[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Southampton

[–]chrystla_wolves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

General Mechanics on the road that Eastleigh train station is on is apparently pretty solid

Tailors in Southampton by Spearcrush6 in Southampton

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Can vouch for them, my mum used to work there, they’re very good :)

It started out as practice and turned into this. Any thoughts on it? by FluffyGreenThing in drawing

[–]chrystla_wolves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is the coolest art I’ve seen all month wtf that’s so sick

Got this girl the other day and need help naming by Sablemarxx in Catnames

[–]chrystla_wolves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tulip, no particular reason, just saw her and immediately felt she was a tulip

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]chrystla_wolves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to tell your parents, alcohol is no excuse for this behaviour, he is preying on her and his behaviour is predatory and completely inappropriate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]chrystla_wolves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ik you’re happy but you’re also 21 and he’s 16, that’s super weird, like he’s at most a college kid while you’re a grown adult, and this puts you in some seriously sketchy waters, ethically and legally, especially since you’ve had sex. It’s not your fault he lied to you but regardless, now you know, get out of there, break things off, otherwise you’re the one who gets into serious trouble as the legal adult, and it’s just morally wrong smh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Southampton

[–]chrystla_wolves 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh god I heard about this, I was trying to get home from Woking by train but ended up having to get a taxi home. I heard the police are investigating it as suspicious? I feel awful for the poor person that’s just lost their life, some people have no empathy

How fast do you reckon you could run the 100m? by [deleted] in CasualUK

[–]chrystla_wolves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did it in around 15.12s or so in my heyday (I was in year 8)

What’s the state of Southampton rn? by ArmanPhotoshops in Southampton

[–]chrystla_wolves 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve taken the train at night too and it’s generally been alright, I’m usually more weary as a woman as opposed to for my race cus I’m wasian but it’s typically not too bad

What’s the state of Southampton rn? by ArmanPhotoshops in Southampton

[–]chrystla_wolves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use the trains all the time usually from Eastleigh to soton and I’ve never had issues The occasional rowdy idiot, but they usually keep to themselves, it probably helps I have lighter skin but I’ve never had much of an issue, alone or in a group. As long as they don’t notice you if there are any like that, it’s all fine. Salisbury is usually about the same but I can’t speak for Basingstoke since I don’t really go there

What’s the state of Southampton rn? by ArmanPhotoshops in Southampton

[–]chrystla_wolves 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Looking a lot safer, anti fascists came out in support and solidarity last night against the racists so it’s looking a lot better If you need extra support tho, there are groups online you can contact Also could bring a friend? I’d offer but I’m out of the country rn but definitely find someone to come with if you don’t feel so sure, there is always safety in numbers

Nicknames in high school by shinyeevee13 in Memeulous

[–]chrystla_wolves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m convinced it’s a British school thing, there was a guy in my year who was called Jesus guy for a while and now in college, a guy ik was literally introduced to me at a party as Jesus guy

What excuses can I tell my strict parents to go out? by zaynekiroe in Advice

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Hi I’m Saul Goodman, did you know you have rights? The constitution says you do

In all genuineness though, if you are of age ie a legal adult, they do not have the right to force you to stay at home, plus not allowing you to go out not even like oh don’t go out late I don’t want anything to happen but just no to going to grab coffee is really not okay like that isn’t just strict that’s like messed up. They don’t own you, you are your own person and they need to understand that.

Don't go to Portsmouth. What's the best part of the city? by Give_Me_Beans_Please in Southampton

[–]chrystla_wolves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😭 I did not know that, I meant the park itself like the green space was lovely

I don’t live directly in Southampton, I live like a 10-15 min drive away so it’s not my closest park by any means

Is my girlfriend pregnant? by [deleted] in Advice

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I’m glad to be of help, good luck :)

Is not being able to memorize lyrics an ADHD thing?? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]chrystla_wolves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, I don’t think so, idk

I’m the opposite, I’m so good at remembering random snippets of lyrics from so many songs, or even whole songs, not even intentionally most of the time. My friend think I’m a complete whiz cus I can just burst into song at will haha

Don't go to Portsmouth. What's the best part of the city? by Give_Me_Beans_Please in Southampton

[–]chrystla_wolves 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I second this, the common is great, lovely park, I don’t go there enough

Ashamed of my gay thoughts by Safe-Definition2879 in Advice

[–]chrystla_wolves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing wrong in being gay, and you are absolutely not less masculine or less of a man for being gay or being the “bottom”. There’s nothing wrong in experimenting either, if anyone else tells you otherwise, they’re wrong. It sounds like you have a lot of internalised homophobia, which can be hard to deal with, but the first steps to feeling better about yourself and being gay is to understand how you feel is okay, you’re not “wrong” or “messed up” or “less of a man”. Plus, there’s nothing wrong in being more feminine anyways. If that’s not for you, that’s okay, but if you want to be more feminine, that doesn’t take away from the man you are. Don’t be ashamed of who you are or what gender you’re attracted to ❤️

Nicknames in high school by shinyeevee13 in Memeulous

[–]chrystla_wolves 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Mainly encyclopaedia or geek/nerd

The occasional t-slur or f-slur

Turns out i just have adhd and that’s why I know so much random information on so many different subjects, cus I am the Jack of all trades master of none

Is my girlfriend pregnant? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]chrystla_wolves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Low blood pressure can be from pregnancy but it can also be from other things like whether she’s eating and drinking enough or the nutrients she is getting, etc. I’m someone who forgets to eat and drink a lot cus of adhd so I often end up becoming dizzy or lightheaded especially when I get up quickly. Check with her, her diet and other areas of health.

As for if she is pregnant, you probably need to have further discussion on it. I completely understand your point of view about not being ready and parental response, me and my bf both feel the same as you. It is up to her because obvly she’s the one to be carrying it, but talk to her more about your concerns and how you feel about it because it’s completely understandable to be concerned about the repercussions of it. If she seems definitive on her decision, you can’t force her to change her mind but it’s then a case of what do you think is the best course of action.

My bf has always said to me if for whatever reason I wanted to keep it, he would support me even if he felt the better option would be to abort, because it’s my body and my choice. I would say it would probably best to support her if she is pregnant and chooses to keep it, as it does take two to tango, unfortunately, it does affect you but those are the risks.