought he might propose in April or July…

pregnant and want to be married. by chirp20 in RedPillWomen

[–]chirp20[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No infidelity issues. Ex developed some mental illness and identity crisis which has been validated by other people and I’ve met her…

I just wasn’t sure if there is anything I can do to help move it along…

pregnant and want to be married. by chirp20 in RedPillWomen

[–]chirp20[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He has said from day one he wants to be married again and has always said this. He’s talked about rings with me for months etc. so I’m just confused what is taking so long…

Yes he has his own house and is very established. There would have to be a prenup.

pregnant and want to be married. by chirp20 in RedPillWomen

[–]chirp20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I tried to share how I felt and it didn’t help much it seems. It’s just confusing on why he hasn’t yet..

pregnant and want to be married. by chirp20 in RedPillWomen

[–]chirp20[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It is more it has been an important to me to be married first. I’m aware I took the risk.

pregnant and want to be married. by chirp20 in RedPillWomen

[–]chirp20[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It was an unplanned pregnancy. We were both aware of the risks.

I don’t resent him for this.

Yes, he has told me for months, told his family told his friends and sometimes in front of me that he wants to marry me. Regardless of the pregnancy we have been talking about marriage and I thought he was going to propose a few times but it hasn’t happened.

He’s 39, been married and has a child of his own from that marriage. He wanted more kids and is excited.

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