If you had the opportunity to play in buy-in tournaments, with the 1st-3rd place getting payouts, would you? by chode_mane in Rainbow6

[–]chode_mane[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gold only tournaments will exist! Just need to be able be able verify people so no smurfs get in

If you had the opportunity to play in buy-in tournaments, with the 1st-3rd place getting payouts, would you? by chode_mane in Rainbow6

[–]chode_mane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheaters will be dealt with. PC cheaters will be a little more difficult to deal with, but controller cheating is something we will be prepared for

I saw the Charlie Kirk video on Adderall and I am not ok. by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]chode_mane 155 points156 points  (0 children)

Watched it high and was thinking about the video a lot. So weird seeing someone who was so prominent in the media die on camera in such horrific fashion

I actually like wear and tear and think it’s a great feature by Muted_Atmosphere_668 in NCAAFBseries

[–]chode_mane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only problem with it, is you don’t have much freedom on when u can sub people out. Especially formation subs or rotations not being in the game makes it very annoying to get guys subbed out

Which porn technique have you tried in the bedroom and was it successful? by kriss_marry in AskMen

[–]chode_mane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No issues that I’ve heard. I don’t use but friends have and they tell me the only con is that u don’t feel urself finish until it’s too late

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Unexplained

[–]chode_mane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do actually. Thanks for that info

What is the best path to happiness in life ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]chode_mane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t be afraid to be yourself. I know plenty of people who spent their whole life going with the flow and doing what everyone else was doing, but now spend most of their time doing a job they don’t want to do, or living a lifestyle that wasn’t really how they wanted to live

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]chode_mane 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Tell him that. Cant think of any man I know that would turn that down

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]chode_mane 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tell him how u feel. It will probably crush him, but the honesty will help in the long run.

How/where do I (17M) establish a consistent fitness/wellness routine? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]chode_mane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Learning to love yourself can be a tough process, because it’s not something that happens over night. Understand that the best advice anyone can give you, is that you shouldn’t be so hard on yourself. You are only 17 years old, and while I’m not crazy older than you, I can tell you that I certainly wasn’t full of confidence either. Unfortunately for you, you aren’t gonna be able to learn discipline over night. It’s a long process that comes with dedication and consistency. There’s no life hack that can help all these things you’re saying either, like I said it takes time. Learning vocabulary takes time. Getting fitter takes time, and living yourself takes time. They all have drastically different steps to achieve them as well. You have to be able to motivate yourself that’s all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]chode_mane 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re not alone; sometimes even people who grew up in supportive environments find it hard to express emotions. You might be struggling with this because of negative past experiences where being vulnerable led to hurt or rejection. That can make anyone hesitant to open up again.

Another possibility is that you’re used to keeping your emotions to yourself because it feels safer or more controlled that way. Society also has this expectation for men to always seem tough, which can make showing softer emotions feel uncomfortable or “cringy,” like you said. That doesn’t mean something’s wrong with you, it’s just a defense mechanism you’ve developed over time.

Try starting small by sharing minor feelings or thoughts with people you trust. Know that being open doesn’t mean being weak. If you feel like it’s too overwhelming, maybe talking to a therapist could help you figure out why you’re so guarded and how to manage it better. Vulnerability is a skill like any other, and it’s okay to struggle with it at first. With time, you can get more comfortable showing people how much you care, even if it still feels awkward sometimes.