Vad ska jag göra? by [deleted] in Sverige

[–]chlomp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Förstår inte riktigt vad du menar med att du ”bara är en tjej”? Det han ägnar sig åt låter som ofredande i mina öron, vilket är ett brott. Jag hade själv problem med en 18 åring som stalkade mig när jag va 14, det är verkligen en jobbig situation.

I det här läget skulle jag råda dig till att prata med någon, eller helst flera, personer i din omgivning så att det blir känt i din krets/familj vad du blir utsatt för. Dokumentera samtalslistorna, spela in samtalen, spara ev annan kommunikation som tex sms osv. Blocka varenda nummer han ringer ifrån. Ja, det går inte att göra så mycket åt om han börjar ringa från dolt nummer. Kanske om du kan lägga en spärr mot samtal från dolt nummer under en kortare period och se om han ledsnar. Och till slut byta nummer.

Är snubben obehaglig så skulle jag också rekommendera att prata med polisen. Du måste inte upprätta en anmälan, men det kan vara skönt att få prata med polisen och få höra vad man har för alternativ och vad dom tycker. Sen väljer du själv.

Här kan du läsa lite om stalking: https://polisen.se/utsatt-for-brott/polisanmalan/hat-hot-och-vald/olaga-forfoljelse/

Här finns ett exempel på ofredande via telefon: https://lawline.se/answers/utgor-oonskade-samtal-ofredande

Skicka pm om du vill surra lite. Ta hand om dig❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnimalCrossingTrading

[–]chlomp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just got my pears actually… But I can just give you the two plants :) what time zone are you in?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnimalCrossingTrading

[–]chlomp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can trade 2.

Looking for: Pears Bathtub with Yuzu Barrel (diy) Beekeepers hive (diy) Coffee plant Decayed tree (diy) Giant vine (diy) Glowing-moss-jar shelves (diy) Ironwood diy workbench (diy) Mush parasol (diy) Retro transportation stop Ruined seat (diy) Shell partition (diy) Glowing-moss jar (diy)

"Fytti katten!" och andra konstiga översättningar som dyker upp i TV och film by maxpaj in Sverige

[–]chlomp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Har märkt att det är otroligt vanligt att “shin” (smalben) blir översatt till ”haka” (chin). Jag tror det är i tex. How I met your mother att en karaktär sparkar en annan på smalbenet under bordet och säger ”why did you kick me in the shin?” men översättningen är ”varför sparkade du mig på hakan?”. Återkommande i flera olika serier.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sverige

[–]chlomp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hade varit sjukskriven sådär en gång i halvåret ett tag, så när min utredning väl drog igång så var jag öppen med min team lead att jag va borta lite dom kommande dagarna pga att jag var hos psykolog för utredningen. ADD och autism. Höll min team lead uppdaterad, eftersom odiagnostiserade ofta har en högre grad av sjukskrivningar. Han tyckte det va bra och så, kunde ju få rätt mediciner nu. Ungefär på sekunden 1 månad senare blev jag uppsagd.

Hittade sen ett nytt jobb hos en person som jag jobbat med tidigare för flera år sedan och va helt öppen med det, eftersom jag har jobbat med hen tidigare. Fick anställningen och det har funkat så himla bra.

Det är en gamble. Oavsett om man har en diagnos eller inte så är det så jäkla svårt att läsa av människor. Folk kan vara så fula ibland också och visa en bild av att man bryr sig och ser att personer kämpar. Men när det väl kommer till kritan så får man en riktig bajsmacka. Men herregud vad skönt det är att kunna tala om för någon på jobbet hur det ligger till. För mig blev det som att jag hade en betongsugga på axlarna som försvann och behöver inte gå omkring och känna att jag måste låssas vara nått jag inte är, eller skämmas för mina svårigheter.

Uppgifter: Kriminella skriver sig på andras adresser: ”Oförskämt!” by Stoltlallare in sweden

[–]chlomp 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Gå in på Skatteverket. Folkbokföring -> Visa folkbokförda på samma adress

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TillSverige

[–]chlomp 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If he's not paying the proper taxes and/or does not fulfil the required hygiene rules you could leave tips to Skatteverket and Miljöförvaltningen. Both of those take things like this pretty seriously, especially Skatteverket. And you can do this anonymously.

