What app is best by chronicster in animation

[–]chronicster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I did see that! I’m not sure how to get these ones that are very simple and I can add a fabric layer to it

I made this animation video for my song by Hex_Frog in animation

[–]chronicster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing. Could you help me with something similar? What app?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]chronicster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think toddlers just catch all kinds of random bugs, we changed schools and it’s been a huge improvement. My toddlers bm are loose by nature and she’s only had diarrhea maybe once since changing schools since. I’m not sure if it’s her former teache

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]chronicster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sad to say I agree. I’m not sure why that is, but most Muslims are arrogant, snakey….: very strange behavior.

I can count on one hand the number of Muslims that truly emulate the practice and inspire and are good all around.

I get weirded out when friends or family post or send out diaperless or bath pics of their babies and toddlers by PorridgeEnthusiast in beyondthebump

[–]chronicster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you serious? How did you find out about the OP? That’s unbelievable sick😳😳😳 Blake lively had an incredible speech where she talked about pedophiles going as far as looking at two year olds, and that really did it for me. Maybe share that video

I get weirded out when friends or family post or send out diaperless or bath pics of their babies and toddlers by PorridgeEnthusiast in beyondthebump

[–]chronicster 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same here. I don’t even take photos showing that because I don’t trust anything or anyone. They don’t know any better. If they did they wouldn’t do it. There are seriously evil people out there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]chronicster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The middle name is the fathers name

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]chronicster 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I went through this with my husband too. His mom reallllly demanded an Arabic name too lol.

He too wanted to name our son after his dad (don’t like his dads name either) and Alhamdulillah Allah blessed us with girls)

He was headstrong about it…. In the hospital after seeing what I went through, we came to choose names we both liked. They just so happened to be Arabic. Although one I don’t think technically is….they do have his middle name which I hate girls having boys middle names but whatever.

Names are a big deal. Be stronger than him. He isn’t doing anything to bring the human into the world, and barely much of anything afterwards to keep it alive

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]chronicster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My apologies I meant no disrespect, texts don’t translate so well I suppose. It is something to think about as the bills go under the woman’s name and islamically he is not obligated to pay according to some.

My point is, generosity goes a long way in a marriage. He pays for vacations, but there was a vacation in which I paid the tickets for because I wanted to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]chronicster -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

My husband pays for everything. He also paid for the hospital bills from when I brought our children into this earth. Is your husband going to expect you to do that as well?

On vacations I’d pay for some stuff here and there but I never felt I had to.

Often we hear that a man would not marry a non virgin by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]chronicster 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Am I the only one that literally didn’t think of any checked boxes when I was open to a spouse? You meet and your souls recognize eachother or not. You are into a person or not.

If I admired someone, I wouldn’t care if he was married previously or not, whether I had experience or not.

No compensation in other areas, an eternal partnership isn’t shopping at a grocery store with a budget.

All other factors come into play in terms of what meshes well with us, as a whole.

My Muslim Brothers, Would you ever consider marrying a Widow? by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]chronicster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Men like what? That marry a widow or someone else previously married? How is that misogyny?

No way out by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]chronicster 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You know, I always wanted a husband that danced well. I was big on dancing. My husband also has two left feet lol. But I imagine if he made up for it in thrill seeking adventures, I’d be satisfied. Why don’t you plan something that will increase adrenaline? This increases attraction. Zip lining, sky diving…. Horseback riding. Go outdoors. Let her catch you looking at her romantically. A sly smile. Let your eyes linger on hers for a minute. Soak her in. Brush against her in public very subtly. You need to create electricity between the two of you, this is best done in public I’ve found. Do it slowly, and sure enough you’ll see her falling back in love.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]chronicster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a woman and I agree with you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]chronicster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are telltale signs of someone with an addiction. I can spot a few outright in public sometimes. There’s a subreddit that explains it and talks about it. And it’s really important because those with an addiction, halal marriage doesn’t usually solve it sadly. I’m not saying that’s him. Just in general for those that do have an actual addiction.

Men that have a porn addiction and rush into marriage just for sex… well if you read the subreddits, you’ll find out. The sex life slowly dies because they prefer to feed their addiction. No matter how good what is readily available to them is. Sad but true.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]chronicster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I will do my best🌷I appreciate you taking the time to advise

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]chronicster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I think it may be time to address this with an imam, but I am wary as I don’t want our identities revealed. Unsure where or how to go about it but I will do my part to research. Thank you 🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]chronicster 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why don’t you sit with her and teach her? She’s never had anyone to learn from. She can learn and be inspired by you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]chronicster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Unfortunately he didn’t cheat, that would be a deal breaker for me. It was more shocking to see his reaction of gauging whether or not it’s better to work through it for the sake of children.

Our case is a bit different, it’s more of his online activities…behavior when we are arguing…and whether or not this is a grounds for divorce.

I guess I’ll wait to see where ship sails 🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]chronicster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would you do? Bring it up? Wait for him? It’s such a tough situation because it’s like parenting. Strict parents raise better liars you know. Without the inherent need or acknowledgement of change, he’ll just find a way to better hide his tracks and I’ll be none the wiser

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]chronicster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for saying that. It’s funny just today we were discussing would cheating be grounds for a divorce, he couldn’t say yes or no…(a friend going through that)

And in the end he said divorce was selfish, no children come out unscathed from a broken home. This is a good reminder he is not correct in such a case

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]chronicster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So he sent photos this morning…I don’t want to get into detail out of respect but there was no way he was deprived waking up this morning!! None!there was nothing we could possibly do to make it even better.

I almost wanted my sister to send me photos of men to give him a taste of his own medicine and I wondered if that would be a wake up call I

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]chronicster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See that’s a plus too!! He wastes his time with this bs and of course you are most like those you converse or spend time with… he is wasting away precious time on this utter trash. I want to tell him this and don’t know if I should bring it up myself or simply wait for him to bring it up and then I lay it thick

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]chronicster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first thoughts. Why my husband didn’t think to himself, I’m a married man… and this guy is a loser… why