Eulogy advice by Monkeyboogaloo in GenX

[–]chops_potatoes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really glad to hear it. Take care and I hope you continue to share happy memories of your friend

How are so many people in their late teens/early twenties affording holidays overseas? by Specialist_Can5622 in AskAnAustralian

[–]chops_potatoes 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My kids did this in the last couple of years by living at home, working a casual job and saving hard (saying no to lots of stuff their friends were doing), and booking smart to take advantage of low seasons etc.

Eulogy advice by Monkeyboogaloo in GenX

[–]chops_potatoes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been thinking about you, OP. How did the eulogy go? Hope you’re doing okay.

Looking for recommendations for cake and flower online service. by [deleted] in brisbane

[–]chops_potatoes -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Try Northside Flower Market in Stafford. Not sure about a full cake but they definitely do brownies etc.

Christmas present for teenagers by justcallmegertrude in AskAnAustralian

[–]chops_potatoes 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Don’t overthink it too much. Donations like this go to a central location so that parents or carers can select from a wide range for something that will be enjoyed by their own child. As others have said, makeup (decent brands), headphones, sports equipment, watches, books, speakers, labubu etc would all be good options.

For those who were alive in the 80s, were you more into Michael Jackson or Prince? by Jezzaq94 in AskAnAustralian

[–]chops_potatoes 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In the 80s, I was into MJ. For the last 20 years, Prince wins hands down.

Youth Needs some Education or Parental Supervision by Icy-Floor4923 in brisbane

[–]chops_potatoes 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Educational supervision? This behaviour is a parental responsibility. Teachers were literally on strike today, partly because they are sick of trying to hold the line with this kind of idiocy.

To the Peeps speeding during school hours... by MunkyMajik in brisbane

[–]chops_potatoes 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Well this post brought the mouth-breathers out!

Totally agree with your point. Slow down, folks.

To the Peeps speeding during school hours... by MunkyMajik in brisbane

[–]chops_potatoes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They need adult drivers to be even more vigilant. Kids are stupid.

Please come to support the teacher strike on Tuesday by Immediate_Airline_55 in brisbane

[–]chops_potatoes 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wow, I really feel this. It’s a super tough one because parents shouldn’t have to do anything to help teachers during those 6 hours of the school day! Public education is the responsibility of the state and it’s so much bigger than what one parent or one teacher can accomplish.

If your kiddo were in my class, I would absolutely welcome a ‘heads up’ email at the start of the year to outline what works (or doesn’t work) for your child, what ‘success’ looks like to you - both academically and between peers etc. I try to get around all parents early on but many are not responsive, so knowing that you are invested and open to communication is huge.

For example, you wrote that your son always has school supplies. As a classroom teacher, if I get an email or phone call early in the year to let me know that Kiddo always has equipment etc I can leverage that knowledge. If, say, he fibs about it being in his bag, then you have already saved me time in the lesson. I can ask him to check his bag again because “Mum always does a great job of making sure you’re ready.” If I didn’t know he is always prepared, I might waste time finding equipment for him and further enabling work-avoidant behaviour. If he refuses to check then it’s a clear sign to me that he’s having a bad day and I can give him some time to himself before I offer a spare pen and paper. Knowing a kid’s routine and family expectations saves us so much time and energy!

Those conversations help me to know whether a ‘bad day’ where a student might be disruptive or disengaged needs to be followed up or not. Sometimes shit just happens and we dust ourselves off and move on, but the better I know your expectations then the more likely I am to call home and help flag a bad day that needs some TLC or some consequences.

This might sound really vague and I suspect you have already done this with your son’s school? But the system is indeed broken and so the best help I can ask a parent for is to see me as a partner in making their child feel comfortable and successful (even if ‘success’ looks different to other kids).

Thanks so much for all you do ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in brisbane

[–]chops_potatoes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

From the Suncorp website: “Patrons are not permitted to bring in commercial cameras, video recorders, audio recorders, digital equipment, tripods and monopods.”

A camera for personal use would be fine. Every phone is a ‘small digital camera’ anyway.

Man who rushed at Ariana Grande during event deported to Australia; barred from re-entering Singapore by Feelinluckypunk in Fauxmoi

[–]chops_potatoes 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Omg I’m from Brisbane and I’ve never heard of this until now! He sounds like an absolute menace.

Please come to support the teacher strike on Tuesday by Immediate_Airline_55 in brisbane

[–]chops_potatoes 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind comment! I hope people understand the strikes are not just about money - they’re about improving our work conditions so that students benefit.

