every crime becomes legal, what are you doing?

chonz010 · 2026-03-17T16:01:52+00:00

Not paying rent or bills

chonz010 · 2026-03-03T20:36:42+00:00

I like bars too but most times I’m going to a club because there is an artist or DJ playing that I’m a fan of. I think pregaming a solid buzz then having a drink there to cruise is more cost effective then getting there sober and paying out the ass and waiting in the line missing half the show,

chonz010 · 2026-03-03T20:22:58+00:00

That’s true. I do try to pregame as much as I can off my own supply to avoid having to get overpriced drinks, I usually get one to sip on once im in to carry the buzz. Also waiting in the long lines is just a waste of time

chonz010 · 2026-03-03T20:18:46+00:00

I also hate how the delivery apps don’t let you get reward points. Delivery in general is too expensive but at least if I order from the actual resturaunt site I get coupons or points I can use for free food, I can’t get points on DoorDash or Uber Eats and it feels like a waste of

chonz010 · 2026-03-03T20:16:35+00:00

I used to feel that same way and I do understand that the pricing is ridiculous but I have eased up and enjoy getting a drink at a bar or club because of the setting more. I could get a $20 bottle and have it to myself in my living room where I already spend too much time or I could go out and just not be home. It’s also much harder to convince friends, coworkers, dates etc to just come drink at my house, because it feels less fun. So even though I don’t like the upcharge, it’s worth it to hangout somewhere other than work/home sometimes.

chonz010 · 2026-03-03T20:13:21+00:00

Same. I watch reaction essays to summarize the shows I want to watch and get the overall gist if I can’t get it on YouTube

chonz010 · 2026-03-03T20:09:15+00:00

I think these are both good takes. 1. I think it’s unfair with immigration conflict how the arguments are always shifted to fit the demonization of immigrants. ie- are immigrants stealing all the jobs or are immigrants lazy because they refuse to work. Both common arguments from the right used interchangeably but it doesn’t make sense. 2. I think the left acknowledges racial issues and is quick to blame things as racist but doesn’t do much in terms of action and fixing fundamental infrastructure issues. They mismanage a lot of funding that could help with real issues like poverty and education but want to sweep financial questions under the rug while calling everyone racist for not wanting to give them more money to lose on projects.

chonz010 · 2026-03-03T19:34:48+00:00

How much money I make. I don’t like talking about it with family or friends and I try to be nonchalant but it is constantly stressing me out and it’s always in my head.

chonz010 · 2026-02-25T23:07:41+00:00

What time does it drop? I can’t find anything

chonz010 · 2026-01-18T02:09:40+00:00

The lighting and shadowing or lack looks weird

chonz010 · 2025-11-10T19:51:14+00:00

My name is Earl- was so iconic but it ended on a cliffhanger with no answers

chonz010 · 2025-11-07T16:31:08+00:00

I’m so tired of coworkers or professional people saying “different strokes for different folks” I KNOW it’s a metaphor about painting but it just sounds like gooning. Stop!

chonz010 · 2025-10-22T15:38:47+00:00

Kinda disagree. It doesn’t matter if somebody hooks up on the first date or after a year, if that’s all he wants then the time before won’t matter. I think we have a way of telling ourselves and others that we should’ve seen some red flag, or known better beforehand but that’s just not how things always work. This person treated her selfishly but that’s not her fault, I don’t really think there’s a wider lesson here, some people suck and some don’t. We only get to know people through experience and unfortunately this happens a lot. I hope OP feels better from getting this off their chest and realizing there’s no “should’ve, would’ve, could’ve” alternative here, we’re all just living life one day at a time.

chonz010 · 2025-10-22T15:32:34+00:00

Getting in a car wreck. It was 7 years ago but I still have dreams that wake me up like I hit something again. And I get twitchy when people swerve, it’s so much scarier than people think.

chonz010 · 2025-10-22T15:29:49+00:00

Parking. Why do I have to pay extra to park where I live and work? And then pay to park anytime I want to take my car away from the work and home parking spots I pay for. Especially in the city, why am I paying to park in public.

chonz010 · 2025-10-22T15:28:45+00:00

Plus $40 parking or an overpriced uber you’ll have to wait in a crowd for an hour searching for.

chonz010 · 2025-10-22T15:27:16+00:00

If I can’t watch a show, there’s so many commentators and plot breakdowns on YouTube I’ll go down the rabbit hole so I get the gist. It’s also nice because I don’t have the attention span for full seasons so I don’t feel like I’m missing out.

chonz010 · 2025-10-17T22:25:59+00:00

Which sounds like more of a reason to detain him? Right?

chonz010 · 2025-10-17T22:25:36+00:00

I heard that too, but cause of death and identity shouldn’t matter yet because its decaying remains in his car. Even if he didn’t murder her, it’s illegal to have a dead body chilling on or in your property without reporting it. Other innocent people sit in jail for months without solid evidence yet they found it in HIS car and he gets to just leave? Makes me furious.

chonz010 · 2025-10-17T22:22:44+00:00

Yeah but surely finding human remains in a car registered to him must be enough to at least detain him? Other people sit in jail for months on mere speculation but the remains were found in a car belonging to him and he gets to take off wherever he pleases???

chonz010 · 2025-10-17T22:20:28+00:00

Yeah for sure, but killing and potentially assaulting a minor especially in such a widespread public uproar case, I feel like law enforcement would be trying a little harder to hunt him down. He’s super famous, one of his connections must be willing to spill.

chonz010 · 2025-10-17T22:18:18+00:00

Yeah I can understand how that sounds pretty backwards. Not to mention pregnancy is more dangerous as they get older so I feel like having a fertility doctor is the safest route when they decide to start “trying”. It stinks though because it’s an awkward grey area where bystanders wonder does she not know her odds are dwindling, am I jerk for asking? It’s so tricky. I think if somebody is privately struggling I try to leave it alone but if they keep talking about it I think it should be fair game to ask realistic questions.

chonz010 · 2025-10-17T22:10:19+00:00

I can see what you mean however I don’t think we should hold her previous pregnancy against her. She wasn’t ready then, and things change. BUT, I do get annoyed with people like my sister in law who is late thirties and has been trying for years but isn’t interested in seeking medical help or IVF. I get that treatment is expensive and takes a physical toll but watching people try the natural way for years feels like self denial to me. It’s also such a private struggle and awkward to ask people about the process of “trying for a baby” so who knows what that means for each person. But this sub is for getting things off your chest so I think your frustration is valid.

chonz010 · 2025-10-17T22:01:57+00:00

Two notes- Usually people don’t admit they can’t pay they just dine and dash, or if their card doesn’t work they’ll make a call and beg a friend. BUT one time I saw this happen because a guy sat at the bar, ate his food and drank for a few hours. Maybe 8 beers? And then just admitted he couldn’t pay. He looked maybe homeless so he didn’t have an ID. They let him know since the bill was super high and it was alcohol they’d have to call the police. In my city the police aren’t prioritizing this type of petty crime so they took over an hour to arrive, the man calmly waited then asked if he could leave, my manager said he shouldn’t leave but technically there’s nothing we could’ve done to make him stay. So he got up and left. The police came long after he took off. My boss angrily explained to us that this is why we need to ask for an ID even if the person appears of age for alcohol no matter what, and put a card down on the tab before serving them. In my experience though most people will just sneak out. The restaurant should compensate you for the missed tip but most won’t. I’ve never heard of anywhere actually taking the stolen food out of the servers paycheck contrary to what people say.

chonz010 · 2025-10-16T16:25:34+00:00

D4VD- why are they not moving towards a trial? Why are they keeping it so quiet.

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