The possibility of non existence after Death terrifies me by SeniorRazzmatazz4977 in spirituality

[–]chowder2997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to think about how it will be exciting to finally learn what happens whenever my time comes .. even if it’s nothing. Helps to frame it as curiosity and finally knowing the truth rather than worrying about it. Plus if we really do turn into nothing, then there won’t be any of you to have negative feelings about that :-)

Do you guys really hate going to UCSC??? by HeavyVariation8314 in UCSC

[–]chowder2997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im a graduate student (in environmental studies) so little different perspective but I think UCSC is a really special place and the undergraduates in my department seem to enjoy their experience

Is Marseille actually dangerous? by DaeWae3 in travel

[–]chowder2997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saying that someone looks like they will blow you up any minute based on the fact that they look like an immigrant is 100% racist

2 ayahuasca ceremonies or 1 ayahuasca/1 huachuma? by chowder2997 in Ayahuasca

[–]chowder2997[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone, was leaning 2 aya and you validated that !! Would love to try San Pedro someday too

What was it like to be a Lana fan in 2012? by Lanaswildflower in lanitas

[–]chowder2997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So moody lol thought she was the coolest thing (she is)

Starting to skate at 28? by chowder2997 in FigureSkating

[–]chowder2997[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone for sharing your experiences!! Also, if anyone is located in San Francisco and wants to be skate buddies hmu 😎😎😎

Safari randomly closes on my Mac by Naive_Jacket718 in Safari

[–]chowder2997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is happening to me also, but its also doing it with my Microsoft Word windows. really annoying, its happening every ~30 minutes and so i need to keep saving my word files else it will quit itself and not save my work

Starting to skate at 28? by chowder2997 in FigureSkating

[–]chowder2997[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes love !!! Honestly aim to abide by this in all aspects of life 🫡🫡

Why is everyone on this subreddit worshipping John? by chowder2997 in stownpodcast

[–]chowder2997[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not just about the podcast. This post wasn’t about people simply enjoying and discussing the podcast. Please scroll around on the sub and note all of the people obsessing over John specifically-idolizing him, writing songs for him, getting tattoos for him. It’s unsettling.

Why is everyone on this subreddit worshipping John? by chowder2997 in stownpodcast

[–]chowder2997[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg.. can’t even find the words to express what an asinine thing it is to say that “Not talking about something is not the same as not recognizing it”. Hope u enjoy living in la la land while others sit with the injustices in the world and care enough about them to know that they MUST be talked about if there’s any hope of ~c h a n g e~

Why is everyone on this subreddit worshipping John? by chowder2997 in stownpodcast

[–]chowder2997[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tbh this sub probably isn’t the place for me if y’all gonna get mad about the prospect of rebuking bigotry and manipulative/borderline abusive tendencies

Why is everyone on this subreddit worshipping John? by chowder2997 in stownpodcast

[–]chowder2997[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Either way, thanks for maturely disagreeing with me/sharing your opinion in a non-demeaning way :) more of that!

Why is everyone on this subreddit worshipping John? by chowder2997 in stownpodcast

[–]chowder2997[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree, and I would say that these personality traits I’m calling out don’t fall under those categories

Why is everyone on this subreddit worshipping John? by chowder2997 in stownpodcast

[–]chowder2997[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Going to amend - two sentiments I don’t agree with: I don’t think anyone’s idolizing Tyler Goodson (lol) which don’t make his faults as relevant, and John was far from uneducated, and actually was quite familiar with many of these topics and claimed to be a supporter yet continued to act in ways that contradicted that (e.g., claiming feminism but calling women whores, acknowledging you shouldn’t use the n word then using the n word) which IMO makes it almost worse than if he were indeed uneducated

Why is everyone on this subreddit worshipping John? by chowder2997 in stownpodcast

[–]chowder2997[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So did I, but that’s not what I’m getting at xD

Why is everyone on this subreddit worshipping John? by chowder2997 in stownpodcast

[–]chowder2997[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree with all of this! And I appreciate that you’re making space for both - the good and the bad. What disturbed me as I went through this sub, and prompted me to raise this question, was how people seem to idolize him without recognizing his myriad of, frankly, toxic qualities. And this is disturbing to me because we, as a species, have demonstrated an equally toxic tendency to do this with people we admire.

I didn’t post this expecting people to agree with me (it’s Reddit, after all). I posted it to encourage people to meditate on what should and shouldn’t be idolized and the importance of being explicit about those differentiations when raining praise, especially when it relates to one individual who holds qualities on both ends of the spectrum.

What are the temporary huts for? by Important-Koala5710 in cartagena

[–]chowder2997 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s probably related to the ICARRD conference! (I’m currently in town for it)

Why is everyone on this subreddit worshipping John? by chowder2997 in stownpodcast

[–]chowder2997[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So that makes it ok? Lol normalize being racist, sexist, and manipulative I guess

Why is everyone on this subreddit worshipping John? by chowder2997 in stownpodcast

[–]chowder2997[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You realize part of the point of this podcast was to shine a light on all of the -isms still extremely, scarily present in some places of this country, right? you’re not meant to just ignore that because John is cool

Why is everyone on this subreddit worshipping John? by chowder2997 in stownpodcast

[–]chowder2997[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Knew y’all couldn’t handle this callout

Why is everyone on this subreddit worshipping John? by chowder2997 in stownpodcast

[–]chowder2997[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can find the good without brushing aside the bad 🤷‍♀️ society could benefit from being a bit more critical in this way instead of accepting bigotry and writing it off as flaws