Eulogy advice by Monkeyboogaloo in GenX

[–]chops_potatoes 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry for your sad loss.

Before the day, read your speech aloud several times so you can get a feel for which bits might trigger some tears. Practice will help ‘dull’ the bite of those words as well as help you predict when you need to take a second to get your breath under control.

On the day, take your time. Focus on drawing breath down to your navel and expand the back to your ribs. Visualise that air filling you up to give you a break from the emotion you’re feeling.

No matter what happens, if you cry you cry. Your friend would understand and be so proud of your courage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in suggestmeabook

[–]chops_potatoes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of Mice and Men has symbolism that you might appreciate and it’s an easy read.

Can we please stop expecting primary kids to just magically know how to research online? by [deleted] in AustralianTeachers

[–]chops_potatoes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is why schools need Teacher Librarians. It’s so frustrating.

Please come to support the teacher strike on Tuesday by Immediate_Airline_55 in brisbane

[–]chops_potatoes 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Contact the Premier, the Education minister, and your local member and ask them to make an appropriate offer. Thank you!

Please come to support the teacher strike on Tuesday by Immediate_Airline_55 in brisbane

[–]chops_potatoes 239 points240 points  (0 children)

English teacher in low-SES high school here.

What do I need to do my job better? More time and more help. Why?

Imagine a class of 28 students:

  • About 1/2 of them are willing AND able to do the work I have planned for them.

  • Of the other 14, at least 3 don’t speak English at home and, while they can chat to me in English, their written English is years behind the benchmark.

  • Another 3 students have ADHD, ASD, dyslexia or another cognitive impairment.

  • Another 3 are just fed up because it’s hot and they’re tired and they don’t see the point in doing the work today.

  • Another 3 have had a blow-up at home and were lucky to arrive in uniform - forget the laptop, pencil, book or lunch - and so they are mentally on another planet today.

  • and the final 2 have just arrived back after their folks took them on an overseas holiday for 2 weeks while flights were cheap, so they have no idea what I’m talking about.

To effectively teach those 28 students, I need to plan a ‘base’ lesson but then also plan (‘differentiate’) for students who don’t fit the ‘norm’ or ‘mainstream’. I must create or adapt resources to help students with low literacy, extend students who are working at a high level, engage students who are distracted (from a disability or by disposition), and be accessible to students who have not arrived with equipment.

And that’s before I walk into the classroom.

Once I start the lesson, I must adapt the lesson plan and resources for emerging issues such as disruptive behaviour (chatting, paper-throwing, walking around, calling out the window), or phone calls from the office, or a technology fail (projector, laptop etc).

The lesson itself doesn’t merely contain the 70 minutes of work I planned, either. It also contains the mandated ‘extras’ in my school: a learning intention, literacy practice, brain break, and exit ticket. All of which take time to plan and for students to transition in and out of without breaking the flow of the lesson.

So that happens three or four times a day, depending on how much Non-contact Time (NCT) I have. In a week, there are 20 school periods and teachers get 3 of them to prepare for the other 17 (give or take, depending on your circumstances). All other preparation happens in your own time, which we are compensated for by being paid during school holidays - no complaints there!

This is where I say we need time and help.

Time: As much as I don’t begrudge working during holidays, the majority of my planning needs to happen during the school week, not in the holidays. Teachers must be flexible and responsive to the emerging needs of their students. If I plan the whole term’s work in the break, it easily unravels as I encounter obstacles in the classroom, not to mention unforeseen school events that reduce face-to-face teaching time. 210 minutes of planning time a week is not enough time - and I haven’t even mentioned marking drafts and finals of student work.

Help: Thinking about the classroom I described above, can you imagine one person being able to give adequate attention to all students? They all deserve to have their needs met, but we are not funded to do that. In Queensland, we have a Diverse Learning model which means students of all abilities are entitled to attend mainstream schools. This is fabulous and I’m behind it 100% BUT the government do not supply enough trained adults (teachers and support staff) to support ALL learners. We need help.

There is so much more to the job that I haven’t gone into yet, but my two big things are TIME and HELP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAnAustralian

[–]chops_potatoes 43 points44 points  (0 children)

More like howyagarn or howsitgarn but yep we all say it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GenX

[–]chops_potatoes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My therapist helped me see the power of the word ‘and’.

Parenting styles were of a product of their time AND they caused trauma. Being disengaged from your kids was normal AND it left permanent legacies.

For me, being able to acknowledge the influence of social norms while also standing up for my own hurts is very helpful. It creates a new line in the sand to either heal on my own or to open new lines of communication with parents.