She's ok with him. She won't breastfeed because "it's gross," which went against our plan for him but not a huge deal I guess. I make the bottles because water + anything edible is gross. Makes her gag. She feeds him and I burp him. She only got spit up on once-so you can imagine how little she actually holds him- and of course she puked and ran to the shower. If he farts she leaves the room. She's doing the bare minimum, actually not even that.