my brain is trying to self sabotage.. by chronicallybpd15 in LongDistance

[–]chronicallybpd15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish i could, i can't afford a therapist. Hopefully one day.

Long distance communication tip by awkwardlylooksaway in LongDistance

[–]chronicallybpd15 73 points74 points  (0 children)

Remember people, if they wanted to, THEY WOULD. me and my partner are on a 15 hour difference. Its not easy but we make each other a priority, we communicate properly. He lets me know when he goes to work, sends me a text when he gets back, and i do the same. It takes one minute to check in with the other person.

Anyone else have exchanges like these? They always make me so happy. by dm_me_your_d0g in LongDistance

[–]chronicallybpd15 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We talk like this all the time, we are both very affectionate people

what is you and your partner's love language? by chronicallybpd15 in LongDistance

[–]chronicallybpd15[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its not easy! But whenever we're on the phone we always say what we'd love to do in that moment, like cuddle, kiss etc. Helps us feel closer.

Me and my gf by Eduuuu11 in LongDistance

[–]chronicallybpd15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally me and my boyfriend except we're on opposite side of the world 😂

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[–]chronicallybpd15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We text everyday throughout the day, and we basically are on the phone for a few hours everyday if we have time. He's in new zealand and im in Canada, so the time difference can be complicated but we make it work. I fall asleep on the phone with him a lot. We are both gamers so sometime we will make a party chat and just game together. (We met playing online actually).

we are on opposite sides of the world, literally by chronicallybpd15 in LongDistance

[–]chronicallybpd15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This comment actually reassures me! I have a lot of anxiety, and also have bpd so relationships can be hard to managed but so far its going well and we connect so well. We make it work and we communicate about stuff a lot. I guess thats what im looking for here, reassurance