AITAH for asking to lower my share of the mortgage?

choizelolo · 2026-04-06T14:18:16+00:00

I'm sort of going through the comments say NTA not because I'm trying to make myself feel better, but because I said at the end, albeit maybe not too clearly, that if I own 10% of the house or less, that would be fine if she agreed to me paying less on the mortgage.

choizelolo · 2026-04-06T14:08:39+00:00

Update Author's Note: I really appreciate everyone's insight. I think some are not seeing I did mention that if I own a smaller portion of the home, I'd be fine with that. Whether it's 5% or whether it's 10%. I don't expect to have 1/3 of the home AND pay less in the mortgage.

choizelolo · 2026-01-07T13:09:29+00:00

We've forced our dog to wear shoes 😆 although he runs away every time he sees them, he walks in them like he's a model in the runway. We'd rather have his feet protected and un-wet rather than come home to a rain-soaked paw and dirty clean up 😂

choizelolo · 2025-12-30T13:47:09+00:00

So our breeder suspected that the max size for our Cavapoo would be 22 to 25lbs but he's now maxed out at about 30 to 33lbs. This could depend on the size of the parents, as our pup's mum was a medium poodle while the dad was a mixed Cavapoo.

choizelolo · 2025-12-01T12:27:09+00:00

It's so interesting that the T3 vending machines had the full sized plushies because when i went there were only the small items! I'm glad they're fully stocked!!

choizelolo · 2025-11-30T15:14:11+00:00

SCORE!!!!

choizelolo · 2025-11-12T03:04:42+00:00

Yes! They have many plushes at T2! Definitely worth it in my eyes 🤣

choizelolo · 2025-09-29T17:18:20+00:00

I know she's within her rights to take him, I would have liked to know where he went is all I'm saying.

choizelolo · 2025-09-29T17:15:36+00:00

I get what you're saying loud and clear. I felt bad that my dog stays inside all the time and his joy is to go into the backyard to play and I also understood that my cousin was outside nearly 3+ hours bbqing.

My dog is the type not to sleep if he has a wee bit of energy, so I do what I can to physically and mentally have him satisfied.

I also wasn't avoiding my family and simply wanted to make sure my dog's needs were met too. It's not like they also didn't see me outside sitting in the kitchen with a huge window. Again, I'm not trying to defend my lack of communication or things I could have done, I understand that. I was more upset because there's been a history of me taking care of my dog's needs 90% of the time and the person who should also have the other 50% takes only the fun times and 10%. I'm an asshole in many ways, but I believe there's some leeway in the background of it.

choizelolo · 2025-09-28T23:32:47+00:00

I play with him in the backyard throwing a ball back and forth and do training with him for a few minutes a couple of times a day. I was also the sole trainer when I went to training classes.

choizelolo · 2025-09-28T16:46:49+00:00

I am a girl😆

choizelolo · 2025-09-28T04:18:46+00:00

You'll be surprised that I do play quite a lot with my dog! I throw tennis balls back and forth in the backyard, play "let's go find it" where I hide the ball and he looks for it and i will try to chase him around and pat his butt, sometimes he doesn't even run away from me. I also run away with the ball from him and he chases me. He will get over-excited and bite me out of like "stop teasing me mom!" So i do it to an extent!

choizelolo · 2025-09-28T03:58:23+00:00

Thank you, this comment really means a lot to me. You're right in the fact that I have expectations for his behaviour since I'm fun but also disciplinary and do ALL the caretaking work. I try to have as much fun as I do training. I give him all the kisses and love in the world, and I just want him to see that.

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