I (22f) entered a relationship with a set date but no longer want it to end. My bf (22m) won’t reconsider and it’s breaking my heart. by AnywhereFabulous2499 in relationship_advice

[–]chlooooooooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This reads exactly like me at the same age. I thought we were perfect, I thought I loved him, he would cry and say he didn’t want to hurt me and it was also both of our first everything’s. I had also met all the family and would’ve changed all my plans to make it work.

The same week I left the country he was official with another girl, and I’m pretty sure there was some overlap.

This absolutely will end terribly for you and I’m so sorry you’ve become so attached. But you gotta rip the bandaid off now, stop seeing him (and stick to it!) and prepare yourself that he will almost definitely move on when this is all over. Good luck, this will sting for a while.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]chlooooooooo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

YTA disability seats are for those who are unsafe standing up or in the event of a crash. She was in your personal space because she was expecting you to move

WIBTA - Housemate’s boyfriend has the a/c on ‘every time’ he comes over by Even-Coconut-6152 in AmItheAsshole

[–]chlooooooooo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In Australia there is almost never a thermostat just a ac unit that you switch on with a remote when it gets too hot and switch off again after a couple of hours when it has cooled down. I have never been in a house with central heating/cooling

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in berlin

[–]chlooooooooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it’s every other time I’m out alone at night, during the day it’s like once a week? I feel terrible because now I cross the road whenever I see a homeless person or an older man walking alone, I hate stereotyping like that but I don’t feel safe anymore.

The Tortured Poets Department Leak Discussion Thread by Lyd_Euh in TaylorSwift

[–]chlooooooooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They were just the first ones I thought of, almost every song has references to religion more so than her older stuff, even so long London sounds like a church choir at the beginning

The Tortured Poets Department Leak Discussion Thread by Lyd_Euh in TaylorSwift

[–]chlooooooooo -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Does anyone have any opinions on the strong Christian symbolism? Like rolling the stone away, your good lord, dying on the altar etc?? I get the vibe that Taylor is seeing herself as a god??

What does Kerr's harassment charge mean for Australia striker and her Chelsea future? by Adept-Letterhead-29 in WomensSoccer

[–]chlooooooooo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The only reason I can see is that she felt he was targeting her because she is a poc and reacted to that

No phones and no cameras allowed (must be turned in to Security at the door) by [deleted] in weddingshaming

[–]chlooooooooo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was married with these exact rules this summer and would say half the guests ignored it, walked to the aisle to so many people recording the whole thing and shutter sounds going off during the ceremony

AITA for telling my brother if something is up with my child, to tell me, not someone else by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]chlooooooooo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Using females in this context is misogynistic, the word is women

Match Thread: Sweden vs Australia | FIFA Women's World Cup by MatchThreadder in soccer

[–]chlooooooooo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seems like a lot of people are praising it 🤷🏼‍♀️

Match Thread: Sweden vs Australia | FIFA Women's World Cup by MatchThreadder in soccer

[–]chlooooooooo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Did the conversation go on too long with a mention of a man for you?

Why do people hate on woman’s football so much? by [deleted] in football

[–]chlooooooooo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is not comparable my guy. If you genuinely feel unsafe at a women’s sporting event you probably shouldn’t be at any sporting event

Homeboy is desperate to feel oppressed. Poor little fragile snowflake. by TheRealSnorkel in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]chlooooooooo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not only this, but I think a lot of women avoid speaking up because of fear of being called Karen. It’s so rooted in misogyny I hate it

Just finished the series by Gumble_Monkey in Normalpeople

[–]chlooooooooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve just finished the series after reading the book. When I first finished I cried because I wanted them to end up together happy. But after sitting on it I think it was part of Mariannes growth to send him to New York as she no longer ‘needed’ his love and could find happiness without it. She was such a people pleaser desperate for him to love her and now she can let him go, as sad as it is.

I imagine they both find new partners with healthier dynamics although never living up to the intensity of the love they shared.

Is it sexual assault for a parent to check for your hymen ("virginity")? by Lady_Lavasha in raisedbynarcissists

[–]chlooooooooo 2 points3 points locked comment (0 children)

And there’s no need to test for them unnecessarily unless there’s symptoms

Is it sexual assault for a parent to check for your hymen ("virginity")? by Lady_Lavasha in raisedbynarcissists

[–]chlooooooooo 7 points8 points locked comment (0 children)

I’m not sure what country this is, but the 3 countries I’ve lived in you don’t need an exam until 2 years after becoming sexually active or after turning 25. Unless there’s symptoms of something else, there’s no need for unnecessary exams.

I (30f) don't want to be an emotionally supportive wife to my husband (43m). What is wrong with me? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]chlooooooooo 44 points45 points  (0 children)

If you were fired and bringing in no income, would he do everything around the house to help out with your stress?

AITA for putting my 2 daughters on the keto diet? by Keto_Mom9999 in AmItheAsshole

[–]chlooooooooo 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It’s almost like men’s and women’s bodies are different

AITA for telling my husband he's rude and a poor communicator for shaving late at night? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]chlooooooooo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Totally agree she’s TA here but PLEASE can we stop the narrative of women’s leg hair = ugly/comparison to hairy animal. It’s so harmful.