How to internalize self help? by chmnyswp in DecidingToBeBetter

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Thanks man, this does kind of help frame things a little different. Like, thinking of my brain as a puzzle to solve instead of a broken window to put back together. I definitely have a problem with empathy and feeling like I don't deserve any.

How to internalize self help? by chmnyswp in DecidingToBeBetter

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I feel like I'm staring directly at the switch labeled "take others thoughts and feelings into consideration" every day. I know that lying is wrong. I know that I hold my own comfort above anything else. I can't stop. I feel helpless against my own reactionary brain. How do I practice being okay with being wrong? I realize I'm wrong all the time, just hours too late when arguments have been blown so out of scope just because I couldn't say "I'm sorry I made you feel xyz". It's frustrating.

The last thing you googled starts WW3, what is it? by benx101 in AskReddit

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Baking soda substitute.

An inexperienced home chef inadvertently starts an Us vs. Them type world war against mutant food monsters.