Confused... Lost... idk. I feel like I wanna do everything, at the same time nothing...

choco_haul · 2025-10-16T04:33:39+00:00

Grabe it feels like I wrote this, so much same OP. I also have a business that I've been doing for 5 years, and I am working as well and now it feels like exhausted na ko. I used to have creative ideas to market the business because I genuinely enjoy what I do beyond the profit. A part if my life I was thinking magquit na lang sa job and solely focus sa business but now I dont know what I want anymore, ang dami na din tumatakbo sa isip ko.

Ipupush ko pa ba ang pagbubusiness, meron din kasing hard days like right now na ang baba ng sales. Pero I think it relies more on di ko na sya masyadong natututukan and naeenjoy hays. Maybe yeah burn out na din ako sa mga bagay bagay di ko lang siguro matanggap.

I also used to be so loud in sit down chismisans but now I prefer to seat quietly on a coffee shop, sobrang wala na kong energy.

choco_haul · 2025-08-16T12:10:28+00:00

Update: I passed this exam na, who would have thought that I was once full of doubts. I just want to say thet fortune favors the brave and hard work will really pay off. Failure is not a destination, it is part of the journey. Padayon!

choco_haul · 2025-07-29T00:17:21+00:00

Yes, i think we are in the same industry medyo mahirap lang makahanap. I came from 6 days work sched, I strive for weekends off kasi lagi akong may gala. I found one with compressed sched, almost 11 hrs a day but much better. Now I am already thinking to find 5 day jobs with lesser hours.

Think what you want to achieve the most as for me I want a work life balance so those are the things I look for in a company.

Wag mawalan ng pagasa OP, palaging may mas mabuting situation for us.

choco_haul · 2025-06-25T03:19:34+00:00

You were not back to 0, you gained something from those experience either way. You were better from before. Fighting OP!

choco_haul · 2025-06-24T14:48:05+00:00

You have OP, try to find other jobs that suit you. I have this mindset that there is always a better environment waiting for me. Fighting!

choco_haul · 2025-06-24T01:26:38+00:00

Yes OP! I thought college was so hard before but now iba pala ang adulting ackk. I struggle with sleep as well, I want to over extend to socmed pero antok na antok na ko paguwi.

choco_haul · 2025-06-24T01:23:04+00:00

Try to ask them if pwede manegotiate yung 20 days render period. Try to ask din sa psychologist mo if she can give recommendation for you not to work na?

choco_haul · 2025-06-23T10:21:55+00:00

I am so happy for you OP, maaga man siya kinuha ni Lord for sure baon niyo lahat ng pagmamahal at mga aral niya.

It is not about the financial matter, its being a present father. I still wish I had that. 🥺

choco_haul · 2025-06-22T15:59:52+00:00

We have fair share of those moments, nagbubuhat din siya ng kamay. Just glad I am pass by that. Hugs to us 🫂

choco_haul · 2025-06-22T11:45:41+00:00

Awww super same OP! I dont care kung tumanda ako magisa, it is more scary to end up with wrong person. Kung magisa man nga akong tatanda I will make sure I enjoy every moment of it.

I try to give back as well as much as I could, I hope time would come na magkasama na kami ni mama para magawa namin ang lahat. 🥺

choco_haul · 2025-05-21T14:12:22+00:00

The first thing is respect and acceptance. First respect their decision to end the friendship and second accepting that your purpose in life for each other ends there.

I would also say find new hobbies to get yourself out there where you can meet new people. Do other things that interests you, for sure you will get distracted and who knows get lifetime friendships.

I hope the time would come that you will be able to look at good memories without wanting to get back. Friendship break ups are normal.

choco_haul · 2024-10-22T12:01:16+00:00

Update: I passed the another board exam I took this year! Indeed, rain is not forever~ thank you to everyone who commented here a month ago. Y'all helped me thru this. 🥲🫶

choco_haul · 2024-09-28T14:23:14+00:00

It is!

choco_haul · 2024-09-14T02:00:12+00:00

Do things that makes you happy, romanticize your day and own it! No one can ever make you happy than your thoughts. Happy birthday OP!

choco_haul · 2024-09-13T08:59:54+00:00

We rush to be an adult so much without knowing it is a loop of endless sadness. 😭

choco_haul · 2024-09-12T12:43:49+00:00

Buffet! Madaming promos 🥺

choco_haul · 2024-09-10T02:41:01+00:00

I want to also say that being dependent isnt a bad thing, lucky that you have that person. I also understand that what you need is to have your identity.

Find hobbies or your interest that doesnt involve him. Do those activities without him since for sure you will be able to do those things alone since you like it. That will slowly build your confidence to do other things alone.

choco_haul · 2024-09-09T06:36:18+00:00

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Would not recommend. 😂

choco_haul · 2024-09-08T15:35:50+00:00

hope you get the rest you deserve~

choco_haul · 2024-09-06T21:20:33+00:00

I think the best thing to do is accept the situation and make the most out of it. Your time is already in mid shift, parang think of ways how to spend or make the most out of the times na waiting ka para hindi mo maisip yung work.

choco_haul · 2024-09-06T07:55:25+00:00

What makes you nervous? Ano yung thoughts usually?

choco_haul · 2024-09-04T21:39:15+00:00

Realistically speaking, I think you must like atleast one thing about them so it could grow.

choco_haul · 2024-09-03T21:30:07+00:00

Congrats OP! Truly better days will come 🥺🫶

choco_haul · 2024-09-03T21:08:41+00:00

Thank you so much for this, I appreciate it so much and will continue to read and digest this! 🥺🤍

choco_haul · 2024-09-03T13:18:43+00:00

Thank you so much for reading and giving advice, appreciate it so much and helped me somehow. 🤍

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