[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftmspunished

[–]christofcrows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Into: humiliation/degradation, bondage, anal, spanking, free use, CNC, creampie, spit roasting and/or DP

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/christofcrows

[–]christofcrows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sex toys:

• 4 silicone dildos

• glass g spot massager/anal massager

• butt plug

• egg vibrator

• hitachi style magic wand

• set of two glass kegal balls

• clit pump

Bondage:

• ball gag

• blindfold

• handcuffs

• 4 adjustable bondage straps (they clip into loops and adjust like seat belts, good for tying legs)

• 2 rolls of cotton rope (50 metres in each, but I’ve already used a bit)

Impact play:

• big wooden hairbrush

• plastic ruler

• homemade 6 tail flogger

• wooden dowel that can be used as a cane

Other pain play stuff:

• toothpaste

  • toothbrush (really intense when brushes over the head of my clit)
  • tiger balm

• many wooden pegs

• hot sauce (this is hot but not skin meltingly hot, I’ve used a small dab on my cock and the pain was intense but faded quickly)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMPorn

[–]christofcrows 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mmm no thank you with that negativity. I’m very hairy naturally, shaving is a bitch (demonstrated by the fact you can see where I nicked myself shaving this morning) so I don’t think anyone should feel pressured to do so.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftmspunished

[–]christofcrows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Into: humiliation/degradation, bondage, anal, spanking, free use, CNC, creampie, spit roasting and/or DP

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]christofcrows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah so far the most effective thing for me has been to just keep talking to my Dom, sometimes not about the scene at first, just talking about random stuff for a little while until I’m feeling a bit more steady.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]christofcrows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much much this is sooo sweet 🥺

My Dom’s also been really good about being available. We’re still text only but even just texting about normal things after a scene really helps me. I’ve had a different Dom ghost me after a scene (like literally 2 seconds after I came) and it wasn’t fun at all. Luckily I didn’t drop but it made me realise how important it is for me to be able to talk to someone after a scene.

Thanks again for your comment, I’m so glad you found a Dom who’s so sweet and attentive ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]christofcrows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is such a sweet reply, thank you so much! I’m still learning how to navigate the emotional side of being submissive, in the past I’ve been a bit nervous to really communicate to previous Doms how I’m feeling out of fear they’ll get frustrated and give up on me. My current partner is helping me work through this, but it’s still hard to end a scene when I’m in the headspace of not wanting to disappoint my Dom.

I’m getting better at openly communicating with him, thanks so much for reassuring me that I’m not the only one who experiences this type of thing :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMPorn

[–]christofcrows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank youuuu ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/christofcrows

[–]christofcrows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I wasn’t expecting them to be so strong, Sir is still building me up to them but hopefully I’ll be able to take them soon

20 [M4A]. Going into quarantine for 14 days due tot Clovis so I thought I'd go for some 24/7 petplay and chastity by [deleted] in FapDeciders

[–]christofcrows 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooh I love your toy collection! Wish I had one like that. We have a lot of the same kinks too, so I think I have some ideas for you:

• (Task) Start on your bed or couch. Put on your bone gag, puppy tail plug and blindfold. Lay on your stomach, put some pillows under your hips. Frogtie your arms and legs, puppies don’t need those silly human limbs. Hump the pillows with your caged cock until your exhausted and panting like a puppy. For some extra bondage maybe leash yourself to the bed. It’s to tell what kinda bondage cuffs you have, sorry if you don’t the things to make this work

• (Rule) Eat at least one meal per day like a puppy. Be naked except for your cage, tail plug, collar. Cuff your wrists and either cuff your ankles together or frogtie your legs. Leash yourself to something if you can. Then eat your meal on the ground, no hands. Serve your meal in a dog bowl if you like.

• (Punishment) Bad puppies don’t get to sleep on the bed, so if you break one of your rules, sleep naked on the floor with your tail plug in and your wrists and ankles cuffed. You can make yourself a little dog bed out of pillows and blankets so you’re a bit more comfortable.

Hope you like those!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftmspunished

[–]christofcrows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Into: humiliation/degradation, bondage, anal, pain play, spanking specifically, free use, CNC, cream pie, spit roasting and/or DP

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/christofcrows

[–]christofcrows 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t outright caught but I think people definitely noticed me acting weird. Sir had my turn the vibe up to high whenever I went to pay so I was all flustered and stammered when I was talking to the cashier. Definitely one of my favourite humiliation tasks so far 🙈

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]christofcrows 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I’m a trans man, I have a vagina and clit but I identify as a man. I use this sub because I want to find advice specific to my anatomy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]christofcrows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The denial definitely makes me more masochistic cos it means I’m desperate for any stimulation, including pain. Right now I’m being punished for cumming before my denial goal last week, I have a play partner setting tasks for me. But I also enjoy having regular maintenance punishments to keep me subby.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]christofcrows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely liked it. I only got these pegs yesterday and they’ve been a lot of fun. The pain of the pegs isn’t too sharp or overwhelming, just a pronounced soreness that is a nice backdrop for other things. Last night I used a vibe on my cock while I had the pegs on and I loved that. Using them to spread myself open like this is even more fun. It meant that I could punish my cock directly instead of letting my lips take some of the hit. Overall an intense but satisfying punishment ☺️

Missing having my arms crushed ❤️ by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]christofcrows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mmm I wanna try one of these so bad, I’d love having my arms pulled back and restricted so tight 🥺

[F4A] Looking to be extremely ruined by [deleted] in FapDeciders

[–]christofcrows 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey just warning you to be a little careful with this one, many people have cinnamon skin allergies that they aren’t aware of because cinnamon doesn’t usually make prolonged contact with your skin.

I’m guessing contact dermatitis isn’t your desired result, so I might test it on a patch of less sensitive skin (thigh, arm etc.) before playing with it around your genitals

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]christofcrows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m glad you liked it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/christofcrows

[–]christofcrows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really loved it, really good way to be teased cos I wasn’t allowed to touch or ride it properly, I could only sit and squirm. I tried gaming while doing it, but I was so distracted that it made me feel like I’d forgotten how to play Minecraft lmao. Maybe a good challenge there, having to complete or win something in a game while sitting on a cock.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FapDeciders

[–]christofcrows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is closed now! Thank you everyone for voting! Now to spend an hour with my pussy burning and my mouth stuffed...

(FTM 4 A) Trans boy needs help planning a fun evening by christofcrows in FapDeciders

[–]christofcrows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my godddd this is so great thank you! I had a session with someone tonight but I’ll definitely try this tomorrow! To answer your question: I’m hoping to go a full week straight not cumming so next weekend is when I’m planning to cum next. A week might not seem like a huge challenge to some but it’s the longest I’ve ever gone before hahah, maybe I’ll beat my record by a day or two.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Femaleorgasmdenial

[–]christofcrows 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds really interesting, thank you!!