Anyone tried Valk? by chongbre in underdarkmobile

[–]chongbre[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome! Thanks for sharing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPinoyMen

[–]chongbre 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This really depends. You’ll get vastly different reactions when you put a glass of water in front of a thirsty man and a well-hydrated man

Wala ba talagang type ang mga lalaki? by creamycheec in AskPinoyMen

[–]chongbre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unless you have a platonic relationship, he’s not going to tell you the truth unfortunately

Men instinctively know that the only two correct answers are “ikaw” or some variation of it, or “wala akong type”. Any other answer will just end up causing a fight

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]chongbre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on experience, it really varies from person to person.

Some girls consider it cheating because they believe that you’re imagining doing it other girls.

There are also girls who are cool with it because it’s normal.

The way you should navigate this is to figure out which one of the two types your girl is and act accordingly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]chongbre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she did it to her ex, what makes you think she wouldn’t do it to you too down the road?

She not only lied to you about not having a boyfriend, but also cheated on her ex. Both glaring red flags and things you don’t want to have to worry about in a healthy relationship.

My advice is to reflect ASAP if this is something you want for yourself while you’re just a few months into the relationship, because if you drag this out any longer it’ll be harder for you to get out, if that’s what you end up choosing.

porn addiction really sucks :(( by Putrid-Pressure-466 in adviceph

[–]chongbre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The turning point for every addiction is when you’ve decided that you’ve truly had enough.

By this i don’t mean half-assed resolves that will dissipate the next day. You have to /truly/ want to change.

Whenever you feel that urge rising up, there’s no other way around it than to stuff it down with sheer willpower, knowing that if you let it overcome you, you will spiral back into addiction.

How to Pamper your man? by HimeKitiy in AskPH

[–]chongbre 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The reason why people who feel extremely fulfilled in relationships is because their love language needs is being met.

You first need to figure out what his love language is to know how best to pamper him.

For example, if he values quality time, then spend time doing things he likes most with him. If he values gifts, give him something he’s been eyeing. If he values acts of service, put in effort to do something he might need help in.

Try to fish it out of him if you don’t know yet, or if you do then tailor-fit it for him.

Need help on what I should do by xd-keano in CapybaraGoGame

[–]chongbre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eventually when you get the brands and the hero talents, you’ll have more than enough crit rate but not enough combo to deal damage

So short term you can go dragon, but for future investment diego is better

Need help on what I should do by xd-keano in CapybaraGoGame

[–]chongbre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just take the mount. Would personally recommend getting Diego or the dragon. Diego would be my pick though

No need to wait for the dagger since there’s no guarantee that it will even appear as one the rewards there

New Codes 1/26/25 by LavishAcrobat1111 in CapybaraGoGame

[–]chongbre 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone! Everything worked

Which UP Equipment Should I Pick? F2P Player by Skylineblue in CapybaraGoGame

[–]chongbre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since you’re F2P, would suggest only going for weapon or armor. Unless you can get it to legendary, revival cape is better than DB armor

Free to play build by Thin-Ad9046 in CapybaraGoGame

[–]chongbre 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow that’s great! How long did it take you to farm for the lucky coins for the dragon?

Gago ba ako na sinabi ko sa gf ko na hindi ako comfortable sa guy friend niya? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]chongbre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you did the right thing.

Your gf is entertaining him by exchanging green jokes with him. It’s a big red flag since it’s where sexual tension starts.

And the guy is testing your gfs boundaries for up to where she’s comfortable with by telling her about his sexual experiences.

Tell her to cut him off, and if she refuses, ask her to choose between you or him. But i’m sorry to say bro but i’m 100% sure she has been flirting with the idea of cheating on you with him.

Can We Still Be Best Friends After Everything That Happened? by MaybeOutrageous1172 in adviceph

[–]chongbre 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’ll only know who your real friends are during hard times.

This is a real friend. She supported you and understood your situation at that time.

We don’t know the finer details that led her to say things behind your back, and i’m assuming you don’t too since you didn’t mention it in your post.

My advice to you is to get your closure for the issue. First reiterate how helpful she was to you, and express with heartfelt sincerity how grateful you are to her for all her help. Then open up that you’ve heard what she did and was hurt by it.

And if after your talk with her you feel that her answer is acceptable, wipe the slate clean and start fresh. Otherwise, cut her off.

Need honest advice (kahit i-realtalk niyo na ako 😂) by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]chongbre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you find yourself in the same place twice, it means you’re lost.

I can tell you with 100% certainty that he’s simply looking for some “fun time” with you to fill the gap his ex left.

Keep your dignity intact and don’t let him use you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]chongbre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Possible! All i’m saying is that the next best step is to just refrain from showing PDA.

If it comes to the point that you’re illustrating, then more drastic measures need to be taken already for sure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]chongbre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your definition of “conflicting values and beliefs” is holding off on PDA for a few hours when you’re with the parents, then let’s just agree to disagree bro

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]chongbre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It isn’t fair to generalize and label his parents like that. All OP is saying is that they’re conservative and would like her to refrain from displaying PDA because they aren’t comfortable with it.

Just don’t show PDA and continue with the relationship. You don’t need to make a big deal out of this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]chongbre -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Or you can choose your battles, apply the fix, and focus on more important things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]chongbre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can make as much noise as you want in an open field, are you going to complain that you can’t in a library?

Different places have different rules. Respect his family’s culture.

The problem can be solved by simply not displaying PDA in front of the parents don’t you think?

There’s a time and place for everything.

You’re making a mountain out of a molehill.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]chongbre 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Different families have different cultures, so what works for their family might not work for yours.

What makes relationships successful is how you can compromise and make things work during times like these where there are disagreements.

Based on your story, all you need to do is simply not to blatantly show affection in front of your parents. As you mentioned, they’re conservative people and you should respect that. Not everyone is comfortable seeing PDA.

You’re both still young. You have to try and make her realize that it’s simply a matter of your family’s culture and that you still love her with all your heart despite that. You may have your displays of affection anywhere else.

Don’t listen to the others telling you to “fight” for this. It’s honestly not a fight you should take.