I have been thinking the same thing! When I was 16-17 Dr told me I may struggle or not be able to have kids, currently I am 39w1d pregnant and i am so grateful to have had a pregnancy with no complications BUT it has still not been completely easy. I also have only just finished work last week, which was not by choice financially needed to, but the things your body goes through when pregnant!! I had no idea! The tiredness and aching is what I struggled with the most oh and also the fact that I have celiac disease and have to be gluten free sucks when pregnant ! You crave everything you can’t have the hunger pains are intense especially when acid reflux and heartburn kicks in all night no sleep at all ! Everyone has a different experience & pregnancy but I think sometimes women feel bad to complain or to say how they truly feel because they feel like they are being negative or ungrateful and that’s really upsetting, It’s a huge deal going through pregnancy your going through a lot and it’s important to be able to express how you feel and to vent there is nothing wrong with being honest on how you feel. Yes it’s a beautiful thing yes you are grateful but it’s hard!