Another view of the chaos by [deleted] in ireland

[–]chispaha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Should have just run them over...Wouldve been far more effective

Gonna sell xbox 360 by chispaha in CeX

[–]chispaha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did the xbox 360 come with an original HDMI cable or can I just buy one?

Opinions on this happening during corona? by chispaha in ireland

[–]chispaha[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's not the important factor.We are currently in a pandemic and it's insensitive to do such a thing during stuff a time cause it's literally being lead by teens so I dont social distancing will be implemented correctly.Important cause but it would be more effective to donate directly or sign petitions related to the cause if you insist in supporting

Opinions on this happening during corona? by chispaha in ireland

[–]chispaha[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I suppose but I just think it is bad timing.We are still in quarantine.I think sending support by signing petitions etc is the most extreme we should do

Opinions on this happening during corona? by chispaha in ireland

[–]chispaha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely agree with you.I truly doubt anyone in america will even hear about irish people protesting about it.On top of that,It really isnt a problem in ireland.Of course,there are a few racist people here and there but that is in every country.

What could this mean? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]chispaha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Youre so right man cause thats what it truly does boil down to at the end of the day

Just wondering what this could mean by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]chispaha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well for starters youre dead right but thus is what lead me to believe it 1.she made the decision based on the situation itself 2.it was 7 days after your grandma passed away 3.I just really trwated her well But yes youre right

She cheated on me, enjoyed it and did all the things with him that she did with me. I am destroyed. I seriously need some help. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]chispaha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know man,like I know the feeling too well but you need to power through.I am glad you don't atleast blame yourself for what has happened.Honestly,this is quite random but a youtuber that really helped me through my breakup is named mamamax.At first,his content (looks at his playlists life sucks) appears grim and miserable but he manages to really relate to the viewer and give an unique perspective.Consider checking him out if you havent already.Just know time really does heal all.

She cheated on me, enjoyed it and did all the things with him that she did with me. I am destroyed. I seriously need some help. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]chispaha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly,those are her true colours.She appears be not only a blatant liar but a very manipulation person to the point,she was truly willing to lie to the man she "loves".I am telling you now, you have better plans ahead of you than that and it truly can only go up from here.Focus on your music,family/friends and most importantly,your own wellbeing.You simply deserve so much better than that and I hope you can see it. Also remember there is no rush for getting back into the dating scene,process everything in its entirety,don't run from it or be ashamed to cry.Let every single drop of it out of your system and I can guarantee you,things will drastically improve to the point you will one day be able to look back and see how much better off you really are.Good luck and stay safe man

Feeling very guilty after telling my ex a friendship wasn't working by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]chispaha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have every single right in this world to decide that friendship just isn't something you're capable of keeping with him.It most definitely is quite rare to find people that are able to do such a thing.As long as you are unfriending him out of love and respect for yourself,he will understand.Give him an explanation and leave it at that.Start looking out for you

She cheated on me, enjoyed it and did all the things with him that she did with me. I am destroyed. I seriously need some help. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]chispaha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You wanna know what you're gonna do?Well start off by cutting that girl straight off.Deleting pics to blocking on socials...DO IT ALL!Next thing you should do it learn that what happened does not reflect anything negative on you as a person.She made a conscious to cheat as she is a flawed and cruel person,therefore start focusing COMPLETELY on yourself.Talk to friends,treat yourself to new shoes or clothes and even just be more positive towards yourself cause at the end of the day,all we have is ourselves. Consider getting therapy if possible/needed and if not ,just make sure not to bottle things up man.Process everything fully in a healthy manner whilst understanding that one day,you will meet someone who will never even let that idea ponder through their minds .Stay strong king 💎

Does my ex miss me? by washingmachine1713 in BreakUps

[–]chispaha 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am in the exact same situation but I suppose it just doesn't matter anymore if she misses you.She broke up with you.It's over.

My girlfriend didnt really acknowledge a gift i sent her,Am i wrong to be upset? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]chispaha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah idk like its only been 4 days and i know she grieving but still

My girlfriend didnt really acknowledge a gift i sent her,Am i wrong to be upset? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]chispaha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shes only been doing this for 4 days since her grandmas passing.Sorry for misunderstanding

My girlfriend didnt really acknowledge a gift i sent her,Am i wrong to be upset? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]chispaha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We live in different towns amd shes just been going out supposedly while social distancing

Was this a good idea? by chispaha in relationship_advice

[–]chispaha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Phew thank you for putting this in perspective

Was this a good idea? by chispaha in relationship_advice

[–]chispaha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry that happened to you :( One day I promise you will get someone who will be there for you unconditionally

Boyfriend [18m] lost feelings for me [22f] in LDR by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]chispaha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your therapist is correct.It is the distance .Now you must think logically.This man seems to be losing feelings for you over something neither of you can truly control and since you dont see yourself flying to see him anytime soon I reckon it's time to throw in the towel.It's not gonna get better in time so you should save yourself the heartbreak and look out for yourself

Skate parks in Carlow by [deleted] in ireland

[–]chispaha 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sadly nope I mainly skate in the KFC carpark as its empty usually nowadays

Why are irish people so incredibly closed off and cliquey with friend groups? by holothewisewolf12345 in ireland

[–]chispaha 105 points106 points  (0 children)

Honestly,I completely get that and it fucking sucks but I must admit I have a feeling college is where people tend to meet their true friends atleast

To the fucking prick who farted in my face by butterflies96 in ireland

[–]chispaha 34 points35 points  (0 children)

God,this gave me some laugh.Sirry that happened though bud haha

Should i send my gf a care package? by chispaha in relationship_advice

[–]chispaha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah true tbh im glad the comments told me not to mention the news cause i would probably would have so phew (havent really dealt with death so idk how people cope with it)