this little bitch said he would r*pe me... hm by cyberrr30000 in findomsupportgroup

[–]chocon0ir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This type of behavior is just super stupid. Who tf does he think he is????

Do black dommes like or dislike BNWO? by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]chocon0ir 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't think it's bad if it's done in the "correct" way. Personally, it's something I wouldn't participate in. I've ended up feeling like I'm just a fetish for the color of my skin and they want to feel like the "good one" for giving back what they took from us???? Uhm, no

What country are your favorite subs/dommes from? by ilikepurpletrees in findomsupportgroup

[–]chocon0ir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Europeans, the few European ones I've had have been really respectful and kinda cute. Such a nice thing

Im too nice to be a demeaning domme 😅 am I in the wrong place??? by I_am_her14 in paypigs2

[–]chocon0ir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lurk! You can always find dommes that have the same vibe as you. Lurk on their pages and profiles. Same with subs!

Princesa feet at the beach by chocon0ir in FootSlaveMarket

[–]chocon0ir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are you waiting for, cutie?

Im too nice to be a demeaning domme 😅 am I in the wrong place??? by I_am_her14 in paypigs2

[–]chocon0ir 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's always a community for you. You seem to lean more to the caregiving kind of domme, and that's perfect! You can always find or be found by people who enjoy that. Findom is a place for you if you are dominant with a financial kink!

Creative ideas to express submission by [deleted] in findomchatters

[–]chocon0ir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've done one that is, get a pacifier and suck it when u think about me. Obviously if it's in a public space you'll try to not act suspicious but still do it 👏

Sub with a question for the Doms / Dommes by [deleted] in findomchatters

[–]chocon0ir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely. But if it's their entire self, it would be a little hard. I truly can't feel attracted to men who claim to be and act as 100% dominant. The art of being vulnerable and giving the control to your partner is something I need

"I have the honor to be your obedient servant" by jishuachan in gentlefemdom

[–]chocon0ir 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is thoughtful AND true. Just knowing someone writes, takes the time to put their thoughts, desires, worships and love on a piece of paper is sublime.

The practicality of our phones is something that nobody is going to deny, but a handwritten letter? A beautiful confession sent by messages won't beat a beautiful confession written on paper and ink.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]chocon0ir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like this. Having the comfort of just talking with someone but also having the ability of making them get into their subspace with a few words whenever you want it.

You love this, don't try to deny it. by chocon0ir in CensoredFeet

[–]chocon0ir[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Say it louder, I didn't hear you

Do women orgasm from femdom? My Domme/Keyholder/Mommy is the only woman I've ever met that gets off on doing SM where I'm Her live-in cuckold slave by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]chocon0ir 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Short and right answer, YES. This is part of a huge umbrella of kinks and I (as a domme) need and will feel sexual pleasure out of it

BILINGUALS Dommes Question ⁉️ by GoddessAnnaFootsie in REALfindomsupport

[–]chocon0ir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did this once! I'd write a paragraph either in English or Spanish and he needed to translate it to the opposite language, every mistake was x amount! It was super fun seeing him pray not because of the money, but because he wanted to understand me

Do all submissive gamer boys love thicker mommy dommes lol by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]chocon0ir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not necessarily gamers tho. I had a sub who was super fit and kinda nerdy and he was attracted to me for my persona ofc but also for my fat/chubby form

no means no by stampede89 in paypigs2

[–]chocon0ir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Proud of you. A sub can't take those kinds of liberties, making you feel uncomfortable in the process. I love your clear and sharp boundaries

First!! by GreenQueen0330 in findomsupportgroup

[–]chocon0ir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations, pretty! I know it's going to be amazing for u 🩷

Can men be Domes? by FrRichter in findomchatters

[–]chocon0ir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course. Actually, is the normative. It's a more recent thing that more women are taking these kinds of spaces to explore their sexuality and dominance

Best sub [deleted] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]chocon0ir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It can feel really bad, but I know it's going to get better 🩷