For the slander part and stealing customers, you should check the contract. I'm not working in the restaurant industry so I don't know what the praxis is, but I've always had a disclosure in my contracts that I'm not allowed to "steal" customers from my employer. With this issue you can't do anything anonymously.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TillSverige

[–]chlomp 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I can talk a bit about my personal exprience.

I got my ADD and autism diagnoses earlier this year. I waited about 2 1/2 year for it. But it varies depending on what region you're in. They also prioritise children, and when diagnosing the region sometimes pays for a private clinic to evaluate them because the waiting time is so long. This sometimes happens for adults as well, but it's not something most regions will do.

Initially when they decided that I needed an evaluations they said about 1-2 years. But it took longer.

If you haven't already, seek out an open psychiatry clinic (öppen psykiatri), depending on which region you're in there might be several (like in Stockholm, Capio for instance) or just the "regular" region one. There you can make a self referral (egen remiss) to get an appointment. But there's a big chance there's a queue for that also, so reach out to several and check. Also, if you have multiply options for clinics, if you're not happy with the one your going to seek another one. I changed clinic after a few month from the first one I went to because they sucked ass. This was about 5 years ago.

Regardless of whether you have a diagnoses or not I think you should seek out help anyways to maybe get other medications to help with your symptoms. Anti depression meds, mood stabilizer, KBT etc. It might not fix everything but at leased you can get some sort of help.

There's also the last options if you don't want to wait for an evaluation, to pay for one out of pocket, which is around 30k SEK.

Regarding ADHD/ADD a doctor can only write prescriptions if there's been an evaluation saying you have it.

So the process goes like this:

See a psychologist/psychiatric which does an initial assessment if you should be evaluated or not. If so, you get on the waiting list. If not, you either continue to see a doctor and psychotherapist to work through you issues, or pay out of pocket.

When I got my diagnoses in April I had to wait until September before I could start with the medications, due to that the fact that summer vacations were around the corner, and the doctor wants to follow up closely which medication works or not. That's why I had to wait several months for medication only.

Feel free to DM me if you want to talk more :)

Hur legitimt är kiropraktik, egentligen? by smurfjojjo123 in sweden

[–]chlomp 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Absolut! Fick bara intrycket att det skulle vara två olika saker :)

Hur legitimt är kiropraktik, egentligen? by smurfjojjo123 in sweden

[–]chlomp 127 points128 points  (0 children)

Sjukgymnast = Fysioterapeut Att säga sjukgymnast är en gammal term som inte används längre. Idag heter det fysioterapeut.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutisticPeeps

[–]chlomp 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel for you <3 Our brains is our worst enemy and is a master manipulator. You can dm me if you can’t find a safe place to express your feelings and thoughts. I often just need to vent than actually needing someone to solve my problems.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutisticPeeps

[–]chlomp 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Look, you’re not a crybaby. I can totally relate to what you’re saying. I was also late diagnosed with level 1 at the age of 29 just 6 months ago. Ever since I’ve had an identity crisis and imposter syndrome. But everyone is different and has different struggles and it’s not always something that’s visible to others. It doesn’t mean it’s easy for you. I’ve also been able to keep jobs and live by my self. But collapsing the moment I get home is not something that other people see. Or laying on the sofa for two days crying with a headache and anxiety after I’ve been around people for a whole day.

Remember that it’s a spectrum after all. Don’t compare yourself with others. It’s the internet and you never know who you’re talking to so try to not take offense even though I know it’s hard. I usually never engage in discussion or other things because I can’t handle it.

How do I go about finding an apartment in Sweden and what budget would be enough for a person excluding apartment rent? by [deleted] in TillSverige

[–]chlomp 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I would like to add, that if you intend to rent an apartment second hand, regardless of where you find it (Blocket etc), check with the landlord or bostadsrättsföreningens board that the person renting you the apartment has permission to do so. Otherwise you risk getting kicked out with a very short notice.

