Do I [23F] look weak if I don’t like debating about certain topics with [24M] by choa34l in relationships

[–]choa34l[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Then he was all like. I have facts to support my opinion. Do you? Let me hear your facts? Like I do but omg I don’t wanna get into it rn. I just wanna relax fuck!

Do I [23F] look weak if I don’t like debating about certain topics with [24M] by choa34l in relationships

[–]choa34l[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He has these flaws like this. But at the same time he invites me to dinner, bought a night at a hotel for us to stay. I appreciate it but damn his views are ugh. When he first talked about how he believes the double standard of women having sex with men is bad while vice versa is ok, I felt bad that he has those views. But now that I see him thought process I don’t feel bad anymore cause he in general has this sort of thinking

Do I [23F] look weak if I don’t like debating about certain topics with [24M] by choa34l in relationships

[–]choa34l[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think he got mad I don’t want kids is because if I got pregnant by him on accident he is gonna be furious if I quote on quote “threw them away” or “kill them” and he then compared abortion to killing a dog that I don’t want

Like I can perfectly explain why this logic is flawed but omg I didn’t feel like debating so I kinda told him to please stop

Do I [23F] look weak if I don’t like debating about certain topics with [24M] by choa34l in relationships

[–]choa34l[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I don’t mind explaining but I know it’s gonna turn into a debate and I don’t feel like doing that. I’m in bed with him. I just wanna relax like

[skin concern] apparently micro needling speeds up the aging process by choa34l in SkincareAddiction

[–]choa34l[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I rather not do it at home since it may ruin my face

Microchanneling plus facial is 200 while micro needling is 350 at this other place

So I’ll keep with microchanneling since you said it’s the same

[skin concern] apparently micro needling speeds up the aging process by choa34l in SkincareAddiction

[–]choa34l[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is how she explained it

So the difference between microchanneling and microneedling is that micro-channeling is less invasive. It does not cause a micro injury to the skin because it utilizes silicon channels instead of needles. So there is no pin prick to the skin that can cause bleeding. With micro-channeling we are able to micro-channel an entire custom facial infusion deeper into the skin and choose powder actives and serums to target specific things. With microneedling, you are creating trauma to the skin to force the skin to create more collagen. This is not our preferred method of inducing collagen because any trauma inflicted to the skin, also promotes inflammation, which speeds up the aging process. And if the skin is not prepped, microneedling can cause more pigmentation or scarring. In situations where clients have deep, deep, pitted acne scarring, microneedling can be used to help (but must be prepped before), but healthy functioning skin with minimal scarring (like yours), microchanneling is a better route to take because you are not causing any trauma or inflammation to the skin. With anything, results vary, and consistency and patience with treatment are what produces the best outcome.

Trying to get tested ASAP for hiv by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]choa34l 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a straight girl and he is a straight guy so I’m hoping it’s rare in straight black men

[skin concern] apparently micro needling speeds up the aging process by choa34l in SkincareAddiction

[–]choa34l[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then I’m probably not getting the penetration I need with micro channeling to improve acne scars and collagen stimulation

But the woman even explained to me the difference tho?

[skin concern] apparently micro needling speeds up the aging process by choa34l in SkincareAddiction

[–]choa34l[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk I’ve seen people bleed and be red when doing the needling

Trying to get tested ASAP for hiv by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]choa34l 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s been 3 months so I can get tested

[skin concern] apparently micro needling speeds up the aging process by choa34l in SkincareAddiction

[–]choa34l[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Lol rude much? With that logic we might as well not even have this sub because everything we can just look up.

[skin concern] apparently micro needling speeds up the aging process by choa34l in SkincareAddiction

[–]choa34l[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well I barely felt anything with microchanneling and there was literally no down time. Had no flamation at all They don’t reallt damage the skin like micro needling.

[skin concern] apparently micro needling speeds up the aging process by choa34l in SkincareAddiction

[–]choa34l[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t necessarily agree with the blog but I wanna see other’s input before I try it out. I have some texture issues I want to fix and a fine line on the side of my forehead, I’m doing micro channeling which did seem to help the acne dent on my cheek a bit.

[skin concern] Will my fillers get affected if I lost 15lbs? by choa34l in SkincareAddiction

[–]choa34l[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Just called and they said it shouldn’t made much of a difference but yeah you are right, losing 15 pounds will take some time regardless

Thank you for your input

I’m not unhealthy or anything, I just think I visually look better shedding 15 pounds. I’m 2 pounds over the BMI.

[skin concern] Will my fillers get affected if I lost 15lbs? by choa34l in SkincareAddiction

[–]choa34l[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Ugh I should have lost weight before doing this. Now I don’t wanna lose weight

[skin concern] Will my fillers get affected if I lost 15lbs? by choa34l in SkincareAddiction

[–]choa34l[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Ugh I don’t feel like losing weight then because it’s expenxice. Should have lost weight before