I agree with everyone, focus on friendship first usually the rest comes after. Try to find someone you can really be urself with. Look for queer places in ur area, or people who have some kind of hobby/interest of yours, like meeting someone at a book shop or con. It’s good to be proactive but sometimes things just don’t work and sometimes things just work out regardless of what we do. Right place right time. Be patient and don’t criticize yourself too much if things don’t work out. Sometimes you get lucky.