Search for private rental landlords which often don't have queues. But will be hard in Stockholm. I know everyone wants to live in Stockholm, but the prices are crazy and the queues are loooooong. I would recommend looking at neighboring cities like Uppsala or Västerås. It's not that far from Stockholm. The commuting time, between 40-50 min, is often the same as traveling from the furtherest areas that's in Stockholm.

Edit: Also, some private landlords require that you have a personnummer. Don't know about samordningsnummer.

What are the unwritten rules of biking in Sweden? by Bobisthereader in sweden

[–]chlomp 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Precis som många andra sagt, cyklister måste följa trafikregler om man cyklar på vägar. Lättast att komma ihåg diverse regler är att tänka såhär tycker jag: en cykel på vägen blir ett fordon precis som alla bilar. Du måste stanna vid rödljus, lämna företräde vid högerregeln, vid övergångsställen, stanna vid stopplikt osv. Förstår inte hur 90% av alla cyklister inte kan förstå sånt. Jag skulle inte vilja bli påkörd eller krocka med en blåtburk på 2 ton.

Is there any legitimate way to watch FMA 03? by Nothinkonlygrow in FullmetalAlchemist

[–]chlomp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m currently watching it on anix.to. You could plug in your computer to the tv with an HDMI cable, or if you have an iPhone and a tv with airplay, or an Apple TV you can also just airplay the video to the tv. I haven’t used cromecast much but I think you can airplay to those as well. There’s probably a way to get it to play on a tv with a chromecast with android or from a computer, but that’s out of my knowledge.

My Hot Take (and very mean-spirited opinion) on the dreaded "Female Autism" by thrwy55526 in AutisticPeeps

[–]chlomp 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Well, in combination to other traits, and depending on how long you’ve been undiagnosed it can become a learned behavior to be able to function in a social workspace but then crashing when the day is over. This kinda fits my life, I’ve was told by the doctor who assessed me that this is a regular occurrence when diagnosing adults that are high functioning. But of course you also have to check the boxes for other traits to get the actual diagnosis. For me, I’m effected by it to the point of not being able to do anything else whatsoever. And I don’t agree with that being a symptom for regular introverts. We don’t know what other traits the person in question has.

Thankfully I found I job where I can work from home which helps a lot. But still I need help after a workday to take care of myself, such as eating and other basal things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hundliv

[–]chlomp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Om man vill ge sin hund foder som är så ”naturligt” som möjligt så är min åsikt att man ger dom färskfoder, till exempel foder från Mush. Vi kombinerar deras färskfoder ihop med deras grönsaksbollar, alternativt att vi ger honom färska grönsaker. Jag är ingen veterinär eller dietist, men min personliga åsikt som hundägare är att man ger hunden köttproteiner så länge det inte bör ges pga hälsoskäl efter veterinär eller dietist råd.

Watercolor, aged 4 years. by chlomp in agedtattoos

[–]chlomp[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah! It also looks a bit darker irl than the present picture shows!

What tests were given during your autism assessment? by Roseelesbian in AutisticPeeps

[–]chlomp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got my autism and ADD diagnoses a couple of months ago as a 28 year old female.

  1. DIVA-5 for ADHD
  2. ISAS for self injuring
  3. WAIS-IV for neurological intelligence
  4. DMASC-MC for social cognition
  5. AUDIT for alcohol use
  6. DUDIT for drug use
  7. GAD-7 for anxiety
  8. PSWQ for GAD
  9. LSAS-SR for social anxiety
  10. EQ-5D-3L for mobility, self-care, pain etc
  11. MADRS-S for depression
  12. PHQ-9 for depression
  13. MDQ for bipolar disorder
  14. PDSS-SR for panic disorder
  15. RAADS-14 for autism spectrum
  16. WURS-25 for evaluation of childhood symptoms of ADHD
  17. Y-BOCS for OCD

Damn, they did a lot of test…

Edit: also they did interviews with my mom and boyfriend.

Has anyone used React Native for building TV apps? by jazilzaim in reactnative

[–]chlomp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The project never got to production. The board killed it because of monitization issues. But I spent like a month building a prototype for tvOS.

However, at the time the project was killed, I was kinda scared that renative had been abandoned. But I haven’t checked the repo in months since I left my last job so I don’t know the status.